These Confusing Phrases are Actually Major RED FLAGS | Relationship Advice by Mat Boggs

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• The “I’m a loner kind of guy” phrase. He was all in and wonderful for about 5-6 months. And then he remembered that he was a loner, and he didn’t want to be in a relationship so he pushed me away.

  • Yes!!!

  • Girls! Wake up!!! He's flattering you, he's using you...he was into you for 6mths, remember he's been hurt before too. Stability, constancy with actions not words, balance in your own life will ultimately attract the right person 🎉t

  • my bloke who was consistently (CON) ,busted cheating (in my brand new BED )to date he has been screwing 4 different girls s after the first few months of being together. Stupid me said to myself 😂 he is so down sue due to his mum passing away he is finding comfort in ot😢er Girls his just very lost at the moment But that is so running out of battery and its now been over a year now and l am a good person and have never cheated on David.J.T. my so called boyfriend whose also fkg 4 other girls at the sametime l also cop his lyes and regular daily beatings . But no no poor David he has had to deal with so much
    When someone physically hurts you especially abloke that you thought you are or was in a serious relationship with you was just lying to you the whole time and really wants to have four or five girl friends at once . Has no respect for anything or anyone My sincere honest loyal and faithful blokeWell What can l say lm Honestly starting to hate his guts and have just decided to start seeing other blokes . l believe you have No relationship once you bust hm having sex .
    l so have made a conscious decision today that l am looking for anew Man Because l think i finally deserve and need a loyal Real, Honest and loving relationship. So Over The Cheating an Violence that l deal with in a daily routine

  • much

  • Oh I left him almost a year ago. I was just giving an example. 😏😉✌🏽

• Ohhh! This is soo good! I just dated a guy (3 times) that he started excusing himself for speaking without filtering on 2nd date. something in me felt it was wrong. On 3rd date he showed no filter also in actions. Thanks and, next! 💫

• I think it’s good to point out that movies and books present the idea that love will change a person who shows red flags. Do not forget. We have fallen for or had a crush on a man we were not in a relationship with. Men are no different. When they are head over heals, it has nothing to do with sex or how hard you try. It happens apart from those things. Now once HE desires a relationship, it’s important to be loving and and supportive. But never stay too long thinking love will change his ways. He’ll only take you for granted. Love CAN change a man. But only when he already is in love. And he knows to have you, he needs to be a good man. It has little to do with if you keep doing loving things even though he does not love you.

  • >>> And he knows to have you, he needs to be a good man.

• "I could be open to a relationship" is mostly used by men in dating apps. Basically it is a catch to bring you to meet them sometimes including having sex and then telling you there is not sparkle, so no relationship.

• Ohhhhhh 😮.
  The worst part is when you realize that you have said one or some phrases like these ones 😣

• 3 years ago I dated a guy who said: "I eventually want a relationship". My gut twinged when I heard that and I ignored it. Or the "I will...(eventually). I just need to do( this) first" in reference to taking control of something like his debt. Needless to say, it didn't last long.

• Love this Mat. We as women need to hear and believe what men tell us about themselves. No fantasy! Great list❤

• These are great!! I've had one guy (now an ex) repeatedly tell me he's an as*hole sometimes, or the phrase - "you know I'm a real c**t at times". This was reiterated when he would say extremely insensitive things and then blame me for feeling hurt, saying i overreacted. I should have realized this was a massive red flag.

• I remember a key piece of advice that Maya Angelou gave Oprah, she said, “Believe him the first time!” It tools me years to learn that one! I would also add, “You didn’t break him, so don’t fix him!”

• The “ my ex is crazy”, and “I love you the way you are” phrases