Ukrainian Shares Biggest Culture Shock Living in Canada
Mariana from Western Ukraine shares the biggest culture shock she experienced since coming to Canada. While Canadian women typically have children later in life, Ukrainian women are encouraged to have kids earlier on in life. What does she think about this? Does she prefer the Ukrainian or the Canadian approach?
She’s totally right, you gain wisdom, experience, maturity. You make a much better parent in your 30s. In your teens on 20s it’s all about hookups, parties and eventually trying to develop a career
High value men don’t want a 35 year old , she’ll get a simp
Depends on the culture. In some countries people take it serious mid 20s. But in her case at 36 she is done with raising the kid and has money and free time. When you are 20 you have time and kids need time and attention the most. Of course money too, but attention and time are the most important.
My parents had me at 40 and I always envied kids that had young parents.The younger parents were more playful running jumping being active more modern also generational gap is smaller. What my parents learner in school was ancient…the geografie map was definately not the same 😂.
Hookups? Seriously? Having children is a conscious decision that involves being emotionally mature. In the past people would get married, worked, had children by 23. in millennial culture you get to pretend to be adults with an undeveloped mind.
Not necessarily promiscuity that’s a culture thing not an age thing. But yes you will have more challenges to your family life, single or not.
What tha hell bro she looks so young yo have 18 year old kids
she has a 17 year old son
She had it at 18…so she is 35.So she is young 😊
@@danac2899 she was not referring to herself as having a 17 yo child. she had a child a 18. she is probably 27-29 looking at her face shape. at 35 she will look much older as most ukranian and russian women do. Her face contour will be basically gone with a significate double chin.
@@UrsaBellashe said ” son has 17 years”
@@cloudcampos4555 i understand much better how Russians and Ukrainians built sentences so she doesn’t have 17 year old son.
Shes smart and a keeper 😁👍💍
Disagree, its harder to get pregnant past 30
It’s only slightly lower, with healthy lifestyle many women above 30 conceive and have healthy kids 🙏🏽💐☺
And somehow people still get children in their thirties without us hearing a billion horror stories about it being hard as hell
And men’s quality sperm count decreases after 35.
@@PaulaOxIndeed it does.
Pretty!
Having children later in life result in having less children and depopulation of a country. We need 2.1 kids /2 parents just to maintain population.
bingo. so sick of this agenda of being a narcissist and your own god. people have lost all marbles.
It’s too late guys,
Dying old society already.
Greetings from old 🇸🇪 😂
@@earthynomad7160 it is never late. Just stop getting vacines and have children
This lady looks younger for her age ❤
She looks 32 or something
@@SteaksOnSpear right brother ❤️
She had the kid at 18 and the kid is not 17=> so she is 35-36 years old.
No
Equal rights right? Don’t see any Ukrainian men being interviewed 🙄 yay women’s rights…
Why is it always like this on the internet. Since when parpe men and women ennemis like this?
@@cloudcampos4555 all I EVER hear is this crap. I’m just giving what was asked.
@@RaptureRecon316 you chose to only listen to this crap. As a woman I loath women who complain about men and generalise them with the ” men are trash” rubbish. Men who do the same tegarding women are no different imo.Especially when deep down most of them would do anything to actually get to be with someone of the opposite sexe. We’re not enemies, we may have our differences but this silly Internet war has to stop for god’s sake
This is most common for country side in Ukraine. In big cities people get married latter, around 30
you know it’s a lie 🙂
@@ari_jeanNo, he/she is right. What are you on about?🤔
@@lolasmith2002defenders of ukraine all around internet. Whole ukraine is a big rural country side 💁♂️ this mentality is present even in big cities in ukraine
@@Buli0n why so butt hurt? 🤔 Are you from rural ruzia?🤣
@@lolasmith2002 why butthurt? For stating facts? 🥴
Cause we literally can’t afford to start making a family until later LOL
And in poorer countries where they do they can? Its just about how much you want it, you dont need your own house, be at the top of your career to have a kid. Im not saying you have to, but certainly you could. You spend on what you prioratize, its not true you couldnt afford, just then life would be less consumer friendly. Previously spent money on trips and nights out would be spent on the kid. As I said depends whats important for you.
@@belakitajka5741”and in poorer countries where they do they can”
As you said, these places are poor. The people over there are mostly poor and they can’t afford a decent living for themselves and the kids. Don’t normalize poverty!
@@_o..o_1871Children are the welfare system in these countries.
You earn in a week more than a whole ukrainian village in one year. 😂
@@_o..o_1871 Poverty is subjective. Once you have basic nesessicites running clean water, heating during dangerously cold temperarures, electricity, enough food and your physical safety is stabil (no wars ex.) everything else is not a need but a want, and your perspective is what makes it enough or not enough A person who would be considered poor in Norway or Singapore would be consideres middle class in Mexico or Turkey and upper class in Bangladesh or Sudan.
Ofc we want the best for ourselves and our families, but once you have the bottom of the Maslow pyramid its only perspective. If you simpy define by the bottom whatever % of each country how poverty changes a lot.
Just because somebody says their poor is not ebough for me, there can be metrics what makes you poor not just “how you feel”. A starving kid in a shaq is not the same as somone who might not have saved money but live in a small flat with all the nessesities.
When you say I normalize poverty you pretty much ask me i should just accept if someone says their poor just because they say so not because their life is lacking basic needs. This the same logic when people who get a verbal insult put themselves into same category as someone who has been assaulted repetedly because they “also feel traumatized”.
She has an 18 year old Child!😳 She looks too young!🤯
She’s about 35/6. If anything, she looks slightly older to me.
Actress.
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@@lolasmith2002 I don’t believe her accent is real.
35 years old is not old
It’s funny to hear some older parents say they should have had kids when younger and with more energy, while some younger parents believe they miss out on life and would have preferred to have kids at a later stage after “having fun” and experiencing “lots of emotion”. There are plenty of people in their late 30s still looking for the next dose of “fun” and “emotion”, because the grass is always greener somewhere else. In the end, life is about choices, you can’t have everything.
There will always be time for life you just have to make the decision if you want to make time for life when you are younger or when you are older
Yeah listen to the ladies, nobody wants to go back into the society 50 years ago.
I always thank God that my parents were young when they had me . We just understand each other better but my sister is 10 years younger and there is a real gap between here expectations and perspective of the world and my parents that causes lot of friction.
I understand that young women would like to experience life before starting a family but trauma also can be apart of that experience too. Many try to say that men oppress women from doing things but in reality we try to protect women because we know what’s out there and any man with some worth aren’t attracted to experienced women. We are wired to want to show those experiences to a woman. That’s why men of value are turned off by women with high body counts and you see countless videos of women complaining about not being able to find a man. This young woman had her kids early and when she is in her 40’s her and her husband will be empty nesters and then they will be able to enjoy life together.
LMAOOOOO “we try to protect women”. Oh bet??? *points to countless articles of cases of domestic abuse, 1st hand stories of males manipulating and gaslighting women. Accounts of emotionally intelligent men dating women of all ages…*
having children at 18 is a child having a child 😂😂🥲😅 even 20
By the way, the way she speaks with the hands and stuff feels very Mexican or Spanish. Very much the contrary of what I thought from a cold country (reserved, very little expression and stuff).