Men Are SECRETLY Testing Women In THESE 7 Ways!

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• This list was legit. Great advice.

• My ex is a man with severe mommy issues and expected me to take care of his anxiety & sleep issues all at the same time, expecting me to show up for him in supporting him while his father was unwell. I prayed night after night for his father's well-being, prayed for his own well-being and success. Took a step back from him because taking care of him was draining the hell outta me physically.

  • Wow. My situation was like that no one sick, mommy issues. Long story short he was hooked on gambling, so we not together now. He still trying to get in my lane. I'm trying to stay friends, but he still acting like we still together. I'm not sure how to handle this. .

• I believe the car test could really backfire! 🚗 If she's willing to accept a guy with a hooptie, he might think he can treat her however he wants, mistaking her kindness for desperation. It's crucial to be your true self and allow others to do the same. If he's worried about falling for a gold digger, throwing a "test" on the first date could come off as offensive. Authenticity is key! If she’s truly shallow, he’ll see that in time and can decide then. That’s what dating is all about!

• Dr John Gray author of book "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus"
  He talks of the chemistry.
  He mentions in our modern-day, men are more on their estrogen side and women are more on their testosterone side.

• when someone say: am a frugal person, i dont have money for marriage, my woman should have her job, it's a turn off for me. i want a peaceful marriage, if you say you dont have money for that then you're not ready, lets be friends but i'll try to meet other guys, if you then become ready and still want me and i still dont have anyone else then we can be spouse. i like having work and my own money, but if in the future our kids need me i'll prioritize be a housewife for my kids. so my husband should competent for the finance. How frugal are you? i have sensitive skin & body (easy get allergic) my skincare and etc are a bit pricey. if he a frugal person and want me to neglect my needs (switch to any cheaper goods) then he is not for me. so dont say that words only to test me. i'll think that you are not suitable for me.

• Intentionally testing people is immature and comes off as playing games. If a man feels the need to do all that he’s clearly unserious & not serious about the lady he is dating. When a man has serious interest & genuine intentions, really likes a woman & sees value, he won’t want to intentionally put himself in a position where he could lose her.. It also speaks to a man’s insecurity and lack of patience. If he was secure & patient he would know that naturally - time will tell. Things will unfold organically and there will be situations and conversations that will shed a light on what he wanted/needed to see/know.

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  • ​​@@MannyLoxx2010 If you want a woman, BE SERIOUS!
    This is NOT 3rd grade and we're NOT your teacher!

  • Completely disagree!! You women have no clue why we men must test women we want to date, in general!

  • Agreed!! ❤❤ goes both ways

• The car needs to be CLEAN at least. Old is fine. As long as it is clean and reliable. Going dutch is fine. Forgetting your wallet? I did that too. I paid for the date. However, after that, the guy expected me to pay sometimes and to drive my car sometimes. It’s fine as long as he’s not trying to be my man or sleep with me. He’s going to stay in the friend zone. told me his house was not clean enough and wanted to chill at my house most of the time. needless to say that didn’t work.

  • Forget your wallet..get in the car and go get it and come back! Ready set go! This happened to my kid multiple times and guys walked out and left her with the bill! People are so unclassy and a classy guy would drive home or do whatever to pay for the meal and if you do pay then he would make sure you get the money asap! Call me old fashioned but I am! 😂 no excuses and my father would be livid if a man did that and so wrong!! Accidents happen and classy people fix them! Men are fixers!!!

• I was in a relationship with a guy who asked me for money several times. It got to the point where I had to tell him that I am not an ATM! I don’t respect men who have the mindset of taking and not giving.

  • Several times? Why didn't you tell him to go to hell after the first time!

  • That’s a turn off for anyone! Any culture is disgusting!

• Thank you so much watching your videos has helped me improve with men.

  • Wonderful 🙏

• I'm 30 seconds in but let me guess 'give him space' will come up and I totally agree with it 😊

  • @@janjISMYnametruths

  • Everyone needs that. Absence makes the heart grow fonder ♡