Red Flags for a Toxic Date You Should Never Ignore | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
Mat Boggs shares relationship advice for women and the red flags for a toxic date you should never ignore.
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Have you seen the Tinder Swindler?
I just recently watched it and, wow…
I mean that was an extreme example… but it got me thinking about Red Flags.
There really are red flags that tell you when you shouldn’t trust someone.
So, how do you know what these red flags are, so you don’t invest in someone who doesn’t really deserve it?
Learn how to spot the red flags in romance, so you don’t waste your time with the wrong kind of guy.
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He saw I was vulnerable and week from previous narcistic abuse and swooned in to save me. He promised me whatever I was going through we would get through it together (love bomb). He promised a home, trips, meeting his family (carrot and stick), instead he ghosted and played victim to my friends only later to be angry and try to live with me. He was delusional and controlling after winning me over by insisting sex comes first on relationships to bond. I let my standards down just for him sacrificing my self for him.
Big eye roll on this one. 1.) It’s important to always listen to your intuition. 2) If it seems “too good to be true”, than it most likely is not true. In that case go back to #1. 3) When you are grounded first in self-love then you won’t feel the need to look outside of yourself for love or validation from these kinds of men who play on your weakness. 4) What you put out there you will attract. So, drama, con artists, and players will definitely find you if you are broadcasting on their frequency. Love, love, love yourself. If you are drawn to these kinds of experiences, take one of Mat’s programs and clear your old beliefs. Eventually, you will be able to spot these unhealthy people and situations and you won’t be attracted to them in the least.
Thanks Matt, very helpful topic. A man told me that he was going to cook me a home cooked meal for our second date. When I arrived at his home, he had heart shaped dinner plates, fresh flowers, romantic music playing and promised a future Disney vacation. After the date, he called me and invited me on a weekend trip to Maine. I agreed and after one night at a cheap hotel in New Hampshire, he decided not to continue dating me and we never made it to Maine. He also insisted that I pay for all my meals and refused to get dessert when I wanted some. After an awkward return trip with him to upstate New York, he texted me two days later and asked me to reconsider dating him even though he ended it with me. I’m wiser now from what I can see was a type of love bombing. The heart plates seemed a little much for a second date but I didn’t listen to my instincts and went on that weekend trip with him. Amy
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together.
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Sorry to hear that you went through this, however you have emerged even stronger and happier now. Now cancelling a trip just as it is about to happen, and making you pay for your meals and all is just crazy. You didn’t need this.
I have a rule in life : Never deal with monetary stuff with anyone.. Even friends.. Because in case they don’t return it, it makes the relationship bitter.
If a man would ask me for money I would ask him why he doesn’t ask his mother /brother/uncle… It happened to me one time and when I said I was disappointed that he even asked me this question, he said he was so sorry, he didn’t want to upset me,..
I said ok, fine. And that was it. He blocked me 😅
He even looked like a liar
Maria. Ur saying absolutely right.
Yup! Pattern changes, the drama drama drama, mood swings, texting and calling but nothing in person after a while. Maybe the occasional “babe” or “miss you”. Maybe a courtesy visit once a month or less. Your intuition kicks in long before you believe they are doing this. Trust it. Loving yourself enough to disengage is super hard but well worth saving your heart.
I’m so happy having back my ex fiance back after bring separated for 4months . All thanks to Mr Ehijator whom help me to get back my ex again , I will suggest y’all get help from him and it works within 4days
in my own experience, on the dating site I was on, the scammers were all widowers, they had one or two pictures of very good looking guys in tropical settings, they told you that they did not really think how you looked was so important, but more how wonderful you were “inside”. The ones I spotted all worked selling vintage cars and – of course- travelled the world ! And they did not master the language….(French in this instance! ) I spotted them right away and blocked them after one or two days exchange. Or I let them know I had discovered who they were and it prompted them to end their profile and disappear within minutes ! . ah, and I also quickly noticed that they had a different time on their mobile phones, since they were in a very distant country…….most of the time in Africa ! it appeared in messages.
It’s sad when thieves go after women who are looking for love.
No decent man would ask a woman for money huge huge huge red flag
@Tracy John Heres a prime example of a thief going after women.
@@landy952 Then men also have red flags to look for. Two wrongs don’t make a right–it just leads to more misery. If a man doesn’t want to make a baby he needs to wear protection.
@@timriehl1500 these are spam, everywhere! I keep reporting but it’s like trying to dry up the sea 😂
This is a good warning video but I have another warning too:
Scammers learn and get smarter (like the one in the Netflix documentary – he knew what were commonly known red flags so he went further to manipulate these women), I bet some of them even watched or will watch this video and will learn what to be careful with.
So while of course it’s good to watch out for such red flags, it’s important to be careful anyway and to try to take a step back to look at the relationship objectively because some ridiculous manipulations aren’t that obvious when we are close and they might not be the obvious red flags.
The scammer from the Netflix definitely proves that they learn and get more advanced 😬
@@Silbusia absolutely true, they always have other plans and resources to force you or make it like it’s life saving please help dear you are the beat you always help others why not me BS..now I don’t give a penny to anyone, I tell them why not you give me for a change let’s see your generosity my kind man .
@Tracy John Mr. Franklin is about to be arrested for fraud, lol.
@Tracy John This is a scam. Report to Youtube.
Thank you so much, Matt, for making this video! I was crying while watching it. I’ve had an experience. The worst part is that it’s hard to share such stories. There is a big possibility people might blame you for your own mistakes, because it’s hard to digest for them too. So you just deal with it yourself. Lesson learned and I am grateful, and I am not closing my heart for love ❤
@Tracy John What’s up with all the scammers posting on anti scammer channels???
@Tracy John Is Mr. Franklin in China?
@@timriehl1500 now, that’s too funny. Lol
@Tracy John REPORTED!
@@timriehl1500exactly!
I should have known some things many years ago. When someone wants quick reactions and doesn’t respect your pace, or pushes you to the decisions which you don’t want to get, it is a bad sign even if the other things are okay.
I dated someone once who wanted to marry me after being with me for only one month. He asked em to marry him in a ceremony without either of our families present as that would be more romantic and intimate. He then asked me for money and assumed when we went places that I would be paying for everything. I did pay once but he paid every other time and soon learned he couldn’t scam me. He left three months later and I was thrilled to be rid of him to be honest.
I’ve found that many will say that they live in my area but their job, and could be various jobs, engineer, working in oil etc.., has them out of the country but that they’ll be back in say a month.. as soon as this happens, I tell them to msg me when they are back. 100% of the time they’ve been scammers. Don’t engage and if you’re not sure, do what I do, wait and see, but do not engage in online conversation beyond learning they are “away for work”
Yes, I saw something similar but flipped: they would show up on the app as being in my area, but then it would turn out “Oh I was there for a week and the app still has me there, but actually” they’re in some inaccessible spot — working on an oil rig, working in western Canada, working in the film industry halfway around the world. Never close enough to actually meet.
I once dated a guy who did exactly that,: flashing big piles of money, big luxury car, saying I was the one on first date…
And this thing, but I knew how it worked…
Not on me tough..
He kept on looking me in the eyes( if you look longer,2 minutes, in to anyone’s eyes, they fall in love according to science)
I knew this one😂😂
Didn’t fall for it, and then he faded….
Lucky me!🤗🤗
I’m so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y’all get help from him and it works within 4days
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@Tracy John What’s with the multiple posting for scammers?
@@officialbradpaisley7666 LOL, you are NOT Brad Paisley, LMAO
Scamming doesn’t only take place in apps but also with people you already met personally and have been with them for years. In my case, it happens to me and my soon-to-be-ex-husband. He has scammed me by marrying me but being a philanderer all these years. Then in turn every single woman he has gotten involved with he loved bomb them and then drops them, leaving them confused as to what really happened between them. I have put an end to it legally (now he is begging me not to go forward with the divorce) and I am happy to say that I am moving on my own because God has better waiting for me.
This was my second and I was able to get out after only 3 yrs. He cost me thousands and thousands. But I have outlived him and his issues!
Hes a narcissist…RUN!!! And never look back!
@@solo-boots join the club friend, so sorry to hear your loss.🤗
@@solo-boots Please pray for me too that he and his mom who both used my innocent nature to ruin my bank balance and just my soul, what goes around will. Come around, God bless his aristocratic life in his country of Birth.🙃
Sorry your going through this challenging moment. You deserve better you so what is best for yourself. Love and light 🙏❤️😊
The red flags I have noticed are the following but it’s certainly not limited to these:
Usually if they ask you to add them on WhatsApp right away us a huge red flag. Their English is usually broken or strangely worded that you know Americans don’t use commonly or intelligently. They overcommit quickly and claim that you are the only person that can help them in said situation with their problem.
Ask these people to do a phone call if you are not sure. You can usually hear their accent of where they are actually located. Before meeting them FaceTime them or ask for social media accounts to determine if their presence adds up to the story they gave you about who they said they are. If they have really attractive pictures and zero likes or friends it’s suspicious or see how old the account is.
Most scammers will just create an account to a profile a month or two ago to try to “prove” who they are. 🚩
Stay safe out there and never be afraid to love the right person. ❣️
Well MM friend they are too smart…thanks anyway for your input 👍
@@urmilamuthiah9348 usually not too smart look at the replied comments to see proof of my WhatsApp example. 🤣
@@metaphysicalmuse2773 dear I don’t disagree with you its just not worth looking put wasting your time, that’s my point..unless you want a desperate relationship to fall for those toxic guys or you have so much time like today I am taking time to respond to the lovely feeds on Social media.At the end u have lost my money and no one will give it back to me & my heart was broken made me a fool and my mom…and my country…soi care a damn about these selfish men who were born to a b who also helped her son be manipulative to con not only me others too.Thanks, TC enjoy your life.
@@urmilamuthiah9348 yes the key is to not be desperate for anything but especial love. That’s the place where predators prey on the weak and take advantage of. Thank you for sharing your input and I’m also wishing you well! 🥰
Mat, this is exactly what I went through, but on a smaller financial scale. If and when you do say anything to family members about this new person in your life, make certain you aren’t also being lovebombed by that family member. (This is for those of you who do not live around your family members). If you are, you have to make a decision to walk away from both of those people and cut ties permanently.
I’m so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y’all get help from him and it works within 4days
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@@officialbradpaisley7666 Stop promoting neediness and obsession and mental disorder. Get psychiatric help, otherwise you’d make everyone’s life a hell. Don’t worry, he’ll dump you again. I sure would in his place… 😁
That’s why I don’t go on dating apps anymore as they just use you. And I feel so much better for it. And I don’t miss it. So thank you Matt for sharing this video to help women who fall into that trap.
I’m so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y’all get help from him and it works within 4days
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One guy told me he needed money because his son was in the hospital. He even sent a picture. I reversed searched the pic, it was a “stockphoto”! But yes, he pushed the drama. Then got angry and tried to shame me and gaslight me when I called him out on it.
Just block and delete. Don’t even try to call them out. It only gives them a chance for more drama, manipulation and gaslighting mind games.
NEVER give a guy money.
I helped 2 like that since they lost their family to Covid or accidents…such bastards…sorry t say so luckily I never fell for them just helped as a good person for their needs and lost few $$$ thousands I even told Oprah about his she was like wow urmila these will be punished soon, leave it to God and don’t waste your precious time and your good soul These are white men from highly educated families holding good jobs too from the western world unbelievable…but true stories it’s a pattern now for men to take this as their full-time job with communications as on line..thanks to Social media lol
I’m so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 4months. All thanks to Mr Franklin whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y’all get help from him and it works within 4days
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