How to Make Them CHASE YOU Without Playing It Cool | Relationship Advice by Mat Boggs

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• Blessings. thanks for all you do, Mat!

• I know a good way to make a man interested in you:
  Listen to him without interrupting when he has something to say.. Maybe you get to know something more about him. When you say something following, it could be to repeat something of what he said. Guys love women who listen to them and remember what they have said, I'm sure.

• When I first met my boyfriend he felt like 'home' immediately. But bear in mind that we had spoken on the phone for several weeks and communicated through emails and texts before that, to get to know each other. He was open and honest about what he was looking for, his standards etc. I found that interesting because my previous experiences were the typical wining and dining to win you experiences. I respected that he was willing to scare off the wrong woman. Lol

• Really, really helpful Mat - thanks so much for sharing this!

• Mat, i love your advice. But could you give a bit more advice to women who already got the man? How to keep growing this relationship in a healthy way. How to move towards marriage or kids, etc? Thanks 🙏🏻

  • Agreed!

  • I’d also love to see more content about this 🙌🏼 I started a new relationship a few months ago and I’m interested in that long term healthy game 💕✨Although I think owning my standards and living my best life are two tips that apply to any stage of the relationship.

  • @@melimevivzla congrats! Those are great tips. Especially keeping your standards since there are a lot of people who are so afraid of losing a relationship that they allow things they would've never allowed before.
    Best wishes for your new relationship ❤️

  • I just got married after being engaged for 2 years. So I definitely would like to hear more content for the already married

• Thanks Matt for excellent overview that confirms that I am following right pathways! We appreciate you!

• I love your wisdom - Thank you ❤

• Someone who respects my boundaries, and doesn’t push his agenda on me, someone who I can communicate with on a honest open level, thanks Mat 🖤🕯️🙏

• 1. Be interested in him or her rather than interesting. Resist the urge to overimpress, as it will come on too strong. Difference in getting to know them versus getting you to like them.
  2. High engagement, low attachment to it working out. Overinvestment scares away. You have options going on.
  3. Be selective. "I'm open to love, and I don't rush into new relationships."
  4. Own your standards; you won't get with just anyone.
  5. Have a life you love outside of him. Learn something new and travel to bring yourself alive. This alive energy is contagious.

  Much better than playing cool and uninterested!

  • Thank you very much

  • @@ghizlanenizar4296 You're welcome.

• I’m looking for a man who loves his life! And is living into his purpose 🎉