In this presentation, we cover 4 of the most common tests a woman can throw your way in the early stages of dating and exactly how to handle each of them so you can increase her attraction and love for you instead of losing her. Even the sweetest, nicest women will usually test you at some point when you're dating them or even if they're just THINKING about dating you, so learning to pass her tests is a MUST…
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The jealousy test is an interesting one, until now I didn't know about it. My ex-used it on me and it completely messed with my head coursing retro-active jealousy. Wish I had seen this video a while ago! Keep them coming.
"S-Tests" are good for the guy too, because they tell you more about the particular nature of each specific woman.
Here are the ways I'd advise to respond to these 4 tests..
1). Direct Verbal Challenges:
You simply respond authentically. And, if you [authentically] get emotionally bent out of shape from her verbal challenges, then this means you may not be adequately equipped to handle a relationship with this particular woman. Because, these tests are indicative of who this woman is and what there's likely to be more of. So, if you inauthentically "pass" her tests, you will eventually fail them in the future, bcuz the authentic "you" is not equipt to handle everything that comes with her. This "authenticity" rule applies to all 4 tests.
2). Jealousy Test:
Speak up and voice if you were uncomfortable with her behavior and you felt it was inappropriate. Respectfully state your feelings and boundaries. Give her the opportunity to decide if she's willing to respect and agree to your boundaries. If not, then you know she's not the right woman for you. Thence, you've saved the both of you time, headaches and possible heartaches. And, you'll have eloquently done so whilst honoring and maintaining your own sense of dignity.
3). Favors Test:
If favors become too big, too frequent, or inappropriate, then let her know how you feel. Then, allow her to decide if she's willing to respect your feelings and boundaries, or not. If she does like you and/or respect you enough, then she'll stop asking for these favors. If she doesn't stop, then simply let her know that you won't tolerate it and she'll have to either change her behavior, or you'll have to end things with her. Then, the ball is in her court. (And, you'll maintain your power and your dignity).
4). Flake Test:
Respond exactly the same way as the "favors test". Be reasonable and fair. But, express how you feel if it's crossed the line into disrespectful behavior (whether being excessively late with no calls, or making excuses, or being frequently late). Whenever she begins displaying disrespectful behavior in any way, respectfully
let her know that it's not okay, and it won't be tolerated. Then, it's up to her to decide if she's willing to put in the extra effort to change her behavior. If she's not, then you know that you aren't that important to her, and you can simply cut ties with her. This way you'll prevent yourself from wasting any extra time with the wrong person.
Brilliantly put. I wish I could give you a hundred thumbs ups.
Im a woman and just realized I do numbers 1 and 3 often, subconsciously. But I never do the jealousy test that’s childish and a red flag imo. I only “flake” for an emergency and I’ll always offer to reschedule if I’m interested.
1. DIRECT VERBAL CHALLENGE
A. Agree and exaggerate it
B. Ignore it completely
C. Take it as a huge complement
2. JEALOUSY TEST
A. Don’t react negatively
3. FAVORS TEST
A. Don’t be easy, ask her to do a favor too.
B. Politely decline her big favor at the beginning stage
4. FLAKE TEST
A. She’s not interested in you
B. She could be testing you
C. Emergency came up (rare to happen)
Response positively, be cool about and let her re-engage with you.
Gentlemen, be cool and don’t be an easy prey. All the best.
The big favor part is really crappy. I declined a friend/date who is a model and way too ego-oriented who asked me to pick up a dress for her, to which I politely declined. She once left a bra in my backpack and I returned it to her job as a package deliverer... I think that beyond the occasional sex, nothing good is coming out of that and I only have that purpose as well. Such a bad thing.
Unfortunately the testing never ends no matter how good you are at passing them
If a woman tries to make me jealous by telling him how awesome her ex is, where he took her, what he drives or how much he spent on her...I would say, that’s nice...you should get back with him he sounds awesome...and watch how they react lol
@Shital Jit it’s natural for us to test each other. We do this unconsciously rather we know it or not. That’s the nature of masculine and feminine relationships. Wouldn’t you think that we both want to see if the other is worthy. There is a really good book that’s I’ve read it’s called the way of the superior man. It’s available on YouTube as an audiobook. It’s a great book that gives great insight on masculine and feminine interactions
@Denaro Fair why should u let women test u ? instead u should test them as this man said 😉
Yeah well I simply told one girl after about 3 weeks that ,no I'm done trying to impress you if your not interested or if you dont know that your going to stay with me by now. I guess you should leave. I'm not going to compete so make up your mind so she stuck around for about another month and I say so be it .good by .
Wrong wrong wrong both of you. That’s failing the test
absolutely!!!!! ...also say if he is so great why is he your ex
Both genders test each other when you're dating. It's part of getting to know one another. Or you can be straight up and tell her what you feel. Why any one settles for someone they have to walk on eggshells for, is beyond me. Her, "You're lame." Me, "You aren't funny, learn some manners." If you let her get away with rudeness aka bs. That's how she'll be for all of the relationship.
Be wary of the 'princess test' as my step-mother calls it... the idea is basically a knight devotes his life to a princess and to prove his faith she tosses a napkin into a pit of dragons telling him to get it. She doesn't value your life and is just testing to see how far you'll go until you break.
She is not worth another thought
My rule is this: If she cancels, then I will not ask her out again. It is then up to her to make it up to me by asking me out.
Just like sales negotiations, always be prepared to walk away.
Ian Butler exactly like sales negotiations. Whoever cares more about the sale will lose
moment of silence for those who are ignored and think they are being tested😂
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