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How to Raise Your Self-Esteem (Instantly!) | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

Mat Boggs shares relationship advice for women and 5 how to raise your self-esteem (instantly!).

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Why is it so easy for some women to confidently speak their truth in relationships and ask for what they really want when dating?

I’ll tell you: self-esteem.

When you get in touch with your own self-worth, and raise your self-esteem, high quality men can’t help but be attracted to you!

Which is why, in this video, I reveal the ONE THING that you can do to grow your self-esteem instantly…

You are going to love the results of what this one small thing can do for your self-respect and confidence! 😉

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Mat Boggs Bio:

As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.

As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs? dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.

Mat's Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.

As a dating coach for women, Mat believes that your history does not determine your destiny, and that you are more powerful than any circumstance you are facing. The relationship dream in your heart really can become the life you love living!

Mat Boggs highly acclaimed relationship programs have served women around the world in all age groups.

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Directed and Editing By: Luke Dejoras
Written By: Mathew Boggs

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  • @matboggs says:

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  • @taraelmegreen5527 says:

    Sadly I was broken from childhood to a marriage of 29 years. Out of my brokeness I came to realize I DO have value! It’s VERY powerful and I will not compromise ever again, the depths it takes oneself is beyond pain……and the man who loves me now, encourages me each day….

  • @princessleia1122 says:

    It is difficult to “ALWAYS” have your needs meet when you are in a relationship. Sometimes It could mean your partner always sacrifice and give in to your demands and they cast aside their needs just to meet yours. Compromise is the key and giving too instead of always receiving. Relationship won’t last if based on Selfishness and self centeredness.

  • @selbiyuldashova3221 says:

    When I feel respected and loved, and when I’m able to express myself and listened to, my self-esteem boosts in that moment

  • @catherinetaiye5448 says:

    Wow. You just made me realize that it okay to speak out and talk about what is it , you want in any given time.. Thanks

  • @jenniferworth6156 says:

    WOW! Thank you so much for this video. I always put other people’s needs before mine and have been told by my by daughter that my needs matter too. I have met guys who did all the talking and not asking me anything about me. Now I know how to remedy that.

  • @dianedooley9992 says:

    Wow, your story is very similar to mine. Christian upbringing: put others before yourself. Family rule: don’t make waves, keep the peace. Narc mother: I wasn’t taught or allowed to set boundaries. Constant, subtle critism: Im not o.k., theres something wrong with me. Social experiences in my teens that confirmed my parents view of me. I was very unhappy and finally in my 30’s I decided to watch people who got what they wanted. Amazing!! They asked for it!! Then in my late 50’s someone came into my life who validated and celebrated me for the first time. It gave me wings!!

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  • @mikiwells4572 says:

    Thank you so much for this timely video! Currently, I’ve been going through this stage with my family, friends, work, and men I’ve been dating. For a long time, I have been trying to find balance in my life. That would make me and the people around me happy. But in the end, I’m the one who is depleted and unhappy. Because, my needs are not being met. Since I was a child, always put my needs on the back burner and put others first. That continued into my adulthood. Now that I’ve discovered my worth. I begin to speak my mind and ask for the things that I want. I’ve come to the realization. Like everyone else, I’m worth it and deserve it. I’m not saying it as if I’m privileged and entitled. But I’m a beautiful person inside out. I treat others the way I desire to be treated. I never ask anyone for anything more than I’m willing to give. But people always want to be on the receiving end and not the giving end. As an adult, I take full ownership and responsibility for allowing people to treat me this way. But no more! Now that I have found my worth and put emphasis on taking better care of me. I found my voice. Now that I’m utilizing it, some people have a problem with it. Because they can no longer control you. At this stage in my life, I’m removing all the toxins just for my own survival, peace of mind and happiness. Thank you so much for producing this video! This is a confirmation from God. I’m moving in the right direction. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

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  • @adriennevanstaden9460 says:

    My selfesteem comes from knowing my DADDY IS THE KING of the Universe….I am His daughter and the apple of His eye….that gives me the self worth I need…..really enjoying your videos Matt Boggs…..😍

  • @secretshaman189 says:

    Nice example, thank-you Mat. I build self esteem by accomplishing goals, but have learned that if I show respect/ consideration for the other person, it is much easier to ask for what I want. So many people, like you say, do not respect/love themselves. As the Bible teaches, “love thy neighbor AS thyself”. We forget/reject ourselves too often.

  • @rezotydnic says:

    Boy did I ever need this today

  • @footyfan101ful says:

    I have been having self esteem issues for a few years but I was humiliated during the week and it destroyed me. So this is my sign.

  • @LadyDarkSunMoon says:

    This was a greatly insightful video! Considering my New Years resolution has been to become more assertive because I found out one of the main reasons my relationships went astray was because I yielded all the time to meet everyone else’s demands and never even considered what *I* wanted or needed.

    I found out that actually doing things, getting something done even if it seems minor or trivial gives me a sense of accomplishment that then boosts my self-esteem because I’m proud that I did something, took some power, instead of waiting for Life to happen or just pass me by, waiting aimlessly and endlessly…

    Voicing out my opinions in business meetings and participating instead of being under the false belief that my input doesn’t matter…

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  • @mariamorozova3523 says:

    Thank you so much for sharing your childhood story (I saw myself in it 😢…) and the insights about inconveniencing others and irritation!! I will start to pay attention to what behavior of others irritates me.

    For me, accepting praise, compliments with “thank you” and appreciation with “you are welcome” have really elevated my confidence 😊 as it told me “yes, that’s true, I’m worthy”

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  • @marionandrews176 says:

    Self-esteem is really the key to so many good things in life. I don’t have one thing that I do to build up my self-esteem other than to remind myself that if I do not speak up or do for myself, no one else will.

    • @easygoing6397 says:

      for sure!!

    • @mareewragg177 says:

      I agree, Marion.I have always thought that good self esteem, good self confidence comes from knowing that you can handle whatever Life throws at you. But if you know you cannot, you are screwed, especially if it is not possible for you to develop those skills, ie because you are physically disabled, have poor learning skills, whatever. Then there is NOTHING in your life that you know you can sell, that people will want.

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  • @carlosverde-datingtips7001 says:

    Confidence and Self-Esteem appear to go hand in hand.

    What Mat did as a 9 year old was pretty courageous going against the wishes of his older siblings.

    And guess what? The more you do things that take courage – the more your self-esteem grows, and so does your confidence.

    So in summary, if you want to raise your Self-Esteem – start facing your problems head-on.

    Because every time you shy away from your problems – you’re getting weaker, but when you do decide to face them, you’re getting stronger.

    Anyway, that’s my two cents.
    -Carlos Verde – Dating Tips

  • @goldenmackerel6412 says:

    So important advise for me! I always hesitate to ask something for myself. And it is a signal for my subconscious mind that I’m not worthy of it. Next time I will be self assertive! I deserve the best in my life!

  • @shale7005 says:

    Matt I have really enjoyed this video because having your needs met is very important. Receiving is equally as important as giving. One thing that you can start with to build self esteem is simply saying ‘Thank you’ when someone pays you a compliment. When you have low self-esteem it’s very easy to dismiss it and push the compliment away, but without realising it, you’re unintentionally telling the other person their compliment is a lie. Saying thank you is a very effective way to accept the compliment, and this can be a starting point to build self-esteem.

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  • @boertung says:

    Self-esteem is no 1 for wholehearted connections. First be friend with yourself and treat yourself as you would treat and respect your best friend. Then you support yourself with a confidence when standing up for yourself

    • @carlosverde-datingtips7001 says:

      Confidence and Self-Esteem appear to go hand in hand.

      What Mat did as a 9 year old was pretty courageous going against the wishes of his older siblings.

      And guess what? The more you do things that take courage – the more your self-esteem grows, and so does your confidence.

      So in summary, if you want to raise your Self-Esteem – start facing your problems head-on.

      Because every time you shy away from your problems – you’re getting weaker, but when you do decide to face them, you’re getting stronger.

      Anyway, that’s my two cents.
      -Carlos Verde – Dating Tips

    • @boertung says:

      @@carlosverde-datingtips7001 long nice reply Carlos , thank you. I see self esteem and self confidence as two brothers as well. See the value in one self and accept what is and let oneself be brave, create and have guts to show what makes you glow and attract people that can compliment that to a team like Irene&Mat <3

    • @carlosverde-datingtips7001 says:

      @@boertung no problem! Lol – I’m glad we’re on the same page!

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  • @bethmccauley4113 says:

    I experienced, same, never allowed to order “expensive” dessert. Message “your not worth it”.💔. adult me ordered desert first… honored me, never had to order desert again,!!!!! I’m worth it NOW!!♥️💝

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