THIS Is Why Men CAN’T Handle An INDEPENDENT Woman
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I don't want you to think that a man is weak, insecure, or unable to handle you when he tells you you're too independent because sometimes that is the issue. It would be best if you didn't call yourself an independent woman and learned to embrace interdependence. This relationship advice for women will help you understand men better and know how to not be too independent for a relationship.
I want you to understand that the issue of independence is way bigger than in relationships and dating. When you are in a relationship or dating, it is vital to know how to balance being an independent woman and an interdependent woman because when you come out as a strong independent woman, the man may sometimes feel unwanted and not needed.
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My mom didn’t have a choice 4 kid’s what Father, where??????? My mother was both my mother and father… Independent… 🙂
In many households the mom has to wear the pants and the dress
Your Mom was not both.. she was a Mother.. a good Mother indeed. (A woman cannot be a father.)
Good on her 👍. Back in the day when men were worked to death, Mom’s had to play both roles at times & vice versa. God bless.
Facts. I had no choice, forced into independence and also have the ambition.
I feel you, it definitely isn’t an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
Same here and I totally understand what you mean. I’ve been on my own since 17 and that’s all I know how to do, is lead.
From experience; some men feel not needed and or intimidated by independent women. I totally understand why a man would feel not needed. Some men want to feel needed by a woman. Thanks for sharing ❤
My pleasure ❤️
A lot of them use weaponized incompetence and make themselves obsolete. This is why women get pushed to be hyper independent.
NEED is what a child has for their parents because they cannot do things for themselves. Autonomous adults should WANT to be in relationship with certain people, & those other autonomous adults should value that.
@@Heyu7her3🙌
@@Heyu7her3 keep it 💯! Some men can be very needy; just like a kid; no disrespect ; it is what it is🤷🏽♀️
For me it’s about not being able to put my trust in somebody else to guide me since I truly know what’s best for myself at the end of the day.
Well then maybe he will be someone who can trust you to guide him ?
Same feeling here
You just have to know when to fall back in certain areas and let the man take the lead when you see how he likes to do for you and be appreciative and etc. Great info, Stephan. You know.😊❤
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Yes! Don’t tell them they are doing something wrong, or argue/push back because we know better. Learn to let go of stuff that isn’t important so when there’s something where we feel strongly, we aren’t shut out. Men do not want to argue with their woman nor do they want to be treated like her child. My man has told me more than once that he appreciates me letting him be the man.
Yep, in-a-nutshell simple.
My mum worked so hard to raise me and my 3 siblings. My dad was a prolific cheater and was never at home. In the end he moved to another country to start a new life without us, and my mum could not be any happier! She had to be strong and independent for us and taught us to be the same!
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Your mom ran him off ….just ask him……..
@@rhnry1424 excuse the awful behavior of your “bros” much..😂
@@rhnry1424if so, she ran off a grown boy which is good! Because what man would leave his children behind??
You married?
I usually agree with your advice but there are men out there; I’m involved with one, that TOTALLY depend on their mamas for EVERYTHING! I’m walking away. He has nothing to offer and I’m not competing with his mom. This man is 62 years old. I’ve raised my 34yr old son who makes 6 figures and lives in a $500K home!
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
He’s not living in California! 500K isn’t anything to brag about here.
Balance; balance; balance!😊 Right S❤
I am independent, however, I need a man to be the man and step up and already know what that means, and is equiped in how to lead. I like and keep to my feminine role with an expressed opinion, yet, I need him to be provider, protector, and guide.
I’ll have a career and my independence in that with my own finances, but if I am in relationship and marriage, I will yield to understanding and compromise without losing my voice or identity with him, to also be able to give him the freedom and respect to work out his role for us.
It’s not an easy catch~but when you find it you better hold on to it! 😉
I dig your indepth explanation on this S~
An impactful woman~ I like this label 👍
I think I will steal it from you😮
I also think the right man who is secure will know how to make a capable woman’s life easier – occasionally cook, clean, take the car for maintenance, gifts etc.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Can you please do a video on what a relationship ‘should’ look like when a man leads? Because a lot of the times men keep saying they want to lead but if you could paint a picture for us on how that actually looks like and what it actually means for a man to lead, in small or big ways, then that could be very KEY for us opening the door for that style of relationship.
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
look at Fantasia and her husband. That’s a good example because she recently did a video about that and she breaks it down to.
Good point, my man told me told me today I need to prove to him everyday I am not cheating….😂 I told him NEXT.
@@1Octop😮
Good one 💯❤️🔥🫶🏽
I think men need to examine themselves to decide what exactly they want from a woman.
Most men, if not all men, find a dependent woman unattractive and look at her as a burden.
I am proud to be an independent woman. I would not change that for no one. Especially, for a man who will not or can not meet half of my needs.I am happy the way I am. He needs to be happy with himself as well.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Men know exactly what they want. Traditional men, with the means to meet all their traditional obligations, want 100% traditional wives. Traditional men who lack the means to meet all their traditional obligations, want wives who lean traditional and can find an equitable split on bills and chores.
Non-traditional men don’t want anything from a wife at all, because most of them don’t want to be married.
@@AJweathersbyWhen you say Traditional men do you mean traditional black men or all men in planet earth? I have observed men that are from Eastern Europe, Africa, Arabic countries, Asia (Indian, Pakistan, China, Korea) most of them know how to be a man with traditional family value and morals, they dedicate themselves completely to family life once married and their wife follow them and respect them because they see the effort they put in for their wife and Children. We only see dysfunction in men from the Carribbean, America and West Europe black or white, why?
@@janahYT The more prosperous and free a society is, the less likely the people are to continue following tradition. All the countries you listed as examples of the pinnacle of traditional men, are mostly 3rd world countries. And the few that aren’t, like China, Korea, and the UAE, are having the same problems as any western country: declining marriage and birth rates, growing embracement of “alternative lifestyles”, and steady cultural rejection of traditionalism.
Abolish women’s rights, ruin the economy, and America will become a nation of hardcore traditionalists almost overnight. But obviously when you put it in those terms, accepting the existence of a bunch of non-traditional people suddenly doesn’t sound so bad.
@@AJweathersbyThe term 3rd world countries are overrated because they have most of the resources the so called 1st and 2nd world countries don’t have
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Independent is a MINDSET. I hate how dimwits think independent woman means own this and that. No, its a mindset. There are women with careers who dont have an independent mindset. Men respect women like that,, they stick to their morals and values. They go against the grain.
I just want to do what l want to do – l cherish Freedom. I don’t want to move forward. That’s all 😊
I hate to admit, that this is all very true… I have been a strong, independent, single woman for 10 years. I am proud of the life, I have build for my self, but now I also realize, that I miss the feeling of ‘leaning’ on some one.. You know, when you have the feeling that someone else has your back.
I really would like to have a man to lean on, but I can’t find him. So, I’m forced to take care of business alone, becoming more independent. It’s “damned if you do, damned if you don’t.” The longer I’m alone to take care of stuff, the more independent I become.
Most women who are in relationships don’t have a partner they can lean on either. You’re not missing out on much tbh.
Unfortunately, having a man doesn’t mean you’ll be able to lean on him, ask me how I know.
Haven’t felt that feeling in a very long time
@@Heyu7her3girl I was about to say just cause you have a relationship doesn’t mean the man is doing anything for you
Reality is, *most* women don’t want to be what would be considered “independent” in this day and age (engaging in 50/50, God forbid role-reversal), but very few have the choice to express and rest in their femininity, as very few modern men are willing to fulfill the traditional masculine role of protecting and providing.
Correct
Truth
EXACTLY.
Baby they barely wanna take the effort to call and check on you
@Theinfamouskiki411 Indeed, but I personally don’t care about that. Quite the opposite, as I dislike wasting time with meaningless conversations – my art takes far too much of it.
Men are never asked, why are you independent 🤔Everyone should be independent and know how to take care of themselves
Great Point!
Exactly!
Everyone !!!
Excellent point.
When my mom wasn’t independent, my father left her with 6 children ages 5 and under. No skills, nothing. Totally devasted her. I think women should have some skills and level of independence. It keeps you from remaining stuck or trapped in a relationship.
And choose wisely!
Thank you for sharing your mom’s experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
EXACTLY. How many women throughout history have had a story like that?!? Too many to count.
100%
Thank you! I cannot begin to explain how hearing men say “come built” or “what do you bring to the table” irks me knowing damn well if they knew I made more than them, they’d more than likely feel like less of a man because they need to feel needed. They want you to contribute but whatever you do don’t make more than them. Because then knowing she need him means she might be stuck even when he tries the foolishness.
I’m done with men. They all seem to be very nice at first but they are looking for a mother. I don’t mean to say all men are narcissistic but very few are not. Big babies.
These are the men YOU choose don’t put that crap on all men … NEWS FLASH women are no better…….
I think the irony of this thought process is that women who are independent whether by force or choice are being tasked to correct the issue that was caused by someone else 🤔🤔🤔In many cases, women don’t want to have to carry the entire load but oftentimes have no choice for the sake of survival. Maybe men should be taught to treat women better ( their daughters too!) and this wouldn’t even be a problem 🤷🏾♀️
Girl, you sewed that ALL THE WAY UP! 👏
Pure and simple. 🤷
@@marciawade9101 Thanks Sis!
@@jasminehill6312 👍
And, they’re STILL asking us to hold the burden of these dudes because they know they’re weak as hell!
My mom taught us to be independent, because she knew depending on a man would lead to disappointment. My sister and I both received promotions at work recently and both have Master’s degrees and make our own money. If a man can’t get right, he will be kicked to the curb. ✌🏾
🤣🤣🤣 Amen to THAT!
If a man says he’s not into independent women, ask him: “What exactly would you like me to depend on you for?”
Awesome response. I can see that he will not have an answer that is sufficient because he most likely wants all the glory and ego support that he can get so that he can stand up amongst other men and feel empowered.
@@honestly7393 🙌
@@honestly7393 Damn! You sewed that ALL THE WAY UP! 👏🤣😁👍
@@marciawade9101 Thanks for the endorsement. I rely on this man to help me to learn. This statement really resonated with me.