How to Tell a Man What You Want From Him, AVOID THIS MISTAKE | Relationship Advice by Mat Boggs

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• True ❤ I have the same situation 🥰right on point 😊…amazing point

• Thanks so much for this ,it is so timely for me 🙏

• Great video.

  My request:
  Can you create content and produce a video to talk about a long distance relationships and how to be creative and bond more closely due to the distance? Thanks!

  I would love for you to go deeper in this dynamic and guide on how to have a long and lasting relationship.

  My goal in my situation:
  We live 3.5 hrs by car, or 45 min by air, away from each other. I would love to see him two - 4 day weekends Friday-Monday each month. I did request that and he said yes we could but just wanted your input on others going thru this.

  Thanks in advance. ❤

• Since the beginning of time, men are not mind readers and us women, on some levels, usually expect men to instinctually know what we want. Thank goodness our brains are wired differently.

  Otherwise there would be no mystery or journey to romance and love. Getting clear on what we want and expressing it without fear, but with a gentle nudge is a great practice to take up. Thanks for being on point. Really good content, Mat!

  • @AMDay.xj7tb. I guess that's where communication comes in. Being able to express your thoughts and feelings to each other matters. Thanks

  • ​@@kemi.a.2000Exactly because, guess what?? Women are not mind readers either so communication and removing the guess work for each other is the best thing we can do in a relationship. I don't know what he is thinking if he doesn't find a way to communicate it to me. Whenever we care about someone we should never keep them in the dark about what we need from them. Love this topic so much!

  • Men are hunters. If they're not, sadly they" re not interested or they haceeotional problems like being afraid of a refuze.

  • An they are too conceited. I met men that couldn't speak the invitation to go together to a festival. Instead of saying: 'I d like to invite you to...." he said " are you attanding..." So? Or he coudn't estalbish an appointement, a tade a place and an hour. He was saying: we ll talk later, I"ll see later. A sick behavoir. Lole he was depending on someone elese, or a certain secret event, not on his free will. An everyone I met was like this.

• Ladies, remember that if you don't know then he certainly doesn't know. Clear, specific communication is needed for you both. No one wants to waste time guessing

• Matt, I have a question for you. When a man says you have been good to me or you are good to me what does he mean?

• This is really good advise… being clear in what we want. Not only in love, but with everything that’s important to us 😊

• Mat, this is such excellent advice!!! Thanks ever so much! At my age, truly wish I had been advised of this many, many years ago.

  • Sounds good, Nice meeting you.❤

• Great advice Mat! Men are so good with tangibles and specifics, not so good at guessing at what women want, and we need to learn to be more specific with how we communicate our desires.

  • You're right❤

• Tell him about your needs and how you would like him to meet your needs.
  It is all about communication 🙂