The HARSH TRUTH About Dating TODAY! | Stephan Speaks

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• Sometimes God send you wrong person so that you can realize you Self-worth. Don't waste your time with Wrong Person

  • GOD will not send you the wrong person, GOD is not "The Author of Confusion" satan is!!!

  • @LaShonda Rochell I was just about to say the same thing.... the only thing I will add is.... the devil will send you the wrong crazy person disguised as the "right" person.

  • Wrong...

  • God did not send you the wrong person, usually you get with the wrong person because you tried to help GOD out. Bad idea!

  • 💯💯 facts!!! I'm a testimony of being with the wrong person and putting up with toxic behavior. I learned a lot about myself that I never knew but I know now 💯😊

• We got stop learning the same "lessons" over and over again. It's called insaniety. We have to do better!

  • Very very valid point !!

  • And want something better....

  • @Black butterfly yes I totally agree

  • Lexus Black yessss insanity-doing the same thing & expecting different results.

  • That’s why I went my own way! Gave up on a dysfunctional dating scene. Never been wealthier, healthier and happier.

• "You will never be good enough for the wrong person....when people do not see your value, they're not for you. Get them out of the way."

  • That's powerful n deep when u think about it . But yet so Tru 💯

  • We gotta let that sizzle n our spirit

  • @Healing Handz facts. Women should not have to go through emotional suffering all in the name of love. Women ought to know and value their power ...by CEASE AND DESIST with sticking around in a dead relationship all in the name of CONVINCING someone we are worthy of love...long suffering through the motions all in the name of HOPING THAT guy will "come to his senses" and realize we are "that chick" and make us #1.

    Exscuse my language...F 🖕 that!!!

  • @Stephan Speaks Thank you, Stephan. I am so "woke"...when it comes to all that you speak about in this latest video of yours.

    I'm not 1 of these dumb azz, "well, you do things when you're in love" type of women. My species actually believes one has to suffer when it comes to emotions, when it comes to a man, when it comes to worthyness .

    Uhhhhhh.....I...THINK...NOT, SS❤🖤💜💛💚💙 Hoping to see you in concert when your tour comes through to NYC 🗽

  • That spoke volumes to my Soul , I had to pause.

• He speaking facts there are a lot of people in 10 year relationships that are not going no where

  • That was me.

  • Stephan is a Derick Jaxn in a blazer and long hair. Same snakeoil.

  • Coolkidz Media
    Exactly.
    10/25/19

  • He’s speaking common sense.

  • I was one of them....12 years of cheating, lying, narcissistic abuse🤦🏾‍♀️

• Hate when people in Bad marriages try to judge like I should pick the wrong person like they did

  • 😂😂😂SO TRUE!🖒

  • Omg!! My friend that vents for 3 hours about her own husband every time we get together tried to hook me up with a mutual old college friend. I said he’s not a person of strong character and confidence from what I’ve seen over the years.
    She said he’s been on his job for 20 years and he recently got his masters degree. But he still works in the AT&T store (no judgement, but that’s not particularly matching my ambition and you don’t need a masters even to be a manager.) Also, she’s said he’s called her husband a few times in the past 2 years because he “ran out of gas.” Not because he’s necessarily broke, but his gas gauge doesn’t work and he hasn’t gotten it fixed or purchased a newer more reliable car. Now why would I want a 44 year old man who can’t be responsible enough to not run out of gas. She says she thinks he just needs a good woman. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️😂😂😂

  • @Kenya From Cali That's the problem too many people think a partner is supposed2 fix problems; naw he need a financial advisor i suggest Charles Schwab

  • Misery loves company

  • Kenya From Cali Trust me, that same man will in future be more settled in his life, maybe even cash 💰 in his retirement, perhaps set up a small online tech business and he will be attracted to a younger version of you. A man has a far longer trajectory on the sexual market place. Turning down a hard working fellow now because of the things you see in the media is a poor mistake.

• "You will never be good enough for the wrong person" Damn!! #facts

  • Right

  • Veganwithmuscles the truth hurts

  • or maybe WE are the wrong person !!!!
    stop blaming others!!!

  • @jackassfat If we wouldn't date ourselves, then yes, we are the wrong person. If there are genuine things that we need to work on that would make a healthy relationship impossible with us (habits, attitudes, etc.), we are the wrong person. However, if we are emotionally and spiritually healthy and a certain person doesn't want us, the problem is not that we aren't good enough for them. The problem is that we are not for them.

  • @Miss Priss Wow !!!!Just loved your reply. Thanks a lot!!

• In this increasingly matriarchal society, I have eliminated dating altogether , went back to college for a 2nd degree, started working out more and eat organic. I have not had a girlfriend in 10 years or sex in 6 years. It was difficult at first but I have never felt so good mentally , physically and spiritually in my life.

  • It's been six years for me as well.

  • Trunks Saiyan blood Truth. I found that a relationship with a woman on a platonic level is not appreciated.

  • You are an inspirational to all

  • Very proud of your journey.

  • Amen!!! Same for me havent had a relationship in almost 8 years been celibate for about 6.5 years.

• I've done this multiple times, trying to force things to happen with the wrong person! Lesson learned! Doing the same thing over and over and expecting better is insanity! Stop wasting time with the Wrong men ladies! 💯👌

  • And you are too old for me

  • Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......

  • Contact him👆👆

• It will be difficult for a broken woman or man to know if the "right" person came along. Let's fix ourselves and the focus on dating. Those who use us and waste our time are probably broken and the cycle continues.

  • Kimzii Hodges awesome

  • Hodges the cycle does keeps going on. The sooner we fix ourselves and get out of the sorry state, the better..

  • True that's why I don't date women who still mad about what they ex did. Waste of time

  • Yea, everybody (men/women) need to take care of themselves first; if you seek happiness in a relationship, you already lost. I’m not looking for someone to make me happy or be my super dream wife. I’m looking for a partner, life companion that is serious about starting a family etc.
    But I will not marry (again).

  • This the one

• YES!!!! Use your intuition/gut feeling ladies! It will never steer you wrong! I dated a guy for 3 months last year n should have dropped him sooner. I knew he wasn't the one although he was FINE!😂🥰 But he had wandering eyes and I knew he was love-bombing me. Most likely he was a narcissist cuz he even admitted to me that he wanted to get me hooked. No thanks! The devil is a liar!