How to Know If You Can Trust Him | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and How to Know If You Can Trust Him
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There were so many red flags I thought I was in a parade; I ignored them all until reality hit me off side my head.learned many lessons
1. Listening vs ignoring
2. Is he open and honest or does he have secrets
3. Is he giving or selfish
4. Does he keep agreements or excuses
5. Complimentary or critical
The real MVP are people like you who type the list up in the comments
Appreciated Mat opening up about his past painful lessons learned.
“People believe what they want to.” What we wish were true makes us go for confirmation-bias, and then we make excuses to explain away the unwanted reality of the actual/flawed person in front of us. But this nasty habit always backfires. People are experts at projecting. We project onto someone who we wish that person was, rather than accurately seeing him/her for who they actually are.
Consistent in calling and seeing each other. Not being on his phone when we’re together ( unless necessary ) asking me questions about myself. For example, my likes dislikes, hobbies, etc. Being himself and not overdoing it. Mentioning things we can do in the future together. Expressing his interest in me.
A guy is trustworthy if he gives and hold space, without pressure you or rush in especially in the beginning.
Let him lead if he doesn’t step out
The only way a woman can trust a man is when the man is HONEST. Honest about his shortcomings. Honest about his temptations. Honest about his love for God and his goals and his interests. If he ks not transparent with the woman he loves and he is supposedly devoted to the relationship will not work. Women NEED HONEST men. That’s number one. Anything outside of that is chaos and dysfunction and our generation’s fave word: plain ol’ toxic.
I don’t think a conversation will help if I consistently see red flags because I think a person is who they are, and I can’t change them. In other words, I believe a man doesn’t consider me the right woman for him if he isn’t treating me the way I treat him and as though he cherishes me and our relationship. One or two red flags that occur once may be worth a conversation (but I would ignore it if it only happens once). But multiple red flags or the same ones occurring often might make me run.
I met a new guy about a month ago, we had a lot in common, had great chemistry. I was very happy, but told him I wanted to take it slow. I rushed into my 5 yr relationship that ended a yr ago last month. New guy wanted sex and dumped me today. I guess that’s all that mattered to him. Although, he was always helping me out, cooked dinner, brought food over, etc. I don’t feel he used me. We had a lot of fun together, lots in common. He was only 2 yrs younger, I will miss that part of it. Feeling sad
Can relate so much to this, been together for 3 months, he never did anything for me, hence why I was taking it so slow to see what he’s about. It was just excuses over excuses, passivity, I was the only one with the drive to make things better. I got bored of it, guess I gotta learn how to live my life to the fullest on my own
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This is good. I knew there were signs, but I was hopeful, so I ignored them. He didn’t make excuses for incomplete ideas/activities, he was evasive and they never happened. You affirm what I know in my gut, and give me hope on my move forward. Thank you!
This was Exactly what I needed right now. I saw the signs but ignored them because of my desire for the relationship (+ his other good qualities). I’ll be watching this video again. Thanks, Matt!
You said a few things in your video, Mat, that really hit the nail on the head, started tearing up. I mean all of your videos are great but this one got to me. Thank you.
Listen to your intuition or “gut instinct”. It’s never wrong. Even things like your body talking to you – for me, migraine headaches. I felt something was ‘off”, but gave him the benefit of the doubt. Twice. I have learnt from that.
Good. Go with your instinct. I didn’t for far to long and I ended up being broken hearted. Vowed to myself never ever again
If we start feeling interest in outcome before we know them, we often cooperate by ignoring the signs they displayed.
This is gold. Someone engrave it into a stone.
When he makes you part of his life, like inviting you to events to see what he does for a job or hobbie, or meet his friends, wants to makes you part of his world and you can see, like Mat said, that everything lines up, he is trustworthy 💕
Not necessarily…he could be a narcissist
@@gabrielakarl3859 There is a catch. Narcissists move too quickly and don’t give you enough time and space to take your decision. They kind of rush you into commitment. But with a genuine person, the relationship grows organically and you can feel it.
@@gabrielakarl3859 Ha, than everyone is a narcissist nowadays, just like everyone has BP, BPD, OCD, Autism, etc… Please, just use your common sense.
If the person genuinely wants to share their world with you, you know it. My fiancé did it because he wanted me to see the places he hangs out frequently, the friends with which he shares in those places, the activities, the hours, literally everything. And I felt part of his life, it was important for him that I got to know this. Gonna marry this year after 4 years of relationship ❤️
I’ve learned really listening what he is saying, right from the beginning on. They really telling you who they are!
Not the narcissists
And if you question and they get on the defensive you can’t trust them . I’ve been single almost all my life but I spot the men that gets on the defensive and don’t want to really listen to you . I keep them as friends to do things with them
. In fact I have such friends who strive on helping and going to places with you but they only want to talk about themselves mostly and change subjects a lot .
This is one of my favorite videos! Thanks Mat!
Exactly what I am working on now. My husband passed away last year and our marriage wasn’t great for the last ten years. I need to heal myself, forgive myself for the resentment and learn from the experience. Then I can figure out what I want in a future relationship. I met a great guy and we kissed and I realized I wasn’t ready. I told him that I have a lot to do and I will see you next year. I asked if him if that’s ok. He said yes. So I hope that we can pick it up again in the future.
The perfect video for me today!. I am in the first week of dating after 33 years. I lost my husband a year ago to cancer. You are doing a fantastic job spreading the love!
Thank you so much for this list. It clarified so much for me.