THIS Is Why Men CAN’T Handle An INDEPENDENT Woman

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• My mom didn't have a choice 4 kid's what Father, where??????? My mother was both my mother and father... Independent... 🙂

  • In many households the mom has to wear the pants and the dress

  • Your Mom was not both.. she was a Mother.. a good Mother indeed. (A woman cannot be a father.)

  • Good on her 👍. Back in the day when men were worked to death, Mom's had to play both roles at times & vice versa. God bless.

• Facts. I had no choice, forced into independence and also have the ambition.

  • I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

  • Same here and I totally understand what you mean. I've been on my own since 17 and that's all I know how to do, is lead.

• From experience; some men feel not needed and or intimidated by independent women. I totally understand why a man would feel not needed. Some men want to feel needed by a woman. Thanks for sharing ❤

  • My pleasure ❤️

  • A lot of them use weaponized incompetence and make themselves obsolete. This is why women get pushed to be hyper independent.

  • NEED is what a child has for their parents because they cannot do things for themselves. Autonomous adults should WANT to be in relationship with certain people, & those other autonomous adults should value that.

  • ​@@Heyu7her3🙌

  • @@Heyu7her3 keep it 💯! Some men can be very needy; just like a kid; no disrespect ; it is what it is🤷🏽‍♀️

• For me it’s about not being able to put my trust in somebody else to guide me since I truly know what’s best for myself at the end of the day.

  • Well then maybe he will be someone who can trust you to guide him ?

  • Same feeling here

• You just have to know when to fall back in certain areas and let the man take the lead when you see how he likes to do for you and be appreciative and etc. Great info, Stephan. You know.😊❤

  • Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • Yes! Don’t tell them they are doing something wrong, or argue/push back because we know better. Learn to let go of stuff that isn’t important so when there’s something where we feel strongly, we aren’t shut out. Men do not want to argue with their woman nor do they want to be treated like her child. My man has told me more than once that he appreciates me letting him be the man.

  • Yep, in-a-nutshell simple.

• My mum worked so hard to raise me and my 3 siblings. My dad was a prolific cheater and was never at home. In the end he moved to another country to start a new life without us, and my mum could not be any happier! She had to be strong and independent for us and taught us to be the same!

  • Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

  • Your mom ran him off ….just ask him……..

  • @@rhnry1424 excuse the awful behavior of your “bros” much..😂

  • @@rhnry1424if so, she ran off a grown boy which is good! Because what man would leave his children behind??

  • You married?

• I usually agree with your advice but there are men out there; I'm involved with one, that TOTALLY depend on their mamas for EVERYTHING! I'm walking away. He has nothing to offer and I'm not competing with his mom. This man is 62 years old. I've raised my 34yr old son who makes 6 figures and lives in a $500K home!

  • Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • He’s not living in California! 500K isn’t anything to brag about here.

• Balance; balance; balance!😊 Right S❤
  I am independent, however, I need a man to be the man and step up and already know what that means, and is equiped in how to lead. I like and keep to my feminine role with an expressed opinion, yet, I need him to be provider, protector, and guide.
  I'll have a career and my independence in that with my own finances, but if I am in relationship and marriage, I will yield to understanding and compromise without losing my voice or identity with him, to also be able to give him the freedom and respect to work out his role for us.
  It's not an easy catch~but when you find it you better hold on to it! 😉
  I dig your indepth explanation on this S~
  An impactful woman~ I like this label 👍
  I think I will steal it from you😮

• I also think the right man who is secure will know how to make a capable woman's life easier - occasionally cook, clean, take the car for maintenance, gifts etc.

  • Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

• Can you please do a video on what a relationship 'should' look like when a man leads? Because a lot of the times men keep saying they want to lead but if you could paint a picture for us on how that actually looks like and what it actually means for a man to lead, in small or big ways, then that could be very KEY for us opening the door for that style of relationship.

  • Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

  • look at Fantasia and her husband. That's a good example because she recently did a video about that and she breaks it down to.

  • Good point, my man told me told me today I need to prove to him everyday I am not cheating....😂 I told him NEXT.

  • @@1Octop😮

  • Good one 💯❤️‍🔥🫶🏽