If You Want More From Someone Who’s Not Ready DO NOT CHASE Do THIS Instead | Mat Boggs

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• I’m going on a first date today … this video came at the right time 😅❤ thank you Matt!

  • Have fun!

• I met someone ❤ special 6 months ago. So far, we're just friends. Time ⏳️ will tell.

• That was the video I really like to listen today! Wow, thank you Mat

• One of your best videos ever. It came at the exact time I needed it. Thank you…

  • Glad it was helpful!

• 1. Claim your peace
  2. Claim an empowered mindset
  3. Claim the relationship – have a direct conversation
  4. Be willing to walk away

• Thank you Matt ❤ this is my situation 2 years ago till now I’m in love with someone but his not ready to be with me😭

  • There’s someone out there for you. Stay open to them ❤

• Thank you Mat! Many blessings to your marriage 😘

• Something that stayed with me since you taught it was: “if you knew that the man coming after this current man was amazing and great and “the one”, would you be worried about the current situation?” After that, I’ve been RELAXED ! ❤ thank you Mat!!

  • Thanks for sharing ❤ I’ll take it with me! Really helps to get over a break-up and to keep the faith.

• I walked away 2 months ago because he ould not lead, he stopped setting up dates and I moved on because I know a man must lead , anyway energy was back at me and a guy asked my number at the gym, you should not stay because your emotions wil be unavailable and men ca pick up on that . I did not have a conversation with him I just left.

• This is all completely spot on. I was so exhausted by my mindset that if i tried harder and was all the things a man wanted, i could get a happy ending. And i didn’t. Oh, you’ll get a guy to stay around to soak up the benefits. But you’ll always feel like he’s not there with you, really. And that won’t change by trying harder. Men want you when you expect them to step up and do not take no as an answer. By having peace that it will work out only if he really wants you, and the calmness he brings to your life with that, it makes it so much easier to walk away from the wrong guy. Remember the worry, the heartbreak, how you felt like he never really chose you. And vow that you will not choose pain again, that you deserve happiness. It does mean shifting the mindset. You have to look at men as not who you want, but as who wants you. First and foremost. Then ask yourself how attracted you are and what makes that man good relationship material. If you ask yourself first about wanting him, you’re greatly more likely to chase and end up in heartbreak. When i had enough and learned a lot more about men, i’m finally in a great relationship that i wish i had years ago. The pain i could have saved myself….