Saying THESE 4 Things To Men You’re Dating Can TURN Him Off!

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• First here. We love you stephen❤.much love from ghana🇬🇭

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• Hey thank you for all the tips =]

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• Both people are just as important to the other. 😊❤

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  • Yes both are blessings to each other 🙏🏽💜

• 16:00 When a man asks me about money I get offended and we haven't even met at that point. Next. I imagine that men would feel that way. I wouldn't bother with a woman who is asking for my finances when we are just meeting or even before a possible first date.

• I think that stating you are a prize is boasting 😆. It’s your own opinion of yourself. Telling a man that he looks like he has a lot of women before you really get to know him is like judging a book by its cover. Not necessary to state you are an “Alpha” woman, he will discover it sooner or later. Great stuff! Thank you Stephan, you rock!

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  • Just because one person calls themselves a prize or sees themselves as such doesn't mean the other person can't be a prize as well.
    "I'm Awesome" doesn't translate or mean "You Aren't". That's what you're inyerjecting into it.

  • @ True that. But I feel that actions speak louder than words. They will eventually find out how much of a prize you really are. I would think it but not say it out loud. 😊

  • Also that high valued man is the same BS

• #3 is just as much a no-no for the man as much as it is for the woman.

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• 5:44 very true. On a first date a man made comments about why do I not have a man build (different from him) a certain way in my life. Also, he is short and asked if I would date a short man. It was a turn off. Are you insecure? I am here with you that’s all that matters.

  • He may not be insecure, but aware that MANY women won't date bald, short or guys without any facial hair.
    You having an issue with him confirming says a lot though. 🙄 How would he know if he didn't ask. I'm not fat, but I certainly ask about body type. Some men have a strong preference about it, just like women. I don't take it personal AND I'm not insecure by any means. I just understand the beginning is awkward and funny sometimes. ❤

  • @ I hear you but before we met he mentioned other things about him that made me think he mig but he. And m no I don’t have an issue with him. I dated him. I dated short men before him. I pick men based on character. I just didn’t like that it was even brought up. But I hear you

• "I am the prize." 🤣 Oh goodness these women out here... what do you think we are without men in the world LOL! And if the woman is the prize and not the man then why women want a man so bad? 😅

  "You look like you have a lot of women." 😬 Yeah don't say that LOL

  "How much money do you have?" 😳 Whoever asks this when you first meet or in the dating stages is clearly just after money and not after love.

  "I'm an alpha woman." --- "I'm an independent woman." --- "I'm a feminist." --- "I'm a strong woman." 🥴 Never gonna experience the beauty of a relationship with this attitude. The independent one isn't as scary as the others but still keep that obvious point to yourself.

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• True..both men and women are equally important, or "the prize", but he's making the first move though...

• I personally have never asked a guy how much money they have, but I don't believe it's a bad idea to ask a guy what is their current occupation/career, and if they don't what is their goal towards that...