The HARSH TRUTH About Dating TODAY! | Stephan Speaks

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  • Old school values seems gone, and new school tech stuff is so depressing. And like disconnect, u feel same way? Or advice

  • I feel discouraged dating at 37 divorced, recovered from abusive relationship and left. And 3 yrs lata want to date, but old school values

• If you see red flags in the beginning of the relationship or anything that makes even remotely uncomfortable, address them! You may think it’s stupid or little, but if it matters to you, it should matter to your partner, and they should be willing to speak openly about your concerns with you. If you don’t address them now, they will come back later and cause problems. Just remember to speak through your issues.

• "You meet someone and you know something is missing but you hang around anyway"

  Words spoken to me directly.

• Daaaamn!!!!!!! Could've saved a lot of years & tears!!!😔 EXCELLENT advice👍👍👍Need to be taught to teenagers in schools before they start the dating scene. This would certainly help us all in understanding what HEALTHY relationships are about.💖🙏

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  • Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......

• I have loved someone for almost 2 years... I spent a year trying to prove to him I was good enough..... he still never stepped up...
  All that time though, it was about him and never about me, I want to love myself again, find that happiness within me but man.. is it tough when you give you’re all to a person and they just toss it aside ... people can be horrible

  • Try 25 lost my job and car then she divorce me.gave everything I could and still NO DEAL.SMMFH.

  • OMG!!!!!!!!!! This is exactly how I feel!!!!! Wow!! I'm going through this right now!

  • You just need to move on. It's hard but it's best for you.

  • Not really. Never regret giving ur all and loving with all ur heart. Just be careful not to fall for a swine & pay attention to red flags in ppl in all types of relationships, not just lovers. Also come back to urself & give that love to u 1st as well.
    When ur God sent twin flame comes into ur life then you'll know how to love them with everything. Never let the wrong person break apart ur heart (even the bible says not to give our hearts to swine, but to protect it) The 1 who's waiting cant wait to feel every piece of u

  • Like what my aunt to me. Dont put all your trust in one person. Theres 7.2 billion people on this Earth. Dont focus on one. I understand tho being in a relationship with someone over a year but at the same time it doesnt really feel like you to are dating. I hate it when they waste my time. If u do not want to be with me just say it and we will go on our separate ways and lives.

• “Don’t internalize rejection “ a word 🙌🏽

  • I know I've done this and need to stop. 😬

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  • Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......

  • Surah Online it is ! I think we always put it on ourselves and we just have to understand it as it wasn’t Gods plan . Often times were often to good for someone and that person can’t handle what you have to offer 🙏🏽

  • *Its hard not to*

• "You will never be good enough for the wrong person."

  • Amen, Amen,Amen

  • @Jonothan Doezer I'm in stitches at your comment!

  • There r 7 billion wrong person then

  • Have You ever wondered Why One Love becomes Prayer in Church & Other Love becomes like a Poison? The reason is people don’t know how to Love & then they blame love as it is easy to blame others same way they blame love ,as People don’t know how to love & then blame love as the cause, No People don’t know How to Love, Love means Full Freedom with absolutely no Possession Otherwise Love becomes nothing but a Jail in Which You can only Go In But You can't come out & then if You can't come out You Suffocate, Love has to Be Like a Church in Which You can come in & Out with Your own Wish, Love is Completely Unconditional with No Expectations & When You Expect You are doing a Business & in Business There Might Be Profit & Loss But Unfortunately No Love, Love is Like a Ladder to Heaven & if You Don't know How to Love then the same Ladder will Bring You Down to hell, So Its People's Fault Not Love's Fault but People Don't know How to Love so They Blame Love as it is Easy to Blame Others So They Blame Love,Love Should be Inside & IF there is something with You ,You Don't need to ask Outside as Love is an Insiders Thing,beggars can’t give anything, Only Kings can donate, Love is a Donation of heart & its ripples should generate in Your Heart with Yourself then Only it can spread outside just like a stone thrown in pond generates ripples from stone to the whole pond,Love is a part of Your intrinsic nature & should not be confused with instant sate of mind just as an Aroma of Rose is for EveryBody, The MoonLight is for EveryBody just as the Chirping of Birds at Sunset is for EveryBody Same Your Love is For Whole World it can't be for someone specific if it for someone it might be Your Attraction Nothing Else & Attraction Lies in Imagination & For Imagination Freedom is required that's why the Men or Women appear Far Appears to be More Attractive than the Closer Ones as You still Have Lots of Freedom From Them To Imagine,There is always a picture of man or woman of imagination in our mind & whoever resembles to it we are attracted to them only until we get them ,after getting them there is nothing left to think & soon our attraction dies & we start getting bored,clothes is also an attraction & creates Imagination whereas Nudity or naked kills Imagination as You don’t look at animals as they are naked sameway You won’t look at man or woman if they are naked ,clothes are illusion to create big & tight, which is small ,irregular & loose,Nudity is mans’ imagination whereas woman’s love lies in absorption that’s why woman close their eyes at the time of sex or kiss as they are more interested in knowing their inner feelings rather than looking at man whereas man want to see woman, Woman’s love is micro & gets deep with time & like man’s over all personality or attitude, whereas man’s love is physiological & sheds off as woman gets old, woman’s coordination is with her body man’s coordination is with his hear that’s why man drinks more when they are hurt in love,Sex is just a biological sport which lies in imagination,a woman playing basketball with 10 men won’t look bad even if she is loosing energy but having fun but if she is loosing energy & having fun with 10 man at the same time doing sex then society will consider it as sin,sex is creation & can never be wrong,just as man need many partners woman also needs but cant express due to consider criminal that’s why acts as dead during sex to avoid interest,man or woman are made of same hormones just ratio is different in each other & same piece of flesh outside in man flipped inside makes a woman, both are same in childhood & old age just to continue human race they show few changes in youth, actually man & woman is a psychological illusion, imagine you are born in jungle ,nobody told you anything you will never know any wrong things & your smile would be open & beautiful, man & woman both comes from half man & woman so both are half man & half woman always,what is bad for woman is bad for man as well as bad is bad for everyone,Now if You have loved this man or woman as you love man or woman but if you won’t love other man or woman then you won’t love your own man or woman as after all they are also just a man or woman ,love lies in your every breath & if you won’t breath in front of other man or woman by the time you will reach to Your own man or woman you will be a dead body with no soul, & no man or woman can satisfy your every expectation forever,only you can satisfy yourself,the eternal lover lies within your own eyes within your own heart that’s why you feel other man or woman less or more proportionate compared to your eternal inside lover & it will go on till your last breath, even if you will find right love at last breath that last breath of love is equal to eternity of love in itself as love is beyond time, Love is Journey & a Destination in itself & there is nothing Beyond or below Love as You have Loved Someone then the matter is Finished there &f is nothing left to expect,say or to feel more,IF You will Ask For Love Outside You will Never Find Outside or You Might get Hurt terribly sometimes in the Process as well,as Love is Inside You a big ocean a Big Universe of Love & You just need to Unleash Unravel Your Inner World of Love, You don't need to will never find a Find Drop of Love Outside desert When You Have Ocean of Love Inside. So Find Your Inner Treasure Now

• Moral of the story “when someone shows you who they are believe them the first time... and walk”. Thank you for this.

  • Amen, Amen, Amen

  • True. Even if they try 2 change their stripes only believe what they reveal first.

  • s J so true!!!

  • s J I prefer running away, gets cardio going at least. Haha jk 😂

  • Maya Angelou.

• Remember: The signs you ignore in the beginning end up being the reasons you leave later

  • So true. It’s sad because I knew better. But I still went through with it. 9 months later, it came back to bite me. And now it was much difficult to say good bye.

  • this was so me, and it took 5 years of dating to finally decide to leave. when i saw these signs within the first 5 months.

  • So true it happen to me😭

  • True

  • So true

• Applies to friendships too. Stop hanging out with people who don't value you.

  • so real

  • WORD.

  • Great point

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