THIS Is Why Men CAN’T Handle An INDEPENDENT Woman

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• If a man says he's not into independent women, ask him: "What exactly would you like me to depend on you for?"

  • @@marciawade9101 Thanks for the endorsement. I rely on this man to help me to learn. This statement really resonated with me.

  • ​@@honestly7393 Damn! You sewed that ALL THE WAY UP! 👏🤣😁👍

  • @@honestly7393 🙌

  • Awesome response. I can see that he will not have an answer that is sufficient because he most likely wants all the glory and ego support that he can get so that he can stand up amongst other men and feel empowered.

• My mom taught us to be independent, because she knew depending on a man would lead to disappointment. My sister and I both received promotions at work recently and both have Master's degrees and make our own money. If a man can't get right, he will be kicked to the curb. ✌🏾

  • 🤣🤣🤣 Amen to THAT!

• I think the irony of this thought process is that women who are independent whether by force or choice are being tasked to correct the issue that was caused by someone else 🤔🤔🤔In many cases, women don’t want to have to carry the entire load but oftentimes have no choice for the sake of survival. Maybe men should be taught to treat women better ( their daughters too!) and this wouldn’t even be a problem 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @@jasminehill6312 👍
    And, they're STILL asking us to hold the burden of these dudes because they know they're weak as hell!

  • @@marciawade9101 Thanks Sis!

  • Girl, you sewed that ALL THE WAY UP! 👏
    Pure and simple. 🤷

• I'm done with men. They all seem to be very nice at first but they are looking for a mother. I don't mean to say all men are narcissistic but very few are not. Big babies.

  • These are the men YOU choose don’t put that crap on all men … NEWS FLASH women are no better…….

• When my mom wasn't independent, my father left her with 6 children ages 5 and under. No skills, nothing. Totally devasted her. I think women should have some skills and level of independence. It keeps you from remaining stuck or trapped in a relationship.

  • Thank you! I cannot begin to explain how hearing men say “come built” or “what do you bring to the table” irks me knowing damn well if they knew I made more than them, they’d more than likely feel like less of a man because they need to feel needed. They want you to contribute but whatever you do don’t make more than them. Because then knowing she need him means she might be stuck even when he tries the foolishness.

  • 100%

  • EXACTLY. How many women throughout history have had a story like that?!? Too many to count.

  • Thank you for sharing your mom's experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

  • And choose wisely!

• Men are never asked, why are you independent 🤔Everyone should be independent and know how to take care of themselves

  • Excellent point.

  • Everyone !!!

  • Exactly!

  • Great Point!

• Reality is, *most* women don't want to be what would be considered "independent" in this day and age (engaging in 50/50, God forbid role-reversal), but very few have the choice to express and rest in their femininity, as very few modern men are willing to fulfill the traditional masculine role of protecting and providing.

  • @Theinfamouskiki411 Indeed, but I personally don't care about that. Quite the opposite, as I dislike wasting time with meaningless conversations - my art takes far too much of it.

  • Baby they barely wanna take the effort to call and check on you

  • EXACTLY.

  • Truth

  • Correct

• I hate to admit, that this is all very true... I have been a strong, independent, single woman for 10 years. I am proud of the life, I have build for my self, but now I also realize, that I miss the feeling of 'leaning' on some one.. You know, when you have the feeling that someone else has your back.

  • ​@@Heyu7her3girl I was about to say just cause you have a relationship doesn't mean the man is doing anything for you

  • Haven’t felt that feeling in a very long time

  • Unfortunately, having a man doesn't mean you'll be able to lean on him, ask me how I know.

  • Most women who are in relationships don't have a partner they can lean on either. You're not missing out on much tbh.

  • I really would like to have a man to lean on, but I can’t find him. So, I’m forced to take care of business alone, becoming more independent. It’s “damned if you do, damned if you don’t.” The longer I’m alone to take care of stuff, the more independent I become.

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  • I just want to do what l want to do - l cherish Freedom. I don’t want to move forward. That’s all 😊

  • Independent is a MINDSET. I hate how dimwits think independent woman means own this and that. No, its a mindset. There are women with careers who dont have an independent mindset. Men respect women like that,, they stick to their morals and values. They go against the grain.

• I think men need to examine themselves to decide what exactly they want from a woman.
  Most men, if not all men, find a dependent woman unattractive and look at her as a burden.
  I am proud to be an independent woman. I would not change that for no one. Especially, for a man who will not or can not meet half of my needs.I am happy the way I am. He needs to be happy with himself as well.

  • @@AJweathersbyThe term 3rd world countries are overrated because they have most of the resources the so called 1st and 2nd world countries don't have

  • @@janahYT The more prosperous and free a society is, the less likely the people are to continue following tradition. All the countries you listed as examples of the pinnacle of traditional men, are mostly 3rd world countries. And the few that aren’t, like China, Korea, and the UAE, are having the same problems as any western country: declining marriage and birth rates, growing embracement of “alternative lifestyles”, and steady cultural rejection of traditionalism.

    Abolish women’s rights, ruin the economy, and America will become a nation of hardcore traditionalists almost overnight. But obviously when you put it in those terms, accepting the existence of a bunch of non-traditional people suddenly doesn’t sound so bad.

  • ​@@AJweathersbyWhen you say Traditional men do you mean traditional black men or all men in planet earth? I have observed men that are from Eastern Europe, Africa, Arabic countries, Asia (Indian, Pakistan, China, Korea) most of them know how to be a man with traditional family value and morals, they dedicate themselves completely to family life once married and their wife follow them and respect them because they see the effort they put in for their wife and Children. We only see dysfunction in men from the Carribbean, America and West Europe black or white, why?

  • Men know exactly what they want. Traditional men, with the means to meet all their traditional obligations, want 100% traditional wives. Traditional men who lack the means to meet all their traditional obligations, want wives who lean traditional and can find an equitable split on bills and chores.

    Non-traditional men don’t want anything from a wife at all, because most of them don’t want to be married.

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