Men Get TURNED OFF By These 3 UNATTRACTIVE Habits

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• So true. I can handle being hurt so much better now.

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  • Me too! I’m
    Over it

• I think not so much playing hard to get as a woman you at first want to see is this man going to step out and go that extra mile and if he does then you want to meet him half way be more vulnerable but in today's world... I don't want to be vulnerable in the beginning I am old fashion.. dating isn't like it use to be..just saying 🤔 and maybe your true self as a woman isn't calling a dude everyday...

  • I understand 🙏

• Playing hard to get is a tactic that comes from fear and from wanting to feel in control....doesn't work....just be your genuine self, and the right guy would fall for you, with no tactics, just genuine soul to soul connection ❤❤

  • Well said! 🙏

• Thanks alot coach... I must say tip 3 has always helped me in communicating with my man as well as others. I've really learned how to speak to him in a kind manner and not harsh way

  • You're welcome 🙏

• I once fixed a gf up on a blind date after listening to her lamentations about the men she was meeting. She was very confident that she was bringing her A game and the fellas were coming up short. The man I set her up with was my then boyfriend’s best friend. We double dated for their blind date and…it was painful to watch. She was very snotty, somewhat combative/argumentative about subjects that were on the lighter side, opinionated and acted like a prima Donna. Of course, he didn’t call her afterwards and of course she said that he wasn’t man enough. When she asked, I told her she wasn’t a good date and gave her honest feedback. Our friendship ended after that. Moral of the story: don’t assume you’re showing up 100% developed woman who “did the work.” I never set anyone else up again because at the end of the day, I have no idea how my friends show up as dates.

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  • Amen to that!!!!

  • Damn.

  • I understand this so well. I usually cringe when I hear a friend say, they “did the work” and have completely healed then start to act bitter and arrogant.

  • @@dangelamarx80 it really taught me the lesson that just because they’re your friend doesn’t mean they aren’t the problem. I don’t have to date my gf, so for all I know, she’s presenting a plausible account of her experiences. I took several seats after that experience.

• Also the last kid that just walked up and gave me his number was 20 years old and I'm 35

  • Mine are 40 years younger! Ok I’m exaggerating, but there’s a huge difference and it’s shocking

  • @@Portia620 lolol you get it 😅🤣

• Sometimes a woman is not playing hard to get, maybe she is so into him and scared.. Communication is key! Great video and note taken. Thank you ❤

  • Thank you 🙏

  • And if she is not Interested at all, it is harassment. Do not pursue someone who even seems uninterested

  • This is true i dont play hard to get. I initiate text and stop. Because sometimes when i show interest to a guy. I get rejected😂

• I'm only harsh when I get attacked approaching it calmly with my person who is my friend

• Don't play games
  Be yourself
  Be friends for a foundation

• This is absolutely true. I'm going through this now. Trying to date after getting out of an 8 year relationship now single for 8 months. A guy I really liked ghosted me in June. He knew I was still healing and was very considerate of that. I definitely played hard to get out of fear. He tried to work around my hot and cold but eventually cut me off. It hurts my feelings because looking back he had some great qualities. I'm still dating, a new guy and I try to check myself on some of those behaviors but honestly , I just want to be alone to continue to heal. I think when I can face all of my hurt and clean out those feelings, I will be more accepting of a relationship or dating down the line.

  • I was in a 13-14 yr marriage. After it ended I casually dated for a few mths & when some guys kept pushing for a relationship while some not, I realised I wasn't ready. I stopped dating & focused on healing. It's been 6 yrs. I think I'm ready, but I'm taking it slowly. Relationships mean something to me. I don't want to date just for the sake of dating.