Comments on: How to Heal and Move On After a Toxic Relationship | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

By: @weilikang5610

@weilikang5610 — Wed, 13 Dec 2023 06:18:18 +0000

This video helps me so much. I experienced the same situation as this woman except that my date wasn’t going for other women according to what I knew. It happened a month and half ago. I am heart broken and cried almost everyday. I felt sad, angry of him and disappointed of myself. Whenever I thought about the past with him, my heart hurt. Today I practiced this technique and I feel so much better .

By: @user-mv3dz1io3s

@user-mv3dz1io3s — Tue, 12 Dec 2023 10:23:40 +0000

Thank you for this information. I have struggled with how to let him go in peace without anger and resentment. I will follow your advice so I may move on. I appreciate your help. You rock!!!

By: @Erica-cf1xb

@Erica-cf1xb — Sat, 25 Nov 2023 16:04:38 +0000

In reply to @rezotydnic. I support all of this.

By: @Erica-cf1xb

@Erica-cf1xb — Sat, 25 Nov 2023 16:03:50 +0000

In reply to @barbarakelly1916. That's beautiful. That's the story of my whole life. Always choosing wrong and not honoring myself. I finally got it right.

By: @gill426

@gill426 — Sat, 25 Nov 2023 14:27:19 +0000

To me it feels like your approach and the way of giving the advice in your videos has changed considerably during the last years. I haven’t really seen all of your videos consistently but I’ve noticed that a lot lately and I’m truly touched by how beautiful they’ve gotten. :’) Not that they weren’t beautiful before, only that you added even more.
More very down-to-earth spiritual elements that I like very much and more big heart, I don’t know, it feels like a very genuine and well-meaning way of talking and giving advice.
I’ve actually had tears in my eyes all through listening to this.
I just want to add one thing because it can be really important for the healing too – sometimes or even often, you need to let it all out, you need to let out the anger and the hate and the words you didn’t say when you should have. Sometimes you need to rant and rage it all out and be heard before you can or while you’re moving on to a more compassionate approach (I’m not talking about in the situation like in your example but after a bad experience, you need to address the abuse that you’ve experienced).
That’s just my thoughts about it and I like that you said “Could you feel compassion in the absence of knowing their story?”. That’s been my approach lately too. It’s not always their story because sometimes the story still doesn’t explain anything or you still see people with worse stories being a lot kinder and more humane. But sometimes it’s just recognizing that there is a truth that we don’t yet see that would actually ease the anger and hurt genuinely and in assuming that, we can feel compassion now because it will eventually make sense.
Thank you very much for sharing your advice and help, I really appreciate it.

By: @pavanidevpalaka3306

@pavanidevpalaka3306 — Wed, 22 Nov 2023 06:32:43 +0000

The Second point of this video helped me in moving on from a toxic relationship , I used to estimate his mommy issues and gave myself some reason to show compassion eventually i had forgiven him and myself .

By: @DavidLumberge

@DavidLumberge — Tue, 21 Nov 2023 16:37:07 +0000

In reply to @dorihein4042. Indeed. This is Indeed inspiring.

By: @matboggs

@matboggs — Mon, 20 Nov 2023 23:51:30 +0000

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By: @RRthee1

@RRthee1 — Mon, 20 Nov 2023 17:08:46 +0000

This made me cry. Thank you!

By: @katekoger1794

@katekoger1794 — Sun, 19 Nov 2023 23:05:06 +0000

This is beautiful and incredibly empowering. Thank you! I needed this. Keep being amazing!