The perfect response when she says ‘I’ll let you know’

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• I think it's warm test man that the first thing you should do is leave never talk to her again be done with it

• Why is it the vice-chairman when a woman is wishy-washy is just give her a chance but women if a if a man is wishy-washy with a woman she doesn't give him a chance

• Perfect response? Next!

  • Yes much better to invest your time in meeting new women than pursuing someone who isn’t interested

  • Better yet, focus more on persuing your path and purpose than wasting time, energy and resources on women who don't like you, bruh

• I would just walk away and find someone else who is going to be willing to be serious.

  • Well said!

• It's best to move on. A woman that's genuinely interested in you won't feel the need to play games or waste time. Unless she's naturally flakey and immature to everyone (including her friends and family), we all know most women can be indecisive and unsure of themselves. However, if she really likes you, she'll make time for you and will even adjust her schedule accordingly if needed.

  • "maybe" mean that you aren't a priority- find some one else when fed this line

  • ​@@stonepaintertim I was fed that line the first time. The second time I was fed "I'll let you know." The third time I was told yes. She cancelled twice because family things and work, but I also took her out on an awesome date last night. Patience and understanding is highly desirable. But circumstances with us is we've established a friendship before actually going out with each other, with hours of phone conversations.

    If it's a woman from an online dating app, or a woman you only just met and got her number, it is probably wise to move on. But even then, I've gotten dates in the past on online dating apps when they say "I'll let you know" then they actually let me know. All depends on the circumstances.

  • The proverbial unicorn...I have yet to encounter one and I'm 55.

  • @@polycrase why do you think that might be?

  • @@Swwatter glad it worked out for you that way.

• walk away 🙄

• She's indirectly telling you she's not interested, but wants you to keep chasing to boost her ego with free attention and validation

  • Correct

  • Plus in some cases free meals, drinks and gifts.

  • For some people maybe but not for all 👍

  • For some people maybe but not for all 👍

  • Not for some women but for most women

• Never learn to fish from a fish.

• When women say to me "I'll let you know". I quickly respond with, "FORGET IT" The reason why I respond like that is because #1- they clearly are NOT interested and #2-it makes no sense to waste each other's times and energy. #MoveOn

  • Consider a more neutral response- even negative energy from you is still your (limited) time and energy 🙏🏻

  • Say ok and get out your phone and act like you're going to call another woman.

• Had this happen to me a week ago, so i didn't contact her & let her get back to me, she didn't so now i move on. I agree with the bonus option, have standards & if they can't meet those they are not what you are looking for anyway.

  • Well said.. if not her there will be someone better for you who can give you a clear yes to a date

  • @@HayleyQuinn Definitely not her! She had her chance & more or less stuffed me around by not getting back to me so she's not what i am looking for. Onto the next...