What He’s Thinking When He Ignores You | Relationship Advice For Women By Mat Boggs
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What to do when he ignores you:
> let him go
> believe that love is in store for you
> match his level of investment
> focus forward
“It is hard to screw up the right thing”
🎯👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Yeah
Yes. It makes way for aright one
You give great advice
Invest in yourself.
His 4 children, demanding job, financial difficulties due to divorce, searching for what he thinks he wants while he doesn’t have the resources for someone else and cares deeply about you. Give some guys credit for caring about their job which is a source of financial support for his children who he loves dearly and goes out of his way to spend time with them even tho it’s not his weekend to be with them.
Never jump to conclusions. Men divorced have a more difficult time handling everything that goes with it especially if he has children plus he lost his emotional home in the divorce. There are no simplistic answers. Every man is different.
Think before you assume. A man with children his priority should be the children and the job and dealing with the financial difficulties with child care payments, etc.
In cases like this you come second. The children from his previous marriage and his job come first. If you can’t deal with those realities then move on. You don’t deserve him.
He pulls away and I give him some space.. and then I start to think.. well.. any man that wants to ignore me doesn’t deserve all this amazing awesomeness!
DO NOT CHASE! if he stops contacting you, then STOP contacting him.
Period!
agreed😁
I’m doing exactly that right now,bleep him 🙄 ….we broke up a week ago and, I’m not trying to fix or do anything… except move on ☺️
@Beautiful Stranger 125 Thank you 😔 I’m doing better… it’s all about self love, once a person truly loves themselves… they won’t allow mistreatment
@Beautiful Stranger 125 I’m so sorry to hear that 😔, you’re in my prayers as well… Being abused is so hard to recover from, and someone making you feel ugly 😢 it really damages the self esteem 😔 he didn’t deserve you you sweetheart ❤️
When it’s a guy who is into you, you’ll know it. He won’t ignore you.
Thank u for confirming
I’ve already wired my brain that a man who’s totally into me will pursue me no matter what. The connection is easy and I don’t have worries.
You may even decide to smile more with others while ignoring him. It will show him that you’re happy without him and that he’s not the source of your happiness.
I’m in a relationship with my soulmate and he has pulled away for months but he did send a morning message but that was all I got from him until the next morning.
Why dont you pursue him
Please teach me this wizardry.
Let’s put it this way.
If he ignoring you, IT’S NOT YOU, it’s him
Exactly.
Pouty.
Moody.
Depressed.
Waffling.
Not my problem, sounds like a “you” problem.
Be a grownup and USE YOUR WORDS.
*yeah, it’s always a man’s fault……….*
@@guywithcoolusername.. she didn’t say that.
@@recoveryrocks1 she totaly did
No because I’m sure she meant it goes both way. Doesn’t matter if the man or woman is the offender
I’ve always believed this: love shouldn’t be so hard.
I say that all the time 😣😣
Learning that… What a lesson learned!!!!
Love is actually hard it’s not easy
Yes it should feel like free-flow and natural
try to be in a real relationship and u will change u r mind. it is freaking hard hard hard 😢
“Infact he’s not thinking about you when he ignores you…he’s thinking about his life”.
Well well well I wasted my whole time thinking about him🙄
I know right.
Me too..
EXACTLY, that selfish B+@#$%&
So true
We have all done that at sone point. I dated a man I eas crazy about. Looking back, he negged me, was inconsistent, took me for granted and I was an idiot. Now he tlresurfaces on my life now and then when he is looking for an ego boost. I stopped supplying that and I am good and no linger in love. But to thos day, if he needs to talk I am tje person he seeks out. I dont know what is up with that.
He ignored me, so I went on a date with another guy: you’re not interested. I’m moving the F on. ✌🏻
Did that. And he got angry. Lol why?
@@riehafsah4469 because he thought he could treat you like that and you’d continue to put up with it. If he’s ignoring you he’s not interested
Right. There’s never gonna be a shortage of men
Hahaha did same
I know that’s right
I had a ex- boyfriend ghost me…I never heard from him at all. Now when a guy does that, I just keep it moving and forget he ever existed. When a person plays with my emotions, I keep moving on in my life.
Yesssss hunnie !!
I learn guy like that. I like to play et his head then he always replie me bk . Then i ignore them. Their get mad lol . Nan are narsessist it all abiut them . No one today it complicate to mush competition.
Ghosting is an appalling thing to do to someone. It shows a lack of consideration and respect for your time and feelings but most telling of all, is that it shows how cowardly the ‘ghoster’ is – they haven’t the guts or integrity to tell you it’s not working for them so then you waste time and energy wondering what’s going on or what happened.
Same here
Yes, even I wonder why
when someone that i like ignores me, i look my self into the mirror, makeup my beautiful face and go out dancing or doing something that reminds me i’m awesome and self-dependent
This is awesome
Having fun and in love with yourself doesnt stop when you meet someone interesting. 🥰
sounds like a plan
Im married, but if he pulls away, i do the same. U never chsse a man or fall all over him. If u do, he takes u for granted. Thts my experience w men.
I love being alone even though I have a bf I’m a morning person, he’s a night person. I am loud he is quiet. We are different but we have so much in common and it balances out. You don’t want to constantly be with someone it’s not healthy.
1. With the right guy is going to feel ease.
2. Match his level of investment.
3. Focus forward.
Shut up..troll..
Thank u 4 this
It was natuarl, it was easy until he ignored me, I still don’t get it.
sulivel I have the same problem 😞
Mallory Monaghan well he reappeared after I did some meditations and really felt of letting go. Trying to stay in that feeling of no attachment and not chasing or worrying, I sent you a few videos that really worked for me, let me know how it goes. It’s all about you and not him, don’t take his actions personal and empower yourself, even if you don’t see him he can feel the energy. Good luck, let me know if anything worked And of course, Matt Boggs is still one of my favorites, keep watching his videos, he practices what he preaches sounds like a great guy we need more like him.
If he’s ignoring you he doesn’t want you. It’s treating you like a toy he can put down and walk away until his interest comes back. NO, he’s not thinking about you at all. It’s why he’s ignoring you.
selfishness
@@DeniseGriffinMenieresfree Or just not interested.
True.
Jan Badinski
Not interested would mean he can turn you down after a week or so, narcissists drag people along for months or even years, because it strokes their ego thinking that there is a person who is invested in them so much.
Ill sent my bf this screen shot o wait he isn’t interested
Rejection is Gods protection 💜
You could be right on that.
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Dori Berry say that again💞
Dori Berry That’s actually quite profound! 👍🏼
Chirp Ster Thank You…it’s so True
Don’t feel sorry for yourself if a man starts ignoring you, it just happened that he isn’t the right match for you maybe because his attraction is not that strong. If he’s really into you, no matter how busy he was, he would always find a way to reach out to you.
I can related on that.. Thanks for that!
Thank u
He made me a priority then vanished
100%
I’m agree with you.thanks
Don’t make somebody a priority when you are only an option to them!!
*not even an option
TRUTH!
u r right
Well said !
Awesome
Isn’t it Interesting how most women tend to assume they did something wrong, their first reaction is self doubt.
Truly is
Always
True
Yes so true. For months at a time when your heart truly loves hard.
We are naturally people pleasers
This is so helpful. It reminds me of one of the best lessons: “You don’t need to be excited about someone who isn’t equally excited about you.”
okashi10 yeah,so from now on,I’m not going to keep staring at him in a secret way..every time we had training ..haha…coz I think,the more you keep looking at him ,the more you gonna like him …is it’s true?😂
True. This goes both ways. The man AND the woman need to be excited. Not one gets to be excited and the other one just takes whatever.
Yes, definitely.
OK as him mhb7li5oph08
okashi10 !!!!hits home fam😭😂
Being ignored is an awful feeling. The best you can do if he starts ignoring you is to stop having hopes for anything because it will just not work. And it’s so true that women start to feel guilty for men behaving like this even if they didn’t do anything wrong
X KP smh 😣
Wonder how guys would like to be ignored
X KP k
But how do we know what a natural flow should be like? What if he’s emotionally insecure (fearful-avoidant) and afraid of abandonment so he acts as if he’s not invested in some ways while you’re both invested in other areas?
The rules also don’t seem to apply if the person struggles with depression, low self-esteem, low or no self-love, or other.insecurities, as I mentioned before. I tried matching the level of my guy’s interest awhile back. I went overboard a bit to see if he would notice and he thought I was about to leave him. He said he needed to know that I valued him and was interested in him so that he could overcome his fears and insecurities and open up to me more.
That’s tough, but he obviously needs time to grow up. Be available when he has more emotional maturity but don’t have him doing it on your time. Not your job to raise him, especially since if he isn’t ready you can’t even if you wanted to.