These Confusing Phrases are Actually Major RED FLAGS | Relationship Advice by Mat Boggs

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• He said on our first phone call…”I don’t know if it’s worth a tank of gas and the hours spent to come to dinner with you.” 😳

  • Damn that's gotta be 3 flags in one

• I texted a few times with a
  guy I met at a bar where he was actually the security guard. After texting only twice I mentioned that I had been staying in the house a lot lately. He responded with stating how much he "loves a homebody". Red Flag 🚩 I felt like he was implying that he only wanted and respected a girl who stayed inside. This made me feel as if he wouldn't like me if I went out occasionally. Ironic considering he met me out at a bar. As a single women I felt like I shouldn't be shamed by a man and looked at as not date worthy for leaving the house from time to time.

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• I went on my first date in several years. I was meeting the guy at the restaurant and it was in an area I was unfamiliar with. I texted him to say I was still looking for a parking spot. He texted me back that there was a parking garage, just as I saw the garage. I pulled in and parked. As I was walking away from my car, he texted and said, "Meet you outside the restaurant." When we were walking out of the restaurant - he walked me to my car, but he was leading the way, which I thought was a little odd. Turns out that I parked right next to him. He saw that, but instead of just stepping out then and saying Hi, he chose to follow me to the restaurant. I thought that was a little odd and seemed like a red flag to me. Other things ensued - he grabbed my hand and at one point attempted to put his arms around me - things that couples do, not things that people meeting for the first time do. Ultimately, I decided that I wasn't interested in a second date with him.

• Beware of the one who says, “I’ll be happy when….”! He will never be happy. Once he’s in the marriage, it’ll be, “I’ll be happy when…..” whatever the next thing is. There will always be something, and he’ll never be happy.

  • Truth! That was my ex husband 100% "I'll be happy when..." Was his catch phrase 😂

• Red flag for me (especially when the guy is older):" Ich habe die Richtige noch nicht gefunden." (it's german: "I haven't found the right one yet.")
  Because that puts the responsibility on being the right one on you. It sounds like a challenge for you to become the right one for him.
  I know because I tried exactly that and I didn't get it when my last boyfriend said it to me.
  Turns out HE wasn't right for any woman (lying and cheating a.o.).
  Greetings from Germany - I love this channel even though I'm happily single 😁

• I’m currently under the strong impression that we women need to have the guts to raise the quality bar in all areas so that men have a better clue on what to aim for. It will change the world… 🎉

• Let’s go with the flow

• The “ my ex is crazy”, and “I love you the way you are” phrases

• I remember a key piece of advice that Maya Angelou gave Oprah, she said, “Believe him the first time!” It tools me years to learn that one! I would also add, “You didn’t break him, so don’t fix him!”