How To Turn A Negative Into A Positive #datingadviceformen

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• LOVE IT!

• Yes.

• Isn't this only good for creating a short term relationship?

  If we can't make progress to resolve problems, and i reward her for being uncompromising, then we are setting up problems to build and discouraging behavior that would solve it.

  • I think the idea is that the topic in this situation is something that the person has their heels digged in ready to defend, for example politics where it will take a long period of time to fully change someone’s perspective

  • @mikelitorous5570  that's kinda my point. I'm all for pushing those kinds of conversations back to know if they are worth having, but If it is something fundamental, then rewarding the difference is a very bad move.

  • It gives her a sense of individuality and uniqueness, that you are showing respect for. It shows maturity in the situation, a couple does not need to agree on every topic, but they can agree on other topics. It stabilizes a conversation without hindering another person.

  • This is still early stages, and she might bring up politics for example. This hook is a combination of validation and reconciliation so that you control the direction of the conversation.

• She looks different these days

  • The wall is undefeated. Still no husband, still depends on simp johns to pay her bills.

• Well I'm living surely that's going to benefit all women across the world. Women will always want the rare breeder that's a positive

• What if she answers no to the question about never agreeing?

  • Then that is a step in the direction of you both agreeing to the topic, but right now you two don’t agree, so you have more to discuss with her don’t you.

• Oh that's good!

• _[sorry, distracted by that necklace]_ I hate “let’s agree to disagree”, I want to discuss the topic and hash out the reasons why we each of us think the way we do for ourselves. That is what honest respectful conversations are all about. Probably why most women don’t like me, I don’t like fakeness.