I’ve worked really hard to become the wise one only for my next relation. I look at a relationship as a garden, in the same similitude God gave Adam and Eve to each other. I’ve sown too much to help the enemy destroy my garden and all I’ve sown through the years in it. It only takes the right trigger to cause things to come to the surface. If it’s there it’s because in the words of Albert Einstein, adversity introduces a man to himself. It’s Gods way for an individual to get ready to become the next best version of themselves if they choose to grow together. Couples must handle each other with care as they expressed they do.