THIS Will Make Him Worry About LOSING You

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• What if I've been a happy, joyful, loving person and kind, understanding and caring towards him, his peace, and slowly slowly he was putting in less effort, then if I brought something up, he reacted negatively, slowly he hasn't been appreciating me as much as in the beginning and slowly he started taking me for granted, neglecting and disrespecting me, and all this was that has slowly eroded my joy, happiness n peace that I was absolutely bringing in the relationship from the beginning? That there was no equal give n take, reciprocation, pouring into the relationship and progress after some time?
  Is it fair for him to say, hey you are not pleasant, and are not my peace, when his various actions, words, or lack of some actions, effort, his broken promises, and broken agreements have damaged my peace??

  • It's always the females fault when a guy messes up. They can't take accountability

  • if you have to write all that you shouldn't even be in the relationship and need to go take responsibility for your own peace and happiness.

  • @@Thee.Monstera.Deliciosa
    You do not know the whole story, everything n my situation, this was just 1% of it. So do not criticize me! The question wasn't for you anyhow.
    And if you can't stand to judge people you do not know, and have no idea about their situation, and what all they've been through and you judge n criticize them, God might just put you into the same hard situations they have been in, so you can eventually have a better, deeper understanding and much more compassion and kindness!

  • i'm not judging you. and i don't need to know all the fine details of your situation, i can speak from personal experience. you're hypersensitive, because it hurts and i understand that. but what i said is the truth no chaser. it's a hard pill to swallow, i know because i had to swallow it. i hope you can see and feel that some day and have a more fulfilling outcome. ✌🏾

  • and for the record, taking responsibility for your own peace and happiness looks like sacrificing anyone who robs you of your peace and happiness....regardless of how much you love them or how long they've been in your life....because you love yourself more than you love them....and you truly understand that your peace and happiness is your own responsibility to manage and uphold. rather than letting someone ruin it for you and pointing the finger at them. they are the way they are because they weren't fully taking responsibility for their own peace and happiness either....they were just feeding off of you and now you're drained.

• What about him being my damn peace!

  • I think the takeaway should be that above all, YOUR peace and mindset matters. And if you’re bringing nothing but peace and your partner is bringing the opposite— they need to do more inner work or are not the one for you

  • Big facts

• That's true 💯

  • 💯 yes!

• Facts

  • 💯 yes!

• Both partners need to add peace to each other's peaceful mindset.

  • You're absolutely right. It really helps when we embrace that!

• I’m peaceful but I call out Bullcrap as I see it. I don’t tolerate certain behaviors and when I call it out a man says I’m not being his peace. No sir, you lack accountability

  • This is exactly what I was talking about above as well 👍💯

  • @@sharonfrisby4543 exactly. And I haven’t always been this way. I used to be a passive nice girl who tolerated anything.

  • Sir l would be happy and peaceful if he didn't do things that are disrespectful. I will walk when the fights get too much..... I cannot fake the fact that l believe the lies..... You are right but the guys do some really bad things like stacking women..Once l walk and leave l get instant peace so therefore l will be alone for a while😕

• I will be his peace and he will be mine.❤🙌🏽🙏🏽✝️

  • ❤🙌🏽

• Exactly, I am my own peace daily guarding my heart, loving me.❤️😂💜

  • Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

• Yes peace is so important..

  • 💯 yes!

• There is no peace without regular communication in any relationship. If a man is truly interested in a woman he will communicate with her on a daily basis if it is only for 5 minutes. He will be concerned about how she is doing. If he is not reaching out for days, he doesn't give a DAMN about that woman. He is trying to use u when he is lonely or mad with his significant other.

  • Agreed.

  • That's true