Should You Date More than One Guy at Once?

I think dating is complicated enough nowadays without this horrible rotational dating. Ever watch a few seasons of the Bachelor of the Bachelorette, watch how conflicted the Bachelor or Bachelorette becomes once there are multiple options, watch how much pain and suffering is inflicted on those who really, really were invested in the person ( and knew that they were in competition with others) but got dropped for no reason aside from the fact that the person felt more of a spark two months in with someone else. The problem with dating nowadays is that people are constantly looking for the bigger, better deal. Ever go on a date with a man who spent every moment eyeing up other women, how did it feel, I'm guessing not great if you have even an ounce of self respect yet folks are expecting to have multiple partnerships going on whilst they whittle things down and hurt people in the process as they decide that Fred is cooler than Dave. As a guy if I think for even one minute that a woman is dating me and a number of others, I will head for the door. As a society, for dating success, we have to get back to dating in an intentional way and stop messing people around.