Stuck in a Situationship? How to Get Him to COMMIT | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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• I just stopped dating 😊

  • “I'm no longer dating.
    If you're interested in me. I need a 1000 word essay on how you'll not waste my time.”

  • @valentinamarialucia same!

  • @@timelessredlipstickfor real!! I’m gonna use this!!

  • I think that all too often we don't Date enough. ...we become exclusive too soon with guys who haven't told us they want that and try to make it work...oh Matt' s just said that, lol. ..i was typing whilst listening.
    We need to Date a Lot until the Right Man for Us...Finds Us....a man who is serious about us will tell us clearly and early on. NO GUESS WORK or even work ..needed by us. The man who recognises our worth will make darn sure he makes us, his asap. And he will continue to Treat Us Well....not like a narcissist who seems too good to be true, Love Bombs us first few months then turns into a monster.
    All we need to do is stick to our values and Never Accept 2nd Best.
    Wish i had learnt this early in my life...Took me until I was 55 to meet The One, as I was taught by our mother that I had to put up with bad behaviour from men...ie Dad....and Make a relationship work. .
    Not True.
    Don't give up Ladies.
    Just be yourself and have fun. It will happen.

  • Same!!! Been single over 10 years now.

• If the guy at first he share everything with u his plans n what he wants to do and involves you in everything he does....then after some years he start changing and he becomes cold 🥶 what should the woman do to be at a peaceful mind set or healthy relationship or healthy state of mind.....

• Before I used to talk to men who were on a fun ladder to communicate my desires and see their reaction. Now I use silence 'cause I think they don't worth any word or energy from my side (their behaviour is usually evident) and go far far away from the place they are.

• I felt this!! Guess he will always be on the fun ladder..... he told me right when we first met he wasn't looking for nothing just yet he wants to see where it goes. A year later things got worse but "I'm still the one he wants to try with" but still ain't with him a year later lol 🤦‍♀️

  • Great example! Thanks for sharing

  • The phrase Try With....would be a red flag with me. In my experience. ..a man Knows if you are what he wants. ...and he'll tell you straight so you know...cos he wants to keep you. Took me 55 years to learn that. Wish more fathers told their daughters not to take any nonsense or fobbing off. If our dad's set the example then i am sure we would be saved so much heart ache.

• I as in one of that...he wanted to have fun, I was not in the fun place...I walked away

• “We're not single cause we can't find anyone.
  We're single because everytime we find someone, they show us why we're better off single.”

  • Stay single ladies!

  • BEST COMMENT EVER!!! I just got dumped by a man who I thought was my soul mate. 7+yrs. A lot of our relationship was long distance. Then when we were very close geographically his I'll elderly mother became the excuse along with job, that he was busy and didn't make time for me. I put up with that too long!! He was there for everyone else but didn't prioritize me. So when I told him I wanted to talk to him, he told me he didn't have time for a girlfriend right now because of.......all kinds of reasons/excuses, even adding maybe when mom gets in a nursing home, and when this happens.. I didn't say much other than ok, well I hope you find what you're looking for. And his response was I don't knownif I'll ever find it! BAMM he wasn't looking for some space, he had already moved on and didn't have balls to say so. Well ok. No time for a girlfriend but immediately shows up on a dating site. Bastard.

  • Agree 😊

  • Stick to your values....keep saying No to any who don't fit for you.....and one day you'll meet a man who shows you, consistently, not just for a few months, that life is better with him.
    Too many people settle for less and then wonder why they don't meet the right one. How can they if there is no space for the right one to enter their lives.? Good luck

• This is so helpful. Mat, your timing is IMPECCABLE! :)

• Thank you 🙏🏽

• I tried 3-4 times but every time he turns or I accept to continue and couldn't stop. Please help 😢

• And I think I love him