Men Have THESE 3 Serious Fears About WOMEN

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• Thank you Stephen for sharing how a man feels about a woman kind of thing.... This helps me❤

• You just stated what so many women knew and what we see in men.... that they become people-pleasers... like you said, its not love, its obsession, they start to lose themselves in the relationship and become overly accomodating.... its NOT attractive! Be yourself, have a back-bone and stick up for yourself. Have an open-mind to learn and grow, but dont make your whole identity about doing what women want. Be your own person. Men: love yourself to know what you do and dont deserve....I can promise you that if you do and put in the work, youll attract the right woman.

• In our home, we go by the "Happy Spouse, Happy House" mantra-we both work to ensure the other one has whatever he/she needs. 30+ years :) I heard my mother say "happy wife happy life" growing up and that woman was never happy with anything.

• What about his sexual past? A healthy mature woman don't want a man who has past community 🍆. STDS, HIV, AIDS, etc don't discriminate against genders, race, color, etc. Now if a man has been a man wh*** in the past, then I will have some concerns about his health. He definitely would have to go get tested for every STD you can name. That's definitely one of my requirements when someone get involved with me. I've been getting tested 20 yrs for every STD so I can show my future boo my results. I've been celibate for 3 and a half years but won't stop getting teated. I don't ask someone to do something I wouldn't do. I want to make sure both of us are disease free. I know lots of people told me they never bben tested for STDS. Plus, they never asked their s/o to get tested. My doctor told me syphilis is on the rise in a lot of states. Smdh. I definitely want to see those test results. 🎯💯

• Not only money! But a woman needs protection, a safe place, trust worthy man….

• I want a man that's stable,But at the end of the day, I don't care about his money! I love honesty, personality, emotional intelligence, being able to take accountability, & knowing how to be affectionate!!

• " Men got feelings to " yes am suprised because their feelings are strange,they feel threatened when we have our own money,but yet still
  is concerned obout if u only pretending to love them for their MONEY 😮

• It's interesting that you mention that because when I brought up money, like you say Men assume that it's taking advantage of them. Men have to take into consideration that we live in a world that turns on money right now. Plans and building takes money. Money is needed to live and to make a family.

• Thank you Stephan.
  I learnt from one of your episodes ( paraphrasing), "are you your spec's spec" If that is settled, then genuine concerns should be connection between both individuals, asking the right questions and boundaries. The question of been used as a trophy wife/ or for money as well as leaving during dire periods, all things been equal , may not arise.
  Concerning sexual past, if it's a deal breaker for any of the party, then the question should be asked ( just like you rightly said).I know women who don't want to be with men who have "serviced" the whole community because they don't want to deal with diverse soul ties.
  Taking accountability, i think we women can be self absorbed, forgetting our significant other have feelings that needs to be validated and not dismissed. I agree with you on that.

• Men have feelings too and thank God for that!

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