The MAN of Your Dreams Will Find You If You Understand THESE 5 Keys

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• I recently asked a guy in the gym if he's single. He's just got engaged but could not have been more polite and generous. He was a good reminder that there are good guys out there, and I can take the initiative. I'm in my 50's and my grown-up sons that my move "kicked arse"!! Love from the UK ❤

  • That's a great example 🙏

• Most of the time this type of occurance happens when you are just moving along in life, and aren't really vigorously looking, but open to it.

  • Well said 🙏

  • Yes, sometimes you have to take "the path of least resistance" by just living your life. Too much "conscious effort" can be bad.

• 9:12 I told my friend don't be afraid to flirt a little lol because I know how men are, they need to know they are desired. Nothing crazy or anything but some hints. If he does not reciprocate then that more than likely a sign to move on... I would definitely move on if no flirting was received back lol

  • Exactly 🙏

• True…
  I am not putting myself out there.
  Need to adjust this 😉😄

  • I dont make the first move either… 🙈😅

  • I’m glad you can acknowledge this and are willing to do something about it

  • @@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank You for making me more aware of it. 😘

• Ladies we have to keep an open mind too! There are a lot of good men out there. They may be shy, ugly, or don’t have the aesthetic we’re looking for. Keep your spiritual eyes open and not just your physical carnal mind ❤️

  • I couldn’t agree more 🙏

  • True 😂😂😂

  • I wouldn’t say ugly. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so let’s just say they may not come in the package that you may desire. 😂

  • 💯… I had to acknowledge that I’m choosing what I want versus who GOD has for me. I always had a type. I recognized I needed to make adjustments and better decisions making . I am dating someone on line and so far so good. 😊 I did add him to my prayer list lol . I want who GOD has for me. Don’t give up ladies❤

  • He can't be ugly for me I have to kiss him I want an attractive man just as well as I want to be attractive for him along with physical attraction I want a respectful loving etc... and I for him

• I agree you have to put yourself out there

  • 🙌 yes!

• So glad you mentioned making the first move and breaking it down to what it means and what it does not mean, love that! Nothing wrong with presenting yourself👌🏽

  • You're so welcome! 🙏

  • Making the first move ? no ,I prefer to pull some lil strings 🤣 hopefully
    he interprets well, if it works this can be a laughable confession later

• Thank You, Stephan, for clarifying the concept of “finding” a wife/money etc. Great analogy!💯💜

  • Thank you 🙂

• People used to be more active in community organizations that were the hub of their social life.

  • This is so true

  • Facts. I met all relationship partners IRL. I've been single my entire 40s and noticed the way ppl find partners is via dating applications. I love talking to people, so that is my preferred method. But I know for many years I was just not open.

  • @@boston1976 Adam Conover did a video on what was wrong with the Democratic party and how the lost accountability and one of the reasons he cited was lack of community organizational involvement, which used to be the cornerstone of American social life; the Lions, the Elks, Veteran Service Organizations, unions, etc. If you're rural, even something like the Grange Association.

    Those organizations held dances, spaghetti dinners, pancake breakfasts, and whatnot.

  • ​@Asenueh That's no reason to blame a political party.

  • @tlh7490  The video spoke more about the social ennui due to lack of active participation in groups that hold events outside of the house. THAT was my point.

    We lack third spaces to meet people IRL and that was where those spaces were.

• A great man approached me January 1st. He told me he hesitated but we’ve already been out once and had a great time! He’s not my usual type, I’m used to guys rejection. We are the same age and he is very attentive.

  • Wishing you all the best darling❤

  • Good luck I hope he is the right guy

  • Wow !!! Great start for 2025 Boom Boom 👍👍👍👍

  • If a woman has to make the first move in the beginning, she will always have to put forth effort in the relationship. It’ll become exhausting with him just sitting back expecting her to do everything.

  • Good luck all the best may GOD almighty facilitate the process for you