How to Reject a Man You’re Not Attracted to without Crushing Him | Relationship Advice by Mat Boggs
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As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
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I still think it sucks to possibly hurt someone. I HATE it, but I also know that if the chemistry is not there, then there is absolutely NOTHING I can do. I want him to find the love of his life! The woman who will love him hard. I really do care.
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Excellent advice . I had a guy tell me “you’re attracted to me but you just don’t realize it 😂. Some people don’t quit . So the no chemistry argument it’s really good because you can’t change chemistry. And being loving in the rejection is a great point
I say pretty much what you suggested and I add that I’m going to step aside so the perfect woman for him will find him. And that’s sincere.
This is so true! Its takes two to tango, so to speak. I also belive its either mutual attraction, or it isnt any attraction. Only one person being interested (often the guy) is just not aware of what he actually wants and what he actually feels. I have met many of those guys myself. They belive they met the women of their life (me) but they havnt because I dont feel the same for them. The attraction is always mutual, or the attraction doesnt exist.
You’re not rejected, you’re protected 🏆
Amen!
I recently let a guy down after I paid close attention to his chats, he said he’ll never have kids, he doesn’t want to, and I do want to have kids, so I told him ‘you’re a great guy but you don’t want to be a dad and I still have hopes of being a mom, so I guess this just won’t work’
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I just came out of a horrible 15 month relationship and this is SO relevant.
Even though the guy was pretty unkind to me for the final 6 months, I see now my part in it: I *knew* right from the start that we weren’t a good match, but he was so keen and so certain that we were a perfect match, that I just went along with it — because it “wasn’t so bad.”
Over time he couldn’t help but sense my feelings, and it made him bitter and resentful. And then, of course, it *was* “so bad.”
He chose to react the way he did, his behaviour is on him and it was pretty bad. I’m not taking responsibility for his actions.
But the lesson I’ve learned is to cut your losses early if there’s no chemistry or if your gut is saying “this isn’t the one.”
so sorry you went through that, but I just learned something from your perspective. Thank you and hope you find someone better
What I said was this” I can’t love you the way you deserve to be loved, you deserve someone you’ll be in love with and them in love with you, which unfortunately is something I can not offer you. it would be a lie to stay in a relationship with you and do no good for either of us, I would eventually grow resentful, you deserve better then what I can offer you.”
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I always coach people to follow the golden rule. I would want someone to just be honest with me. Ghosting not required. The phrase I recommend most often is, “It was great/ wonderful/lovely to meet you, I don’t think this is going to be the romantic connection we were hoping for, but I wish you…“ This could be ‘a great summer’ or ‘a happy holiday season’ or whatever would be pertinent and reasonable based on when this lack of a future is being shared with the other person. Honesty is powerful, And when shared with kindness and respect… the best policy!
Just when I was about to loose my lover to another man, this great MAN came through to help with his spells and I’m forever grateful #dragege
Omgeeee! I love this!!!! Using it!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
the golden rule is stupid – i don’t want people doing to me what they want done to them.. i’ve seen the internet.
@@_xBrokenxDreamsx_ Hahhaha.
The golden rule is fantastic. It’s people that are stupid.
Tried this, his response was “I love you”–only knew me 2 weeks, never even kissed. I ghosted him b/c that scared me.
Wish I saw this video YEARS ago it would have prevented me breaking a lot of hearts. Not that I intentionally meant to break them but I just didn’t know the right way to go about it
If you often have a hard time saying “no” to people who you care about or you find yourself saying “yes” to people just to make them happy, it won’t help you to know where to draw the line so that you won’t get walked all over by others.
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Hi Matt, I always found your advice to be good, I was on a dating site recently and I received a message from a guy I was not attracted to and I said that I appreciate his interest in me but I don’t see this going anywhere ( see we wanted different things too) I wished him well on his journey and hope he find the women of his dream. And his response he thanked me for let him know and wish me well too I always afraid of hurting people so I do it this way I am always being rejected by guys that I am attracted to, and seem to attract men that I not attracted too bit frustrating but that is another story
Julie, that has always happened to me too! It is frustrating.
Julie me too!!! And in the same token the ones I’m not attracted to go above and beyond but the ones I am put in minimal effort. Matt please make it make sense lol 😂
@@xbubbles10x I watch Dr. John Gray’s videos & he says to go with those guys who invest or like u more that ur not attracted to at 1st, not to the ones u find attractive to u cause he says they won’t appreciate & invest in u as much. He says the attraction will grow over time from the ones ur not attracted to at 1st. I say “how does that work”? How do u get turned on by someone where no attraction & chemistry exist at 1st? Don’t we need that to have in a potential partner? I do..Go figure…
@@dianneciresi6324 thanks! I haven’t heard of John gray but I’m certainly gonna check him out
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I say I think there are people out there who are a better match for both of us. Thanks Matt!
I just DID THIS yesterday (Friday ) !!! After 4 months of dating and calls and long talks (no sex), it dawned on me, that while this guy was very compatible & we enjoyed each others company, he was definitely prioritizing ME, there was no “WOW” ….. so I used the “no chemistry” that I learned in Manifest your Man from Mat. We are on good terms, and he has invited me to call him, if I change my mind…..BUT, as I suspected, he still tried to turn the no chemistry into 1) me lacking experience with strong men (incorrect), 2) me not having sexually experienced a virile man such as himself (LOL wrong again) 3) differences in raising, I am from the South & he is West coast (wrong) and FINALLY he says “I am not used to women not being into me !! Through all of these objections, I just kept saying, “it’s simply a matter of chemistry” and he finally acknowledged.
Congratulations,…I think you dodged a real bullet there. He sounds like a jerk.
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I had a guy use all these same lines on me!!!
Right on, Mat! I may go on 2 dates but when he asks/calls for the 3rd, I tell him, “I don’t have the passion for you that I am looking for. Let’s continue to be friends.” I usually find something that would make a partner a better fit like, likes cycling more than I do, likes to hike, can play golf, etc.
Just when I was about to loose my lover to another man, this great MAN came through to help with his spells and I’m forever grateful #dragege
The best is yet to come.🙏🏼🙌🏼
I removed myself from social media because there are guys who have been interested in me and no matter how gently I’ve told them that I am not they insist. So I am letting time go by so they can move on. I am very interested in one who is on that particular platform (however I’m not putting my life on hold for him) but cannot move forward because I am not yet divorced but more so because I think he is still not available. I don’t know if we would be compatible but I would like to see if we were. Never break the heart of a person who is interested in you because you’re not interested. Always treat people with love, dignity and compassion. It is always an honor to have somebody be interested in you and love you.
Two words…Be Honest
Let him know what you want or don’t want..period.
That’s kinda like listening Pro & Cons…?? Leading guy on is dumb.