The Norwegian “Friendship One Night Stand” #shorts

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• As a Canadian...I'm exactly like this. It's like, what do I say to you now? I've already told you everything!

• This explains so much. I worked with a Norwegian guy in Australia and he overshared so much about his life, when he left the job he just never responded to my messages or stayed in touch (we never hooked up, just work friends) so i dont understand why he didnt want to stay in contact :(

• This guy at the end:

  “Oh crap. I’ve said too much. I’ve been too vulnerable” 😂

• That’s too bad because I would feel closeness if someone over share towards me. I would take it as a privilege that someone opens up to me. There’s no such thing as too soon because it will happen sooner or later anyway so might as well cut to the chase. But again perhaps why I’m ghosted cause i over share too soon. Stay authentic and let it filter the people who will appreciate the way you are.

• Funny enough sometimes we latinos also start telling our entire life story to strangers, I've done that, my mother has done that and even a waitress we met while on holiday did that . The difference is that we are not so embarrassed XD

• It's a very similar story in Germany too

• He's a cutie.

• Where I'm from that's called "being drunk"

• The solution is stop their oversharing, tell them to get a therapist, and go on to mutually fun subjects.

  Men do the same thing - use their dates as therapy lessons. Ive had to cut that off a few times. Its not that fun being your emotional dumping ground, so dont allow it. And there is a difference berween mutual sharing and being a emotional trashcan for them.

  Or dont go to norway thats notoriously hard to make friends with. I see so many flights there, and im like, why? So i can sit at a bar by myself and not socialize with anyone? Sounds fun 🙄

• Normal.
  1. You have little social energy sober.
  2. Drinking gives to social rocket fuel.
  3. Next day sober & you have little energy again.
  4. You drink again days later & the cycle repeats.
  5. Just follow your sober goals/ways.
  6. Life/time/energy *IS* limited, if it wasn’t then we could be friends & lovers with everyone..not possible…cause of human limitations.