She’s Not Texting You Back? Copy These 3 EXACT Messages

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• This vid is great, half way through it made me realize how hard a relationship can be and the level of investment feels like a lot! Thank you very much!

• Hey Hayley, this isn't in response to this video exactly (I forget which one), but I remember you mentioned in one of them that men should have enough self esteem to not just become pen pals. During one of the online dating chats, I did exactly what you said after she made two excuses for being too busy (by the way, this is the last time I'll ask ;D) and it worked! About ten minutes later, she scheduled a time for us to hang out and we'll be going out and seeing a movie in a few days after some drinks. Thanks so much! :D

• Never double text. Ever. If you're not important enough to respond to, then she is not important enough to matter.

• What if I legitimately don't want to? I can't be the only guy here who thinks there is something inherently shameful about texting some girl and giving her more attention and energy than you have been given.It's not so much a shame to the people around me, but more of its a shame to me. . . .

• 5:05 cool pic 8:37 be spontaneous 11:36 be straight forward, typical woman 90% listening to her self talk

  • Thanks Nova

• If you have a dating "strategy" you're already set up to lose. Dating should be organic, not some play book. If you want to see the person again after a first date, plan a second date at the end of the first. It always helps if you have an event like a concert or sporting event to invite them to. If they aren't sure by the end of date one if they want a second date, the chances are they don't feel the same connection as you.

• Don't use dating apps, don't text.
  Get to know ppl. Be fun and have a lot of friends. Enjoy your life. Women will come around

• I think the quality of the content will improve dramatically if you take the time to do two things: 1. Sit and REALLY try and think and simulate what's it like for the other side (men) and what problems they might have and WHY Really really, academically explore the subject as a scientist would. 2. Interview someone who has had trouble dating, maybe several people, not just pick up artists and other bogus sellers of nothing. Sit down, have discussions, go on forums on which men having trouble getting a date express themselves and really get a feel for what the problem is.

  Edit: Many of the things you suggest don't really work in actuality and are the things you'd like men to do towards you and women in general (state your intentions clearly for example) which is kind of naive and silly to be honest. How would anyone be able to tell the difference? and why would this work?

  Cheers!

• This is the type of advice that women give each other in a group chat.... it involves many intricate steps that rarely hold up in real world applications. Bottom line, if you have to strategize this much, the other person is not into you.
  An unfortunate side effect of this mentality is that many womanizers use these type of strategies to get themselves in "situationships" with women... they get all the benefits of a relationship without the responsibilities. And I know this from first had knowledge... for many years, I went from situationship to situationship, and who gets left out in the cold? The "nice guys."

  If somebody isn't taking your seriously, it doesn't necessarily make them bad people, it just means that they don't value you in the way that you are looking for. Simply cut your losses and move on.

• I know heaps of women in their late 30's and 40's who are like that. They all ask where the good men went. Weeeelllll the good men invested their time in people who didn't ignore them.

  • listen to Tate on this hahaha

  • And a lot of good men have no idea where to find good women for a lifetime commitment. Widowers have no idea where to find a quality lady instead of a temporary friend. Most that have had a divorce come with issues and likely to come with lots of baggage. Many older ladies that are single are single for a reason and should remain single.