Men Get SEXUAL Too Soon With You For THESE 4 Reasons

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• Earlier this month, a man ghosted me after three months of a situationship. He did not want to go out on dates. He explained that he is a homebody, so we did things at his house, like watch T.V. and eat home-cooked meals.

  After one month of dating, he asked me for sex. When I asked him to take an STD test, he refused. He explained that he prefers to use a condom.

  Maybe that is why he ghosted me. I am so glad that I never slept with him. As a matter of fact, I should have been the one to ghost him after he refused to take the test.

  • @@Jovialjay86 Now I know how to proceed with another man who is showing signs that he is not that into me.

  • @@Anna-st5dm You are right. I should have known better.

  • @@Anna-st5dmperiod. Should have never got that far to begin with.

  • You should have blocked him at house “dates”.

• Set a boundary with them and you’ll soon see where you stand. They either... disappear for good....are genuine, wanting to get to know you and let things develop naturally or they disappear and circle back around after a few months like nothing happened. But, which ever happens, you have your dignity in tact and won’t regret it.

  • I totally agree.

• I’m not giving it up for a plate!

  • @@norelle8705ify non negotiable. Do not sit alone in a car with a man, drive anywhere with him at all, or step through the door of his pad. The man has to earn even that. This is the only way. I stayed abstinent for a very long time. It was so painful. I think I had physical pain over it. I lived alone in the mountains. You can do it. The Holy Spirit enables it. Through Jesus. He will give you the power. 💪🏻

• One thing I think men should consider is that women spend a LOT to look good in general, to feel good and attract you in the first place, AND to provide you with a top version of ourselves when you take us out. Ladies, I know you have my back here. Hair, nails/toes, all the the ongoing regular maintenance, the new money suck: lashes , clothes in general and possibly a new outfit for the date. Maybe a babysitter if you’re a mom. It adds up to wayyyyyy more than dinner! You guys need to be aware of that and stop feeling that women OWE you something in return. We are giving it on the front end. Respect that, appreciate that, compliment that, and you will be well on your way to feeling appreciated in return. Show masculine romantic behavior and reap the rewards! 💋

  • @@vanessabeckett5614 You also make good points….good points everyone. It’s all true at the same time. That is a paradox. Not a contradiction. Look up the word. It’s my favorite word.

  • @@wkpo4107 I don’t disagree with you. Great points. But we should spend more money on quality food and gym memberships we use rather than fake eyelashes and hair dye.

  • So you’re going to stop doing all of this for yourself if a man isn’t involved?? It’s not like we have to buy this stuff new everytime we go on a date. It last for multiple uses and occasions, far longer than a one time $100 dinner.
    This is not a valid excuse

    And if you can’t afford a babysitter once in a while, don’t date. It’s not his kid or his responsibility to take care of or even offer up something you made a choice about long before he stepped on the scene.

  • @@wkpo4107 yeah but they also feel we owe them adherence to the beauty standards anyway so I don't know that we can get sympathy for that lol

• Mature individuals often prioritize emotional intimacy, mutual respect, and shared values over mere physical desires. In many cases, seeing relationships solely through the lens of physical attraction can lead to misunderstandings and missed opportunities for meaningful connections. IMO

• He should have chosen better. If he got used for food, he should have chosen better. He should have taken the time to vet her and get to know her. A few PROBING and SUBSTANTIVE questions would have let him know of the mindset and level of interest of the woman.

  There are PLENTY of date ideas that don’t cost much of anything, if anything at all. Effort and creativity, would make money irrelevant. Many women would actually prefer an activity or event over a dinner. The men should vet, and not be lazy and unimaginative.

• No sex before marriage is the best thing ever 🙌

  • Fact

  • @@kathleen-mariefoley780 I don’t think so .. I have dated a guy that could never get it right ..no matter what ..it was horrible ..the thing is everything else was perfect : no kids, never married, great career , home owner ..nice ..but I could not get pass the bad se c…it was horrible!

  • @@Strawberryfreeze3000 sex is a skill. It can be learned with patience, openess, humility, and communication. All of which I'd want in a marriage anyway. If I didn't have a serious case of Wendy Syndrome caring for little lost art boys lol

  • I’m on the fence with that one ..bc what if it’s wack s ec…would if he is terrible in bed ..I need to know before I commit my life …

  • Can’t disagree with that

• Too many of them think “date” stands for d*ck at the end😂

  • lol this is true

• The audacity of men expecting sex as showing ‘interest’. We already basically risk our lives being alone with them and spending money on our appearance. Maybe we need to bring back the Bridgerton days with chaperones to see how they like it 😂

• Women are not dating men to be treated like prostitutes, a man should never expect sex in exchange for a meal, that's just pathetic I'm afraid. It's a sad world we are living in.

  • 💯💯

  • Women are the ones responsible for allowing this behavior for so long. Sad truth.

  • Exactly but unfortunately too many women have condition men to behave like this so when they meet someone with sense they do not understand why we have the stance we have.

  • Jesus fed 5000 people for free... these men want sex after just one plate of meal.😂😅🤣😂😁😆.... I think 1st date should be at a park at least there is no expenses.

  • 😂 Honey these people are are just coming out anything just for views or likes. It's not like he paid rent or a mortgage