More Anxious Than Happy? You Could Be Forcing the Relationship #relationship #anxiety

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• How he talked about others.....very disrespectful.

• Yes I do feel anxious a lot of the time. However this is 2nd time around with this guy and he has shown me so far (8 weeks so early days ) that he has really done the work and changed. I've changed a lot too. There is no real cause for concern yet I'm latching on to the odd thing here and there and magnifying x 100 as it vaguely reminds me of the past situation. It is early days but I know this is a me thing tha5 I need to relax and trust otherwise I'll attract the situations that I'm fantasising. I have to flip the story in my head to what if this all works out.

• Yes!!

• Yeah he was too loud, hollered at people driving by, nothing romantic just sex. Always telling me what I need to do. If I had a difference of opinion than him, he would criticize me. I gained sooo much weight in the relationship because he also struggled with over eating like me. I felt survival mode a lot. Biggest red flag was that we didn't have mutual interests at all. We weren't compatible. I didn't want to admit that but it was frustrating. I love watching sports he hated sports. All he did was watch streaming channels all day, everyday. So many things to leave. 11 months too long.

• Been there.

• Thank you Matt!!!

• I knew I should divorce my husband after I longed for him to leave. When he left for school, I realized THAT was peace. I I wanted to live a peace filled life. Not an anxious one!

• He was an avoidance, and I was the chaser. I finally walked away. This was a learning process for me. I'm a work in progress.😊

• 🌈🌟🌻Real love is good, strong bold & brave!

  • Thank you! I think you put it beautifully!

• Indeed ❤