Men Push GOOD WOMEN Away For THESE 4 Reasons

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• I had a connection with someone and at a point it turned, I know what point it was for him to tell me her has reconnected with his ex, which has happened to me before and we were cool but this one was different such a gentleman but an avoidant which which we spoke about as we communicated well. He say I’m the most beautiful person he has ever met but yet he has ended the connection which I respect and I wish him all the best. We heal and move on but I can’t be his friend either.

• I been in this game a real long time, & so let me tell ya'll this. Both men & women, but mainly women. It is virtually impossible to ever "be played" in any relationship if you're matching effort/energy. It's not possible. The problem arises when one party jumps the gun & goes all in, & is so completely blinded by love, they aren't realizing the other one was never nearly as invested as they were. If you're self aware & paying attention to the man's actions, then you go off of that. Don't be postin this man on all of ur sm, declaring he's the love of your life, & he don't call or come over but once a month. I see that stuff alllll the dang time tho....well i'm gonna finish this man's video now, but those were this Friday's words of wisdom. #yourewelcome #happyfriday👌🏾😁

  • She still god played but he got played out of being with a good women 😂

  • Yes I see it all the time especially on social media and the woman ends up being embarrassed. Happens all the time.

• Yes
  I was the homemaker, lover, look ok, took care of those kids, did all the things at home, well rounded meal every evening, and yet he told me he didn't see my value and disposed of me. Yet, most men would love to have what I bring to the table. It's sad..

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks  Thank you! 💛 I pray so. God will show me in due time.
    Thank you for all the wonderful content, full of truth.

  • Some men are just not built to see and embrace your value, but there is a man who will 🙏

• Unfortunally there are some men who don't want to settle down, just looking for good women, women who wants to a serious relationship.
  Always good to hear your point of views. Those advices and your books have helped me a lot. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾✌🏾🇧🇷

  • Well said 🙏

• Both men and women experience the repercussions of past trauma or heartache. Self-sabotage, emotional unavailability, detachment, and guardedness are common coping mechanisms that individuals adopt to protect themselves from further pain or disappointment.

  For men & women, recognizing these patterns can lead to a deeper understanding of their behaviors and reactions in relationships. It can also foster empathy, as they may realize that these defenses often stem from past experiences rather than a lack of interest or commitment.

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• The way I’m doing my best to just listen to this and not be angry. Not on you, just recalling the experience.

  • @@Golden-zo2cc Absolutely, I had to pull away as well. lol

  • @@brendab.508 facts! Hence I had to stop commenting not trying to to come off bitter but just got out a ship like this smdh so this was all too fresh and relatable but I luv his videos and as u see they be on point!!!

  • I completely understand ❤️

• In a new but very committed and serious relationship with a man I met at church 😍I truly appreciate the education I’ve received watching your videos and how I can improve my communication. I treasure every word, Stephan ❤

  • Thank you 🙏

• Narcissistic men bring nothing to the table yet are quick to get sassy when a woman won't be feminine or submissive toward them. This is why so many women are single! They are tired of having to be both the man and the woman in the relationship. If she has to take care of herself and the man plan everything, manage the house and cover the bills and be her own emotional and physical support she will choose to stay single. These Narcissistic men have the audacity to consider themselves the prize then call women masculine when they refuse to do everything on their terms. They expect us to be the provider, protector and leader they done want to be! I told the truth.

  • Exactly on point!!!

  • Omg if Sassy hasn't been the word of the year! These men....idk what to say. I have a ton to say actually but its too much lol smh

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• @13:33 BINGO!!! This happened to me but I see this as a blessing in disguise. If he can be manipulated to let a good woman go because of what others say or think, then he is not the man for me. A good man is one who can hear other opinions, but stands on his own belief. If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything.

  • @ indeed! He needs counseling and personal development, even at 60. These challenges hit men at any time. Age doesn’t mean maturity. 😮‍💨

  • He definitely still has some work to do within himself

• Yessss this is true. I have come across two men in my life that did this to me because me not knowing at the time how they were they weren't right for me and they knew this and only till yrs later did I come to this conclusion. It wasn't me they were protecting me from them and I thank them for this.

  • 🙏❤️ I’m glad you were able to move forward with a better understanding of things