What He’s Thinking When He Ignores You | Relationship Advice For Women By Mat Boggs

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• What to do when he ignores you:
  > let him go
  > believe that love is in store for you
  > match his level of investment
  > focus forward

  “It is hard to screw up the right thing”

  • His 4 children, demanding job, financial difficulties due to divorce, searching for what he thinks he wants while he doesn't have the resources for someone else and cares deeply about you. Give some guys credit for caring about their job which is a source of financial support for his children who he loves dearly and goes out of his way to spend time with them even tho it's not his weekend to be with them.

    Never jump to conclusions. Men divorced have a more difficult time handling everything that goes with it especially if he has children plus he lost his emotional home in the divorce. There are no simplistic answers. Every man is different.

    Think before you assume. A man with children his priority should be the children and the job and dealing with the financial difficulties with child care payments, etc.

    In cases like this you come second. The children from his previous marriage and his job come first. If you can't deal with those realities then move on. You don't deserve him.

  • You give great advice
    Invest in yourself.

  • Yes. It makes way for aright one

  • Yeah

  • 🎯👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

• He pulls away and I give him some space.. and then I start to think.. well.. any man that wants to ignore me doesn’t deserve all this amazing awesomeness!

• DO NOT CHASE! if he stops contacting you, then STOP contacting him.

  • @Beautiful Stranger 125 I'm so sorry to hear that 😔, you're in my prayers as well... Being abused is so hard to recover from, and someone making you feel ugly 😢 it really damages the self esteem 😔 he didn't deserve you you sweetheart ❤️

  • @Beautiful Stranger 125 Thank you 😔 I'm doing better... it's all about self love, once a person truly loves themselves... they won't allow mistreatment

  • I'm doing exactly that right now,bleep him 🙄 ....we broke up a week ago and, I'm not trying to fix or do anything... except move on ☺️

  • agreed😁

  • Period!

• When it’s a guy who is into you, you’ll know it. He won’t ignore you.

  • Thank u for confirming

• I've already wired my brain that a man who's totally into me will pursue me no matter what. The connection is easy and I don't have worries.

  • Please teach me this wizardry.

  • Why dont you pursue him

  • I'm in a relationship with my soulmate and he has pulled away for months but he did send a morning message but that was all I got from him until the next morning.

  • You may even decide to smile more with others while ignoring him. It will show him that you're happy without him and that he's not the source of your happiness.

• Let's put it this way.

  If he ignoring you, IT'S NOT YOU, it's him

  • No because I’m sure she meant it goes both way. Doesn’t matter if the man or woman is the offender

  • @@recoveryrocks1 she totaly did

  • @@guywithcoolusername.. she didn't say that.

  • *yeah, it's always a man's fault..........*

  • Exactly.
    Pouty.
    Moody.
    Depressed.
    Waffling.
    Not my problem, sounds like a “you” problem.
    Be a grownup and USE YOUR WORDS.

• I’ve always believed this: love shouldn’t be so hard.

  • try to be in a real relationship and u will change u r mind. it is freaking hard hard hard 😢

  • Yes it should feel like free-flow and natural

  • Love is actually hard it's not easy

  • Learning that... What a lesson learned!!!!

  • I say that all the time 😣😣

• "Infact he's not thinking about you when he ignores you...he's thinking about his life".
  Well well well I wasted my whole time thinking about him🙄

  • We have all done that at sone point. I dated a man I eas crazy about. Looking back, he negged me, was inconsistent, took me for granted and I was an idiot. Now he tlresurfaces on my life now and then when he is looking for an ego boost. I stopped supplying that and I am good and no linger in love. But to thos day, if he needs to talk I am tje person he seeks out. I dont know what is up with that.

  • So true

  • EXACTLY, that selfish B+@#$%&

  • Me too..

  • I know right.

• He ignored me, so I went on a date with another guy: you’re not interested. I’m moving the F on. ✌🏻

  • I know that's right

  • Hahaha did same

  • Right. There's never gonna be a shortage of men

  • @@riehafsah4469 because he thought he could treat you like that and you'd continue to put up with it. If he's ignoring you he's not interested

  • Did that. And he got angry. Lol why?