If He Does This, He’s Hiding Strong Feelings for You | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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• My partner is still working to figure his feelings. But his actions are very very much giving, kind, respect, all-out doing anything he can to take care of me and be there for me if I need him. He's an avoidant personality (not a narcissist, just avoiding behind hurt), but he's willing to be open and talk about his feelings and concerns slowly... So it's amazing how things are going IMO.

  One day at a time
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• Is praying for you /with you 🙏 ❤️ 💙 is ok

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• Mat, you are explaining things very well! This exactly how a good man behaves if he is into a woman. He will care about everything that is also dear to her and his gestures will show that also. Great use of humor in this video 😊

• A man in love will overcome his own objections. My boyfriend was not in a relationship for several years and said that he was not interested in changing his life to try to fit a relationship. I simply said that if the person you’re in a relationship with is a chore, then you’re not in the right relationship. In a great relationship, you want that time with them. You’re not feeling you have to make time. We were friends at the time. But a few months later, he was asking me to dinner and trying to carve out time for us to spend together. Now we’re inseparable. If you’re being the best version of yourself, there is no pleading or convincing required. He will step up, and all you have to do is let him.

  • So ask him for me, when he said "I'm not interested in changing my life" what was he thinking and feeling in that moment as he was saying that to you? Please.

  • " I simply said that if the person you’re in a relationship with is a chore, then you’re not in the right relationship. In a great relationship, you want that time with them. You’re not feeling you have to make time......If you’re being the best version of yourself, there is no pleading or convincing required. He will step up, and all you have to do is let him."

    I couldn't agree more.

• Matt, I feel he is not prioritising me. What can I do to change it?

  • The only thing you can do is get busy with other things so that he has to do more to be with you. As another coach said, men don’t change because you give them more of what they already don’t appreciate. If you become busy with life, he either does more to make sure he doesn’t lose you, or he doesn’t notice. And if he doesn’t notice, it’s time to re-evaluate who you give your heart and energy.

  • change the man instead, not the situation

• 👍 GREAT SIGNS AS USUAL. APPRECIATE ALL YOUR INFO THROUGH ALL THESE YEARS ! 🪴

• ❤ My person and I have not started a proper in person relationship other than a 22 minute in person meeting over a year ago. Even though I'm 99% sure he wants to. He has issues with past wounds etc and 2 sons he needs to consider. But he's choosing not to use me when he could. He's not sure he can give me enough priority. I don't know where this will end up, but I feel my feelings for him (which I've made him fully aware of) are justied that he could/could've been the right sort of person for me.

• Uhh, he's protective? But so are sibling brothers or cousins. I know of one that spoke so low, I couldn't hear him when he was speaking.

• First sign: 2:01
  Second sign: 3:23
  Third sign: 4:33
  Fourth sign: 5:36
  Fifth sign: 8:49

  • Thanks for doing that. He talk too much!!

  • I appreciate you doing this for us . Thanks