One lesson I learned from my previous marriage is to tailor intimacy to the needs of the partner.
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You know a man is matured and healed when he speaks positively about the lessons they learnt from a previous relationship.
I agree!
Facts!๐๐พ
Absolutely
This is true but what about the woman that he had to โgo throughโ this with? She was just practice? And next one gets the new and improved?
@Jennifernva that’s what I’m thinking
*NOW HE MISSES HER …. LET THIS BE YOUR SIGN TO WALK AWAY LADIES. UNFORTUNATELY FOR THIS WOMAN, SHE PROBABLY TOLD HIM ABOUT MORE THAN JUST THAT FEATHER. THAT WAS JUST HER LAST TRY. HE DIDN’T LISTEN. SAD THING IS, SHE’S PROBABLY MEANT TO BE WITH SOMEONE LIKE THE MAN WHO HE IS RIGHT NOW. BUT IF SHE NEVER WALKED AWAY, HE WOULD HAVE NEVER LEARNED*
Amen! Amen!
Fun fact: I’m the one who filed for divorce.
@Dear Future Wifey
Thank God you did.
@Dear Future Wifey Is it a done deal. Ija ๐ I hope one day she will change her mind and come on the podcast to tell her journey when y’all were married.
Not necessarily ,when the student is ready the teacher will come.
Facts ๐Men always in a rush ๐คฃ Gentleman slow down and slow down again ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐ผ
Donโt rush lmao. If your wife rationing sex why would she think a thirsty man would want to drink slow.
Screaming yessss at a 2,000 decibels
@Sous Chef probably why she doesn’t want to sleep w you to begin w
@Shnna Jones ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ฅ๐๐ผ
You received that message from God when you were opened to listen.
Amen! That message was forwarding from then but his selfishness had the phone on “silent”. So many times God speaks to us but our own voices drown His out. You are so right.
He could have been opened to listening to his wife first and trusting her.
Exactly
@Sugahoney exactly
Yesssssssssss sis yes.
Men miss out because they donโt listen
WOMEN AS WELL, WE BOTH HAVE TO LISTEN. IT’S NOT A ONE SIDED THING.
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@Keno lettice listen to?
he didn’t miss out though, these always a next woman to approach.
exaggeration is not always good
Women donโt tell what they really want an need either.
News flash:
If you are a good lover. You dont have to worry about sex with your woman she will give it to you as much as you want!
#Vicki Richards Yeeeees GLADLY!!! Say it again for the men in the back ๐คญ
Agreed
A great lover starts way before foreplay begins.
If you keep her coming she’ll come back for more. A simple concept that most men dont understand nor care too..
U missing the point things change
Ive learned there are ALOT of women dissatisfied In the sexual part of their relationships because men dont know what they dont know about pleasing them and some dont care
That part.
Those women should be telling their husbands instead of each other
@Skinny Timmy On this story he didn’t listen. Oftentimes they don’t listen or are close minded to new experiences.
And always remember: foreplay isn’t always sexual activities. Showing kindness, patience, nonsexual affection, being an actual helpmate…and not JUST when you’re trying to get “something”, will have your bedroom action ๐ฅ๐ฃโกโ๐ฅ!!!!๐
And u know it, but they don’t understand
That’s it! As simple as passing me a bottle of water.
So true! I always say this
Amen sis! Yes omg the sexiness of a man who does this!
Exactly !!!!!!!
Good point
I stay telling men that “it’s how you treat me before the sex”. How can you expect a woman to be in the mood to give you her soul when you’re treating them like shhh. Help with the kids, help clean up, let’s go out for a walk for some us time or me time. Take me out for a quick bite , by me something even if it’s a dollar, I caN recognize that you actually thought of me sometime during your day. You thought of putting a smile on my face. For a woman to be with kids all day and no adult conversation, cleaning, remembering to make appts for the families needs, dealing with kids school, shopping for family then getting kids ready for bed after dinner with no help. She’s now drained.
WRONG , it is not โhelpโ; it is CONTRIBUTING TO THE DOMESTIC RESPONSIBILITIES IN THE HOUSEHOLD instead of pushing it ALL UNTO THE WOMAN to do all the work and then EXPECT HER TO still be in the mood, mindset and desire for lovemaking.
When I read this I remember the way it was in my marriage:
You had better do all of the things that I want you to do, and donโt make any mistakes, or youโre not getting any. And even if you do it all perfectly, I might just be too tired anyway.
Ma’am, I had to double check that I didn’t type these words myself. Amen. I really could have typed the very same words.
i think u guys dont understand
“how u treat me before sex”
she cater her husband when he got home from work, took care of him a bit here and there , and all she needs is show some appreciation. Assisting on something is one of the ways of showing love & appreciation. A man deals with work & when he gets home he doesnt have to be worried about work no more, 8-10 hrs done. A women has to be worried about kids and husband after she wakes and before she sleeps. Will they have breakfast & lunch ? What will she do for dinner today that wont be repetitive? Are the kids doing fine at school, do they have homework? is there a laundry pile? And so on. If theres a dog too then hell thats another baby to take care. And if she works full time too then give her a 20mins massage would be nice. When my partner works more than me i would give lots of massage.
Great lesson.
When people stop arguing over the fact about a woman being submissive people will realize in a healthy relationship submission comes from both parties.
THIS!
Exactly ๐ฏ
Boom ๐ฅ
Nope…they aren’t gonna like this one…nope..
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Intimacy is number one in any healthy relationship. No human being enjoys feeling transactional.
Thank you for sharing. I’m glad you got the lesson.
The whole attitude towards her request is exactly why sheโs not getting ๐ฆ for you. ๐
Facts…cold facts…
Say that!!
This is the attitude of most men that’s selfish and lacking understanding!!
In other words, it WAS another obstacle, nothing else withstanding.
Facts.
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Every man needs to hear this. The sex will never be hitting if it’s only about YOU
Facts
Exactly
No lie.
Great lesson!
Powerful lesson