The REAL REASON He Came Back TO YOU! | Stephan Speaks
Why does he keep coming back? In this dating advice for women video, I will give you reasons why men always come back after you breakup with them. I will help women in understanding men and the reasons why men always come back after a heartbreak. As a dating coach, what I have come to realize is that the reason why most of the men come back is because of desperation and infatuation. This is an important dating advice for women to help you not fall into that man's trap.
One of the biggest reasons he is coming back is because he cannot let go and you always allow him back into your life. The issue of why guys always come back can be very frustrating. You're trying to move on and here he comes trying to make things difficult for you. DO NOT be blinded by his attempts, and do not fall for any of his games…
When you are letting go of this men or if he walks away from you and then he eventually start to miss you he will come back because the reality is that you provide a certain benefit and they want it back in their lives since they are not receiving the benefit elsewhere. As a dating coach who help women in understanding men, I would want you to always ask yourself if he is really the man for you, do you feel this man, and how do you see this man in your life? I want you to take heed of this relationship advice that I give and always take a step back when that man comes back in your life and pray to God for guidance to see if that man is really the one.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray you find this video helpful, and that you will receive the man who is truly best for you.
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“Hurt me once, shame on you. But hurt me twice, shame on me”. Ladies we HAVE to stop giving men second opportunities to hurt us again
Very true
Excellent comment! I’ll keep it in mind..
Yes Exactly!
And 3 or 4. Ive been going through this exact situation he is talking about, with my daughters dad. Im disgusted with muself for as long as I’ve allowed him to do this in and out BS and not being the man that he needs to be. Struggling to be a man, as a matter of fact
@Nicole Sugrue pleaseeee do not blame yourself.. Evil ppl know a good person from the jump..he is abusing you.. Just let go sis it’s not easy but very rewarding 🖤
Also, when you don’t find him attractive anymore and he just becomes ugly… that’s when you know you’re done
The guy looked like a hyena the entire time and I never noticed 🤦🏾♀️
This was deep! This was 💯💯
preaaach
True hard but true
True sis🙌🤣
Hahahaha
You don’t deserve someone who comes back.
You deserve someone who never leaves
Amen!
This is true . Amen✨🙏
Exactly 💯
This!!
Exactly!
*Growth* is when your ex ain’t even your type no more 😌
I felt that sus!
Rafel Hendricks nope, I *chose* to dip.
FashionablyLate that’s right
PREACH IT
From experience, letting him back hurts more than the 1st time.. So if he is damn enough to let you go, be brave enough to shut that door completely ✌️
Hello I’m so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together……
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If he loves you, he will never abandon you no matter what. If he keeps leaving and coming back, understand that it’s not even about you. Men like this are generally very selfish. If he has to leave you to realize your value, he didn’t appreciate you in the first place.
Ladies, know your worth and never settle for games. If he leaves, consider it a blessing. Never chase him! I know because I made all the classic mistakes. He’d always come back eventually, but it was always the same bullshit. Remember the definition of insanity. It’s doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result. If you always do what you always did, you’ll always get what you always got. Write down a list of qualities you expect from a man and never give your heart or body until you meet someone who encompasses those qualities.
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Thanks for your advice…it’s words of wisdom!
These sure are words of wisdom! Thank you for this ❤️
Thank you ❤ I needed to be reminded of this today.
Great advice. Thank you💖💖💖💖💖
I’ll probably stay single then, it’s so hard to find that guy who is just normal.
“Just because we love someone doesn’t mean you’re meant to be.”
I’ve said the same thing just wish I would practice what I’ve preached.
I’ve said the same thing just wish I would practice what I’ve preached.
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Facts
That’s so true.
It’s great to shut the door on someone that thought you wouldn’t/ couldn’t do it. No matter how much it hurts, holding on hurts a lot more
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Yes Giovanna!
Love this
YES SO RELATABLE 💯💪🏽
This is literally the step I’m at right now. Lol
Sometimes when you “lose” someone, as far as dating is concerned, it’s not always a loss. It could be God is protecting you from something you can’t see because you are in love. I’ve been praying and drawing closer to God and I really appreciated that point.
I needed to see this comment today
@Stephanie me to
Let him go and you move on..
…just be principled, period…
I love God so much. He has really been the one to help me through so much.
Hello I’m so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together……
Thank you! It’s so true. They definitely come back because you let them. They will waste YEARS of your life. For me, it’s because I was weak and insecure. It wasn’t even so much the actual time together, it was more the amount of time they lived in my headspace rent-free. That was the worst part. The years spent obsessively trying to do the right thing and beat myself up for not being enough. Once they see you are still an option, then they will manipulate you and push you to the back of the line. Ladies, please, do NOT let them. Block them from your phone and social media. Move on. Spend time with your family and friends. Pursue your passions and dreams. Travel. Meditate. You are enough, just as you are. The right one won’t leave because he’ll realize who he has the first time. The enemy of love isn’t hate, it’s apathy. It’s taken me 44 years to realize it!
Beautiful comment. Thank you. Whenever I’m feeling down, I’ll refer back here ❤
Thank you
What matters is that u realised it girl!
Thank you for this I appreciate you
I can relate so much…I even attempted suicide because I couldn’t take this mess anymore. He took everything from me in couple of years and decided to came back after 6 years when I finally get my sh*t together. Rn he has shitty life and I don’t feel sorry for him cause he totally deserve this and I’m not planning to be his shoulder to cry on all over again. Luckily, karma always pays back.
This is my second marriage, and I find evidence that my husband has been cheating for 4 plus years. We talk and I decided to work things out. Today I find out he’s still seeing this person…I’m done 🙌🏽. This is the same reason why you don’t give second chances.
Oh no! So sorry to here. His time is coming, in this life or the next. Free yourself!
I’m glad you are strong enough to let him go. 👏
Once a cheater is always a cheater! Always remember that! I ended it with my one that had a baby behind my back!! No going back!
@Mo’s Motivation Am going through a heartbreak right now ,,I feel like I caused some of the things that happen in my relationship ,but am sure if he could have clarified thing’s to me we could be ok..He ended up beating me badly which I forgave him …I ended things personally but right now I feel like I made a wrong decision ..Iam praying to God to give me strength . .am so confused
@Sally Sorry to hear this luv. But you are strong for walking away. Anyone that can beat you or take advantage of your heart is not perfect love. Only God is perfect love. Acknowledge Him in all your ways & desires, & He will direct your path. 🤗💞
He doesn’t want you . He just doesn’t want anyone else to have to you either.
Hello I’m so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together…….
Contact him👆👆.
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He’s just standing in the door blocking the way for another man
Yasss..And blocking the fresh air. LOL get da f out my door foo 🙂
Love it that picture in my mind so helpful for me to realize I should never let that doorman be between me and the man God wants me to be with ❤️🙏🏻
Yes!
In the damn way!
Biggest reality.
If he valued and loved you, a man would never put himself in a position that risks loosing you. Facts!!
100% agreed! I need to be strong and keep that on my mind
You got the point!!!!!👏
Yes 🙌🏾 I said that to my boyfriend and gave him one more chance then he did the same behaviour again only texting me never making plans or communicating etc so I ended it completely 🙏🏽 got a text after three weeks saying he really missed me and missed cuddling me at night , I was triggered but realised he hardly ever cuddled me at night as he never gave me quality time only all on his terms . I ignored him , it was hard but we wouldn’t be in this position if he valued me in the first place
@Catherine trust me your future will thank you for standing Up for yourself in the Long run
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I wish someone will recognise me and accept me, love and cherish me. I want to be loved like i love.
Its all about how subconscious minds have been programmed and they can be reprogrammed to reflect our conscious desires
@Emmanuella Quarcoe please believe you will be loved and cherished, have faith & trust the timing sis 💕
This hit home for me as I want to he loved like I love too….I am in tears right now because this is so true and sad I do not have it.
@Juliet Green – Cortes you also need to believe, trust and keep faith that you will be loved and cherished by someone who deserves you…i am in the same position but I know what’s coming because I manifest it every single day.
It’s simply not our time yet…manifest what you WANT and not what you DON’T have sis 💕
It just doesn’t make sense why me smh I give up
The moment you find him unattractive then you are done
so true…
true men that stick around the second time actually realize their mistake but if it’s a back and forward thing, don’t even bother.
Thank you
I agree with this
Love this comment
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The real reason its because he wants to feel that he still has the power of having you whenever he wants
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Exactly!
Hello I’m so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together……
Contact him👆👆
Thank u
If you lost someone but found yourself, you won 👍🏽
Amen
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Hey Stephan please how can i message you something very personal
Yes that’s what I’m going through right now he always leave but he always come back but I do care for you I just don’t understand what’s going on right now
It’s been two weeks since we broke up can l ask if he comes back should l give him another chance
Hello Stephan! How can I talk you about this situation I can’t seem to let go of?
What about I don’t believe he cheats physically but he is a serial woman checker outer while in my presence. I told him how much this hurts, makes me feel devalued and embarrassed, and takes away my power when he and the woman he checks out lock eyes….