Comments on: How to Stop Being The Nice Guy

By: @sebastianwrites

@sebastianwrites — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 10:32:11 +0000

I agree with some of this, but women need to step up!
I began sexually developing at just ‘8’ years old, when I didn’t even know what masturbation was.
And I had girls and women being very sexually aggressive towards me… but very rarely demonstrating the sincerity to take an emotional risk. So, hypocritically by 24, I had far less sex than most guys.
This video itself is sexist to an extent, what the onus is put on the man, and not the woman.
If women are equal, then why are they not expected to make an equal effort in approaching a man?

By: @ArneAsada69

@ArneAsada69 — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 10:21:13 +0000

In reply to @khisk8. Also, please change your makeup, Kezia.

By: @greggy9786

@greggy9786 — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 07:57:32 +0000

How to stop to be nice guy – don’t look.

By: @adrianparker-e9f

@adrianparker-e9f — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 06:26:21 +0000

“Go hard or go home !”

By: @adrianparker-e9f

@adrianparker-e9f — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 06:25:32 +0000

1:32 that was me ! Although i had mastered the art of a conversation, i just couldn’t escalate ! (I would feel that things had gone nicely, she was happy talking with me and that i should leave it at that; leave her with this ‘lasting impression’ ! But clearly, not making any proposition doesn’t get you anywhere, and just ‘tacking’ something on at the end of a chat just comes across as weak. Personally, i find it much easier to be more direct from the start, then i’m not making it more difficult for myself by trying to ‘change lanes’. ( also, remember, you will get rejections regardless of what you do, so it is better to be remembered as being bold, direct, assertive, confident etc. than as being weak.

By: @adrianparker-e9f

@adrianparker-e9f — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 06:16:09 +0000

In reply to @JohnBrown-wr8co. My mother felt that way too. I got the impression that my mother didn't like the 'modern woman' and that her sons ( five of them, and all nice guys !) were better off with out them ! But i would explain that i am living in the world as it is now, and i have to go with what i'm given. ( also, the idea of a man wanting an intimate, physical relationship with a woman seemed to be something she couldn't understand.)

By: @adrianparker-e9f

@adrianparker-e9f — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 06:07:50 +0000

In reply to @Bias_Prineus. @@jona826 I think you hit the nail on the head there ! I was a nice guy right through my twenties and was able to change this around in my thirties. I felt like i was an 'extrovert trapped in the body of an introvert !'

By: @adrianparker-e9f

@adrianparker-e9f — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 06:04:56 +0000

In reply to @raymondeichler442. Up until my early thirties i was the glasses wearing, nerdy, apologetic nice guy and never had any interest from women. In my thirties i got out there and met as many women as i could; all different types. I found that after a time that i seemed to naturally adapt and adopt the behaviours that were necessary. ( actually, even if i had received advice like this in my twenties, i would probably have rejected it; i was stuck in that 'be yourself' mentality.)

By: @dorongreenwood5426

@dorongreenwood5426 — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 05:27:51 +0000

Some good points

By: @adegbenroagoro5180

@adegbenroagoro5180 — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 04:22:32 +0000

Kezia