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My husband cheated on me and divorced me for the other women. After the divorce, I stopped all communication with him, I lost 30 pounds, changed my hairstyle, have dinner parties, go to karaoke evenings and simply rebooted my life. My ex now contacts me about random stuff, and he even told me he misses me. The best part is? I don’t want him anymore!
1) pull up a uhaul
2) say “Bye Bye”
3) drive away
4) never give him access to you again
5) he ponders life FOREVER
There are no tricks. He will only miss you if he is already in love with you and if you are the only woman in his life.
Truth
I agree
Preach sis that’s the truth ❤️❤️❤️ took me a while to realize 😭😭😭
Ladies!! Have confidence in yourself because you are amazing. When you truly believe you are amazing, this will be a piece of cake.
Making him miss you is fine. But don’t reach out first. If he misses you so much he can contact you first. Stay in your power. Be strong. Don’t be needy.
Yes! On a small scale, like days or weeks. 30 days as Matt suggested?? That guy is NOT into that girl.
@Patricia That’s true. And if they do contact and claim that they miss you, it just means that they’re lonely and have no supply to fulfill their needs at that moment.
DO NOT CONTACT HIM!! Men who left and maybe come back will ALWAYS be FLAKY. ALWAYS!!
if he doesn’t want you, he’s not coming back, no matter what you do
That’s a lie shut up
True.
Amen
Exactly. And why to waste time on such men who needs to be played games with to get them back. If, by playing tricks suppose he comes back he will definitely repeat his previous behaviour because actually he doesn’t have genuine feelings for u.
@@Queenofrap2011 lol well damn
If I can do without you for thirty days, you already taught me I can do without you. If you need thirty days to figure out what your emotional health is, don’t date.
Yes 30 days is really long to make up your mind if you want someone!
@favorite stark. I have a best friend from high school. Was her rule of thumb
When a relationship would end. She would give her self 30 days of alone time to recoup. Before moving on to the next relationship. She would call it her “alone time”.
I on the other hand. I wouldn’t waste any time moving on. I wouldn’t sleep with them. I would just use these men to buffer out the hurt I was going through. Then when I was ok. I would keep them as friends. I would just make myself scarce. I didn’t see myself hurting them. I just didn’t think men had feelings and would be hurt.
When I got older it wasn’t the same. Men do have feelings. I’ve had some who had no filter telling me how I made them feel. Then I felt bad.
However. I miss my younger self thinking men didn’t have feeling.
I then had sons. Saw them going through range of emotions. When someone had emotionally hurt them.
I guess thus was my karma.
Thank you for letting me vent.
@@mmww9293 No reason why we can’t take her advice now!!! 😀
Lol
@@mmww9293 of course men have feelings, playing them like that was kinda cruel…unless you made it clear from the start to them that you Judy wanted to be f$ck buddies…
If you’re watching this video to try to get your ex back, do yourself the favor and stop, breathe, and love yourself enough to walk away. You’ll be alright. The universe will provide you with the right person in due time. Trust, hope, and have faith 🙂
Yep, always like that. Stop caring, move on with your life and they will miss you. By the time they regret and want to get back, it’s too late. If he doesn’t know what he wants while he has it, he’s not for me.
After 30 days away from him, I realized I didn’t really want HIM anymore
😂 same I’m like that. The more distance I become I’m like eh. I don’t know the hype about them.
Ahahahahahaha!!
🤣🤣🤣
Hahahaha 😂🤣
Quality comment 🤣
You can’t make anyone do anything but you can always love and treat yourself the way you deserve to be loved and treated.
I have discovered that the best way to: Attract, keep and make a man miss you is acting with so much self love and self confidence that he doesn’t have any power in our lives. We just let them participate
Most women can’t do that.
Amen!!
Bingo
I LOVE THIS!!!
@@Telegrm-t_OnlyPwr speak for yourself
Just a quick note: even if you do all these and some ex of yours contacts you saying that they miss you, it doesn’t mean that they have real, genuine feelings towards you. They might just want to feel wanted again and who are they gonna call to give them that feeling of reassurance again? An ex!
They miss you until they meet someone else.
1. Absence: I moved out after he confessed to dating another woman for the last two years.
2. Advancing My Life: Enrolled in college full time while holding down a full time career. I make time to travel and meet new and interesting people.
3. I don’t make myself available for his needs when he’s looking to fill in the week days anticipating the weekend he’ll spend with her during the day and night.
4. I’m not ready to reach out to him. I need time to heal.
@@hurryupnow1 dude move on, it’s over with him. Why would you wanna jump back on that wagon when he proved himself to be deceitful and banged another chick for 2 years???
Oh honey… He doesn’t deserve you. Just move on. Focus on yourself and your life and then when you less expect someone nice will come along and you won’t even remember the original scumbag.
Dot go back!
I’m late at the party, but I hope you moved on… and found *another* BETTER man. He showed you his true self. You worth more than him.
Don’t go back to him and love your self ✌🏻
This does work! When my bf And I broke up for 6 months. I tried these steps and more on a book I read… I focused on myself, gained independence and worked out 3-5x a week. I sent him a bday card saying I want all his dreams to come true and he was a great influence to youths (he is in education). He texted me, said he loved the card and he missed me. We went out on a date the next weekend-As I was busy this weekend plans with friends (wink wink* keep that mystery). We went to a county fair and had a blast. It was carefree and we laughed alot. We were like kids again. I wore an outfit that showed my curves and had no jacket. Yes ladies I did the “its cold out” he gave me his jacket. The rest is history. We are going on strong today-6 years together. Tips: Taking Classes, Part Time Job builds Confidence, Growth, Adventure and Meeting Others.
Stephanie Molina Yaaaaaaaaas honey!
Stephanie Molina thank you for the advice
Better make sure he doesn’t read this! Lol
I may just move on if he gives me 6months being by myself lol great advice!
Hope is very important in our lives, trust, faith but FREDOOM is the best! I like the way you handle your situation.
I appreciate Matt’s concluding comments indicating that if the original relationship was truly meant to be, he will miss you and want to reconnect, but if it was not meant to be, moving forward in this fashion may very well lead to meeting a new guy who is genuinely drawn to the upbeat, dynamic you. I think this distinction is so vitally important to recognize because perhaps your ex and you really aren’t right for each other, no matter how nice/awesome you may both be as individuals.
#1 is so true, but then again, it also gives you a chance for you to know if there worth it or not
That only works, if he is not a cheater. Good luck everyone. And always love yourself. 🙂
That’s what I was just thinking. I suspect that the guy I was with was cheating.
Jazzy Jae tell us why ? Lol
😀
True
In fact you bless him with more time to heat on you!!!