THIS is the Harsh Reality of Swedish Casual Sex Culture 🇸🇪
I asked Swedes about the infamous Swedish hook up culture. Here is what they had to say.
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And this is precisely why I treat sexuality as something purely reserved for a committed relationship in which I can see a future.
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Take care of yourself. Committed. What do you know about loyalty?
you don’t know the difference between Sex and love 😉
@@Jean-Jaures she/he obviously does
Shes cute. Reminds me of a young Drew Barrymore 😁👍
Yeah, if Drew Barrymore had an under active thyroid
Sadly, I feel thus is also happening in Spain (where I’m from) and many other countries…
Really? I live in Spain, and I feel it’s the most difficult country I have ever been regarding meeting women, because they are so closed here. Unless you meet with non Spanish
@@meastucerinnee Interesting! It all depends about the person you are meeting. In my case, I have met many boys (in Italy, Spain and Switzerland) and any of them wanted to commit anything (maybe my age, maybe the place where I live specifically, maybe the way I knew them…)
@@meastucerinnee
what do you mean by “closed?”
@@BigPharma-pe3mr By closed, I mean unapproachable. They seem to think all men are out to attack them or something.
And on dating apps like tinder, they are extremely difficult to match with, compared to other countries where they are happy to match and talk, or meet up.
This is exactly how I feel in the UK ☹️
So it’s basically the same issues we have here in the US, that’s why we hate it so much. Everyone claims to be happy but it’s clear almost no one is.
there are trillions of married unhappy couples in the world 😉
@@Jean-JauresOnly in countries where sexual “liberation” destroys the ability to pair bond. The more one sleeps around, the less they see sex as an intimate pleasurable experience with someone they are emotionally attached to. Imagine eating a good steak every single day, but it lacks flavor because you have it so often. Now imagine eating a steak made by someone who cares deeply about you, and it tastes way better than the good steak as they put their own seasoning and marinate it for you. BTW, there are only under 8 billion people in the world.
@@Cugastratos The pair bond has nothing to do with the opportunitys to have Sex or the way you made experience bevore.
Cause of my experience I know that my GF is the perfect fit … could be, that other woman look nice but I know they have a lower “energy” 😉
Also Love is not just Sex.
Not the casual sex culture and definitely not only swedish problem. There is a generation that didn’t learn how to communicate with others “offline” and didn’t learn how to cope with rising problems. So they do what they always have done in their life: dropping the problem and looking for new excitement.
nah its just the idea of “liberating” do what feels good is the core problem in the west society, u dont see this kind of problem in the east in general
Wenn es für beide passt bleibt es nicht casual …schlechte Beziehungen sind viel “schlimmere” Experimente. 😉
man sollte sich grundsätzlich nicht allzu viel versprechen ob unmittelbar im Bett oder eben außerhalb
I’ve experimented with both sides of this coin and our friend
@patrickkhachab is right to an extent, traditional religion such and Islam offers srability and order. It also relieves men from the chaoticness of excessive choice.
The flaw of the traditional approach is how to maintain excitement after the lust and infatuation goes away.
I think men having a harem and a wife may be the better choice. But untegulated polygamy or acculturated prostitution creates more problems than it cures.e
😂😂😂 , yeah sure! That’s why you guys migrate in masses to the west right 👍
@Drskopf Yes, because their Koran teaches them that our world is to them “the world of war (al-harb)”. Hence mass migration.
The nature of man is to reproduce himself as much as possible. Ask Genghis Khan, most of Asia in some form descends from him..
Anyway, back to topic: Today’s dating culture is a mess because of unregulated free choice. Hence two famous mantras: “Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?”
Second: “If it F 🍆 cks, Floats or Flies, RENT IT!”
An interesting “chicken and egg” discussion.. 🤣
What a joke 😂 Harems are not the answer. You’re only thinking about what selfish shitbag men want, and that’s to own multiple women and use and abuse them as they please. Women and good men aren’t going to be happy with such a horrible arrangement. Women don’t want to be a part of a harem so you’re going to have to force them into it, and that would make you a shitbag. And good men don’t want to abuse women and they’re happy in a commited monogamous relationship.
You have to think about what’s best for *everyone*
Very few men in islamic world can practice polygamy. Its mostly western men who practice polygamy. By cheating on their partners. Plus by marrying multiple times in their lives. It is polygamy to marry a new person after every few years. You agree or not.
@@Drskopf
they are on a Religious mission to slowly but surely convert west into islam.. they are winning
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The whole world is messed up, not only Sweden. The further away you go from God The more depraved, unhappy and you become.
Puritanism never helped anyone either.
@@jamesdragonforce Not in this life.
True
Genre ils ont censuré le mot sex … Ça va vraiment loin mdr
😂😂😂😂😂😂 the cancel culture
Sweden is a lost case. Feminism is highest here in the world, it’s not for something good.
Can you elaborate
I also want to experience sexuality only in a committed relationship like marriage , because i think that this is a really intimate experience.
Western problem. Everyone is on an expedition
Same in The Netherlands 🇳🇱
Thank God I’m an Eastern European
Nope!
Saying ‘backside’ instead of ‘downside’ sounded like a Freudian slip to me given the aftereffect.
Beautiful eyes.
I’ve started going back to church and started attending several monthly clubs for the socializing.
As my grandmother used to say, if you want to find a good man, go to where good men go.