How to Release the Fear of Rejecting Others | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and how to release the fear of rejecting others
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I’m a guy but I deal with this a lot, I always get this feeling of “how dare I potentially change their day/week/year for the worse?” this video was very helpful
Thanks
I have both..fear of rejecting someone and fear of getting rejected. Both are very intense fears for me so meeting people and relationships are difficult for me.
You amy do a video about how a dopamine from a shallow fancy lifstyle (playing videogames too often) or other activities like that
may affect our mentala nd physical health and values.
Because too much dopamine either from fancy sex or movies, or fancy anything, actually may cause a great boredom and lack of motivation.
because when you get high dopamine level in brain, the brain receptors shut down and desensitize..
and then the person becomes bored, and feels no pleasure from other activities, like walking a dog, playing footbal, or tennis, or reading book or play piano,
or go to a restaurant or to theater etc.
On the other hand doing sport increases immunity and mood and seretonin and dopamine in healthy way.
I never heard anyone put this into words! And I just realized something about the subject that makes doing the right thing even easier: you would hate it as well if someone was with you just because they felt sorry for you or afraid to tell you the truth. You wouldn’t want anyone to do that to you so don’t do it to someone else.
I came across a couple of other people who talk about relationships and you’re the only one I kept watching. So insightful thank you!
Micromanagement or hustling can be a bit nonproductive… if it’s not driven by real inspiration or imagination, that contains nonjudgment.
and inspiration usually comes from the present moment. It’s not planned or scheduled.. 🙂
and therefore people need to be open-minded to be inspired. At that moment you are so creative that you don’t even realize you are hustling and shifting attention.
Because you are inspired and creative for no specific reason.
And Ariana Huffington said a funny comment when she was a young student, she felt a bit judgmental about herself…. and she said that her inner critic was constantly bothering her.
She called it the obnoxious roommate in my head who is saying this and that. It’s an interesting way to describe it.
Then the thing about when the right time for sex can be difficult, …
there must be some mental connection for long-term relationship
and second I feel like the nice women don’t care as much about sex…..but passion and intimacy.
and during the real passion and intimacy the less you speak the better because you do not want to ruin the whole thing with analyses. :))))
It’s like you go to a concert of classical music and you would enjoy it less if the conductor would start rehearsals with some strange noises and comments.
and you miss the perfect moment of the music and its passion. Maybe therefore the nice women wait for the right moment of the sex because they respect the other partner and also the experience.
It’s not about sex but more about the connection of the mentality. In classical music, the timing is also important.
The problem with us people is that the less we judge ourselves and others, the more we focus and enjoy the day.
and also the more we start to like people, no matter what our purpose is, we like the neighbors more, etc.
But television and society created such judgmental smog, that we need to also practice some yoga, Chi-Gong, or other activities to calm down the mind and practice empathy to gain health and happiness back.
Also, we should analyze things less, also about positive things… because it lowers the energy of the body and it lowers the mood. If I analyze I will go for a walk today or tomorrow, it lowers the energy, because of the constant thinking and feeling loop…. no matter whether the topic is positive or negative. We should analyze less and enjoy more. But productive analysis is a good thing.
But there is also the type of analysis that is just a program of our mind.
then you come back with no conclusion and come back to the place where the analyses started. It doesn’t matter what color of hair is or whether someone is doing sports on Monday or Wednesday etc. This is the type of non-productive analysis that television often does just for entertainment. They say you have to buy the product now. A little bit off-topic, but I realized as some lady pointed out that the less she is analyzing stuff the more energy and happiness she feels. Then you can be a good material for some partner.
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Your analysis is always do pertinent and well explained . Thank you do much for your great work. I find you are extremely intelligent and sensitive.
Omg… epiphany. By allowing myself to be rejected by someone else it means loving myself and allowing actually freeing myself to the opportunity to someone who is better suited for me and also someone who will love them exactly as they are…. Powerful stuff. 1:36 I had to watch this one multiple times….for me this means more work to do… because no one likes rejection … but as it turns out rejection is a good thing…. Find a positive in a negative situation
That’s one thing that’s been holding me back because once I see that somebody is interested in me I have somewhat of a hard time trying to let them know that I’m not interested. The one person that I am currently interested doesn’t even approach me! But that’s okay because he also has a right to reject or ignore. To his credit, he doesn’t know I’m interested because I’m not going to tell him but I hope that someday he notices. 😊
Nobody has the right to ignore thats just mean
I said yes to a maybe. Didn’t look like any of the guys I had dated in the past. The ones that checked all of the “physical” boxes. I said yes. And I fell for him. Big time. Then he dumped me because he was afraid people would say I could find someone better looking. 😂
I have a lot of respect for your videos and I understand that this was made with the kindest intentions. However, you neglected to include the safety aspect of what it means to be a woman and reject a man. Unfortunately no matter how kind or empathic or loving your rejection may be, there are still some men who will react to being rejected with physical or emotional violence. This is a topic on which you’ve given some beautiful heartfelt advice, but you’ve excluded a key self preservation part of what it means to be a woman, which has the unfortunate potential to put some of your viewers in unsafe situations. Take care.
Oh my gosh, the timing on this. Phew. But, for me, I’ll talk to and meet anyone, usually thinking innocently. It usually backfires and causes me to have to reject. It’s heartbreaking.
Right now!
It’s exactly what I needed to hear, but I’m still feeling mixed emotions and still thinking I don’t want to hurt anyone. It’s polarising which is making me feel stuck.
Thanks.
Yes!!!!! Needed this one!
Love this… let’s not hold people hostage (self and others) . Happy Rejecting
“Happy Rejecting”! That made me laugh. Talk about a positive spin.