The 7 FASTEST Ways To Expose A Man’s INTENTIONS

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• Season greetings ❤️ thanks for this

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• You are right! They don't have to lie really

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  • Certain guys lie...and will continue to lie and manipulate yall...because they don't care...and they get successful with it, cause women fall for the same ol tired games all the time. So it is what it is.

• This is SO timely as I'm starting to date again after 10 years of being in a relationship!

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  • Same here and it’s hard out here!!

• This is simple,! You need boundaries. You tell the guy up front "I'm not having sex with you or anybody else until I'm married!" Right there you'll eliminate 75% of the men/BOYS!!
  YOU MUST HAVE BOUNDARIES!! NOT ONLY IN DATING BUT IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP! IT'S THAT SIMPLE!

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  • You're right... I've just had a conversation with a man I thought I liked but he sent me his half-naked photo and wanted me to recipricate, which I didn't do. I know him from work but he didn't even make an effort to see me on a date once. We just texted. I thought he was one of the decent guys but guess not. I lost my interest. Not that I'm a nun but definitely I'm not that fast.

  • I totally agree!! I have done this and eliminated the man I was involved with. He couldn’t wait but at least had dignity to accept the truth and move on. ❤

  • @NavyVetE5 You phrased this beautifully. This feels like it is phrased perfectly center where it weeds out the wrong men on the back end without pushing away the good men on the front end.

    I say that because I see so many women sabotage themselves, by taking their boundary to the other extreme and turning it into a carnal, cussing, fuss fit where they say it over and over again like they are trying to fix a man. Good men usually get the point the first time and are looking to move on with life.

• You know your videos are always helpful and informative, counselor. That's one of the reasons why I love watching them. 😉❤️💯

  • Thank you so much! 🙏

• Great video, I've been single over eight years and is considering dating next year for a husband . And your videos are inspiring/preparing me for such. Thank you!

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• You really have to love someone to establish a great physical relationship, at any age.

  As you get older with children raised and out of the house, it's really good to know what you want from a relationship.

  • Well said 🙏

• Need a video on exactly how to tell a good man you want to wait until marriage. It's a delicate topic, and even more so if it's a good relationship in which you already have feelings for each other....it's more intimidating when you already have chemistry. Hopefully he'll be ok with it but you really can't predict how it will go. Would appealing to their masculinity help? Like telling them you're trusting them to protect your virtue/morals? And instead of treating them like they can't handle it, instead, treat them like you expect the best of them, that they'll be able to have self control. They will be your hero by fighting the battle of lust, right along with you. That's something they should hear, I assume.

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  • After starting a few relationships, I wish I had asked these questions, in a nice way, rather than trying to guess their intentions, at age 68 time is short. Spent my life married so being single is harder, but I have learned to let people go immediately if it's not right without taking it so personally as rejection. Best advice Stephan.❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • If looking for advice, I'd say something like, 'I'm really attracted to you, however my purity is important to me and I have decided to wait until marriage. I know if I slept with you, I wouldn't feel good about myself afterward, so I don't even want to go down that road pre-marriage.' Your thoughts?

  • @MWroses I am so glad that you asked this question. It might vary a little depending on what I would call either the level or variation of good in the man, or his standards, but the one thing that I would say would probably be common among them all is not to repeat it over and over again because I would say that good men are most likely to get the point on the first, or second time tops, and are ready to move on with life.

    I know that definitely applies with me. I can understand her need to state that boundary, but, after that, I need to move on and figure out what she wants out of life in the meantime.

    I also happen to be anti-cussing, so, if someone states that boundary with cuss words, I am most likely going to say it is a no-go. I might be lenient if she says something like, "no d-word sex until marriage" if no other cuss words pop up in the conversation afterwards. I am willing to tolerate a word or two here and there, except for the f-word. If she drops that, we are done unless she can commit to not using that word again. She can find a man that wants to put up with that.

• Thank you🤗 for being able to share.🙏A man with great intentions won't use the word intentions because he knows it's an emotional word. I've been dating online, and I can differentiate the type of man that use that word based on what they described. They're looking for and if it's just pictures of themselves. Most of the time when a man says he's dating with intentions . he does not describe sharing his world. He describes wanting someone to validate him. That's what I have experienced personally, but that's how I have weave the ?🧐 from the real😇 🤝

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  • You are absolutely on point!! He desperately needs the validation without doing the work (clear consistent communication) for starters. First he wanted marriage right away then FWB then just faded away. Good riddance

• Hi Stephan and chat, happy Blessed Mondayyyy!🤗

  I can totally agree and relate! I've been dating a guy for aout 5-6 months, and at one point I noticed a change in his actions/our communication.

  So we went on a date and I brought it up to him (because I prefer to have these conversations face to face). He helped me understand as well as we came to an understanding collectively... And it LITERALLY STRENGTHENED our relationship/dynamic.

  So I thank God for 2 mature adults being able to talk and come to an understanding moving forward.

  And Thank you, Stephan!
  I referenced you/your content to a guy friend of mine, who I believe will find it helpful in his life.

  Continued Blessings 🙌🏾🎁🌟