She’s Not Texting You Back? Copy These 3 EXACT Messages

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• This advice is extremely helpful. I’m talking to someone overseas and I broke the double text rule. How she reacts will show me whether to continue pursuing her or cut my losses. Thanks Hayley.

  • If she’s overseas, cut your losses now.

  • so, whats the goal with that girl? seriously. Whats the next step?

  • Cut your losses.

  • No reply yet? Obviously it didn't go well.

• Any girl who shows luke warm interest doesn’t deserve the effort. I’m not going to spend time trying to figure out what she’s thinking. A positive reaction is the only signal I care about.

  • I agree. BUT you know a woman (and her friends) will tell herself in order to protect her ego, "He obviously wasn't worth it/man enough if he gave up so easily. If he liked me, he'd keep trying." But why should we be enthusiastic about them if they're not enthusiastic about us? They don't realise that. Just go meet another cool girl who won't play those "chase me" games.

  • At the end its not about giving up tho, its self-worth. Im not gonna run after her if she shows no reaction. As you said, find someone that does.

  • Nathan Crowther - Exactly, there’s plenty of women I’m enthusiastic about that don’t like me and lots of women who’s ego is in tact that end up alone. A woman, of course, wants to feel special and she wants to be desired by as many men as possible, but she’s still going to go for the guy that she is enthusiastic about and the guy she desires. The rest are known as her Facebook friends.

  • Fabfour - there’s no harm in going after what you want, but it’s also good to cut your losses quickly if it’s just not happening. Sometimes, giving her attention then withdrawing it can end up sparking her interest in you. I wouldn’t count on it, but it definitely does happen sometimes.

  • SO true, thanks for writing this, I've been chasing a lot lately but I want to adopt the same philosophy.

• Women have a lot of options. Especially these days with social media. Strangers are complimenting them and talking to them every day so guys need a way to stand out. Only issue is that what works for some women won't work for others. With dating sites, the biggest issue I see over and over is guys messaging with a basic greeting or something that looks like they probably copy and pasted the same message to everyone. I don't know about the voice thing, I might be weirded out a bit if I was sent that if I had only messaged them once or twice. If I'm already not looking at someone favourably, a voice message wouldn't help. The second point is definitely high risk. Not something I'd really recommend, especially if the woman is someone who likes to plan things in advance because that will lead to a straight up no. Need to get to know her before doing anything risky. I agree with the third point. Genuine interest serves everyone well.

  • Sending a voice can only hurt, not help. If she doesn't like the sound of your voice or you say something she is not interested in or doesn't like or you sound nervous or unsure it's over. Let's face it it's awkward leaving a voice messgae before ever speaking first with a girl.

• Follow up question: if she doesn’t respond to the first text, and We apply your “stating our intent” suggestion. How many days/weeks should we wait after the no response to text her again?

• It seems like feminisms entitlement has ruined dating not just for men but for women too.

  • absolutely,it looks weird but it is true!!

  • Exactly as planned

  • Sad triggered man

• I learned that I text way better when I'm drunk! Because when I'm drunk, I don't overthink about what I'm going to say and I just say it! Most of the time, I end up waking up the next morning reading the messages I sent and they actually turn out pretty good. As in, I get dates, I get laid, or I just get to developed a better relationship with a woman.

  • I see AA in your future...🥂

• If she is being cold or aloof, she doesn't respect you and is actively looking for another man that she perceives to be of higher value than you.

  The solution? Ghost her and on to the next.

• Relationships are built on equal respect and friendship, if you don't get texted back then don't bother! She or He is not worth your time.

• With all due respect, this is by far the worst advice I've ever heard. The actual advice is NEVER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES get into any kind of texting routine with any woman prior to actually dating in person. Maybe do a little bit to establish rapport, and then set up a low-risk low-pressure meet-up. If she doesn't respond to this, immediately drop her and move onto the next. Period, no exceptions, end of story, that's it.

• I know heaps of women in their late 30's and 40's who are like that. They all ask where the good men went. Weeeelllll the good men invested their time in people who didn't ignore them.

  • And a lot of good men have no idea where to find good women for a lifetime commitment. Widowers have no idea where to find a quality lady instead of a temporary friend. Most that have had a divorce come with issues and likely to come with lots of baggage. Many older ladies that are single are single for a reason and should remain single.

  • listen to Tate on this hahaha