The Price EVERY Woman Pays For Committing To The WRONG MAN

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• Thank you for posting this video. I felt this one. I found it to be very helpful. You're exactly right. There is a VERY high price to pay when someone commits/marries the WRONG person and unfortunately that PRICE and TIME is nonrefundable. Long story short...I married the WRONG person. Unfortunately, I didn't have a lot of dating experience before marrying. Over the years, I learned that people tend to show what they want you to know so "red flags" aren't always visible but I'm DONE and happily divorced now! It was a no-win situation but God knows I tried and I know that God is with me. I broke the chain in my family but I refuse to stay miserably married. My life has gotten SO much better! It's been over two years now! I've read the books, done the work (healing, writing the letters, praying/forgiving, going to therapy, journaling, improving myself, etc.) I'm positive, optimistic, older and wiser now and I'm looking forward to enjoying my life, dating and remarrying again!

• Thank you so much - I was with the wrong man and every christian told me I had to save the relationship and I didn't have the courage to leave for 22 years . Every single point you made is so real !
  Being so unhappy even almost ruined my physical health . I finally left and found a man who loves me for who I am. I am so happy and relaxed now and my three kids are all happy, too.

• When you are healed and whole, your tolerance level for foolishness is very low.😊

• My alcoholic ex walked out on me after 8 years. He became verbally and physically abusive at the end. I was devastated. Then I realized that I was doing everything wrong from the start. I saw the red flags of his brokenness and ignored them thinking I could help him. He vandalized my vehicle and I pressed charges on him and now Im his enemy. He also got directly into a rebound with a waitress at his job and she was also there when he damaged my vehicle. Its been almost 5 months. Im learning more and more about myself focusing on healing. I will never settle for less every again. I knew he was not on my level and I knew he couldn't provide the life I wanted or needed. It turned out to be a dysfunctional nightmare with a man that was very broken and dysfunctional himself. Im definitely learning my lesson.

  • Wow. Similar stories

• Needed to hear this❤need to learn to trust my gut and forgive myself. Still learning to trust myself. Also side note but I love the background, such pretty flowers🥰

• I want to add no matter who it is it pays to be kind to the one you're with. My ex developed lime disease. He was admitted to the hospital.After a month he came home to his apartment. I nursed him back to health. I fed him goat's milk. He's six feet very slim. After I broke up with him he said he would not pursue me. He would respect my decision because he feels I saved his life. I also feel like he saved mine because it was a healthy relationship.

• The wrong person will always give misery. I no longer allow toxic man in my life. ❤️🙏

• ❤❤❤it's who you connect with on a much deeper level ❤❤knowing that God 🙏 brought you together ❤

  • Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

• Don’t be scared of being alone, be scared of being with the wrong person.

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  • I agree

  • Absolutely!

• I am so tired of being wounded. I have prayed for over 27 years for God to send the right one. I got out of a very bad narcissistic relationship 2 1/2 years ago, and haven’t dated anyone till the last month. It was going great at first, but now he’s pulling away. I’m hurting so bad. I hav even thru other relationships that were narcissistic and escaped and would go years without being with anyone and trying to work on myself. It seems I can’t escape no matter how hard I try. Then I wonder where is God??? God knows I have prayed my heart out so many times. I’m so sick of hearing that you have to let the wrong one go to receive the right one. But then I let go and nobody good ever shows up. It’s just downright disgusting. I do so much on my own and learned to be happy on my own and have pulled thru all the hell and get nothing is changing. When does the good happen? I’m not desperate. I just want to love and be loved in a normal and healthy relationship.

  • Your time will come, I know it is difficult but continuing praying, manifesting and writing those traits you want for God to send in your future partner but you have to trust Gods timing. Continue working on your mental, emotional and physical growth. Lastly, try not to make up little scenarios in your head about a partner within the first 6 months.

  • You are not alone. I pray you find your one 🙏

  • Girllll I hear you loud and clear!!!! It makes me wonder if something is wrong spiritually or what could it be! It's disheartening

  • I feel this SO MUCH!!