Men Get SEXUAL Too Soon With You For THESE 4 Reasons

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• You have it wrong...Sex is used to avoid emotional intimacy...

  • In some cases true but not only

  • For some this is true, but there is more to it for others

• They can't get none from me. Not unless they're the REAL deal.☀️

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  • Some will pretend to be real deal until they get it...

  • ​@@Beyondme7700 THAT PART

  • ​​@@Beyondme7700I don't even let pretenders smell it ☀🤣️

• This is true! That's why we have to get back into TEACHING RELATIONSHIPS CORRECTLY like you.

  • Yes indeed 🙏

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• Men should not be using going too fast as an excuse based on their fear of being used. Cross that bridge when you notice the red flags that a woman is using you by releasing that person. Very simple.

  • Right! Here’s a wild idea—maybe instead of trying to escalate physically, they could try being honest and telling you if they like you?!?! You know, use words. Is that too much to ask for?! 😭 I’ve been brave and expressed my feelings before. I would love to find someone willing to do the same.

• If he can’t afford dinner, he can’t afford to date.

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  • And definitely not sex!

  • Its crazy how there are too many men acting like entitled to a woman’s body. If a man has the what can I get back in return then just be upfront. I can’t stand the ones who play games.

  • And these are the same men that will label you a hoe when they get you in the sheets early

• "Do you feel that men are just a bunch of horny bastards?" Best opening ever😂😂😂

  • lol 😂😁

  • Oh yeah😊

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  • I never noticed. 😂

  • Sometimes the women are horny ones

• They don’t want to invest emotion just want the physical and that’s it

  • In many cases this is true

  • @@MeetStephanSpeaks I see it a lot and it’s hard to know how to break the barriers down.

  • Yes. The guy I’m seeing doesn’t expose himself at all. He’s a “gentleman”. Wants to do anything I want to do, can follow me in conversation on things I really care about, but it doesn’t take me into really feeling close with him. We’re still on the friend level. We can only go deeper when he goes deeper. But he is walled up, I can feel the wall. And if I sense that, there is no way I can be physically intimate with you, cause WHO is this person with me. Sure you’re trying hard to impress me, but you ain’t giving me anything I can feel, something that will open my heart towards you romantically

  • Often as a women I feel the way to break the walls is the physical intimacy but is that really the case for men. Sex is supposed to be the glue that holds you but surely it can only do that if you both are fully invested together in every way

  • ​@@CatherineHart.hh3vwthat is not the case for many ppl. Sex is an act. The reasons for the act vary. Some place more emphasis on the engagement than others.

• what happened to holding hands, kissing, making out? why does it have to be sex IMMEDIATELY (and sometimes aggressively) to show you they’re interested in you? what happened to expressing sexual or romantic interest with words? why do the majority of men not know how to do this anymore? or know how to be romantic or express themselves romantically? it doesn’t have to be explicitly sexual and if it is, it doesn’t have to be disrespectful. i don’t understand what’s happened to humanity. why is it so hard for them to communicate or go to therapy to learn these skills and more importantly, HEAL and stop bleeding on and hurting so many women. gah. i’m so tired of this.

  • They do. I don’t know what kind of men you guys are experiencing. There are many great men out there!

  • @@CarmenPerez-kz6rw i’m sure some do but i haven’t encountered them yet. i know there are many great men out there! but im expressing my frustrating of talking to 30 year olds who are emotionally still 10 years old and don’t go to therapy because it’s not “logical” yet…they can’t commit and so many other issues i won’t get into.

  • I agree 💯💯💯💯💯

  • Because no romantic music! 😂

  • I really like this young man channel, I have to say this because it hit my spirit Adorable 🥰Stephan.The Human being has lost ways to LOVE!😢😮love is taking your time, love is getting to know 1/another, it’s a magical feeling that U don’t know why it TIES&BINDS😮Many people want things in a New York minute! all true feelings are gone music, pornography (🤢🤮woman who do this for$)TV adds all sexual No romanticism🥹The love aspect is doomed😞😢

• Men getting sexual too soon is the #1 biggest turn off to me. Smoking a a close 2nd. 😂

  Honestly though my initial thought when men start right off with the bs I’m out! Complete flip of the switch. Because in my eyes it’s about another notch on the bedpost. Especially in today’s society!

  • Big turn off im out too i start dodging and eventually they go away 😂

• Tips for men : Why trying to have sex to soon to show that u are interested guys?? How about being affectionate, romantic, kisses and cuddles (out of the room of course ) that will definitely show that you are into women and also are a quality guy 😺😽💘

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