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Stop Freezing Up (Use These 3 Steps Instead)

You see someone you like, and instead of approaching them… you freeze. ❄️
This means you see opportunities to meet people literally passing you by in your daily life.

If you can be socially confident enough to meet people offline, you’ll create abundance in your dating life. 🌱

Here are 3 steps to unblock your 'freeze' response:

1. Don’t wait to feel confident.
   Confidence comes and goes — don’t rely on it to get things done.
   Instead, prove to yourself that you can do it even when you’re not feeling 100%.
   This builds confidence, and enables you to take more shots. 🎯

2. Use the 3-second rule.
   This is solid advice from old-fashioned pick-up artists.
   If you’re fearful, sitting around thinking about it will make it worse.
   Like jumping into a cold pool, sometimes you’ve got to count down… 3-2-1… and go.

3. Keep it simple.
   From 15+ years of teaching people to meet each other offline, I know the last thing you need is a plan that’s too complicated to execute.
   An amazing icebreaker makes a small difference… deciding to act makes a HUGE one.