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Straight up: I used to be ignored. Now? Women lean in. Ask questions. Want more. That’s The Bedroom Alpha effect.
As a woman, I would like men to understand that women need more great communication from their men. There is nothing that good communication cannot fix. Also, put your wife/partner first, that is, ahead of your friends, football, work (if possible). Feeling that you are way down on the list of priorities in your man’s life is definitely not a turn-on. To enjoy good sex, you must be well-bonded. Go on long country drives, picnics, the beach or just watch movies that you both like. Men, you can’t expect great sex if you put your partner last and don’t actively communicate daily with her. That’s my input, for what it is worth.
I agree!
Absolutely…. a woman can sacrifice herself for his ‘perceived needs’ and get very little in return – like ‘it’s expected’…. I’m for men learning ABOUT WOMEN…I wish I was gay – after a lifetime of lovers and great sex …. spasmodically… there is too much focus on the phallus – women’s bodies are so amazing – men shud try learning about them!! It’s as if women are under constant pressure and competition from other women, porn, and now with fluid sexuality everywhere, even other men…. I vote for women’s needs…. perhaps men ideally SHUD all be gay, if they can’t respect women to put them first.
You are so right! The biggest turn off in my opinion is a man who expects great sex without any effort from his side 😡. It doesn’t have to be something great. I don’t expect fireworks, expensive dinners, vacations…Just a romantic gesture, flowers, some place and time to be alone. I’m not some robot without feelings. I’m a human!
@@majatadic549 I agree with your statement. Well said.
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My late husband was an amazing lover . We had a wonderful intimate life and he had a lot of stamina. He was a military man and left the house early to do his PT then returned home and had the energy for sex then went back to his office for work . Sometimes he surprised me during lunch . We were married for 42 years and have four children .
When he retire he was still full of sexual energy. We had a good marriage . He was mine and I was his . We complement each other rather well . You’re right about the time use to satisfy each other is essential in a marriage/ relationship.
I’m that way with my hubby too, he’s also military man. We’re together 15 yrs. I just wanted to say how sorry I am that you don’t have him w you anymore (you mentioned late husband) my prayers are with you. If you were as close as me and my hubby then it’s got to be hard without him.
Prayers.
@@Hvantress thank you . It’s been the hardest thing I’ve ever passed in my entire life. Not even PCS to different states and several countries was that hard . He died of war related illnesses. Marriage it’s a road in which we travel together giving each other the time and respect we each deserve and accordingly as
much as we give we receive . May you have a good marriage and never go to bed angry . Thank you again for the prayers .
@@elliewilson8863 I’m really sorry about your husband. It seems you guys had a lovely marriage 😍🤗
Could you give me more advice on how to have a good marriage. I’m 19 and I just want to learn from you😗
Sounds like God gave you and your husband the perfect mates!!!
Wow! Good for you! Sounds, like you’ve had a great relationship!
I’m jealous xx
1. Forplay. 2. Emotional proximity. 3. Both partners experiencing the release. 4. Cuddling after.
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It sucks when he has ed and doesnt want as much.
HSP’s dont need intensity. Intensity hurts.
1) complete acceptance 2) exploration 3) communication 4) gratitude 5) Fun!
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Being intimate is important in a relationship, showing each other how much love is being shared is everything!!
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I’m female. The best sex is when you openly communicate with your man. This comes from a deep connection. You know each other’s boundaries so you both feel safe. And when you both feel safe you can explore one another. You have conversations with him about your fantasies & desires. Women need to initiate physical touch on a regular basis to communicate how much their man means to them. And we need to initiate sex. We need to embrace our femininity fully while we open up and receive pleasure from our man.
Unfortunately many men & women in committed relationships don’t have their needs satisfied because they settled. I believe our society sets unrealistic standards about relationships. This often results in couples who are perfect on paper, but not in every day life.
Absolutely
Has nothing to do with ”society”. It isn’t ”societies” job to teach you how to have a sex life. You also have to contend with the millions of people who have been sexually abused who see sex as something ”taken” from them.
I love it when a guy moans and talks in my ear
lol its a turn on
Mmm i love me a woman who whispers in my ears too: “dinners ready”
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A man needs physical love to love emotionally. A woman needs emotional love to love physically.
Everybody needs both. Physical and emotional
I get what you mean but if that was 100 percent then we could get a guy to love after sex and that does not work but if you withhold sex they don’t feel loved. I can’t even find a guy who wants sex…Too many Narcissists who don’t want anything anymore except attention and guys don’t want to commit.
@@vhayashi7369 I am sorry for you. I wish you find the true love soon and be together forever.
With my boyfriend and me its exactly the opposite tbh xd
@@rozikapri2580 thank you! I have someone but he is afraid to open up completely so we’re both suffering. I didn’t know just coming home to my home state in FL for a couple weeks would make a difference in getting noticed by men, a lot of men are talking to me and flirting here. In TN they don’t want you if you’re not ugly. Dead serious. 🤷
Dead fish comes from being treated like complete dirt. Degraded, devalued and unappreciated. When you’re doing all of the darn work in the relationship and still being told your not doing enough. Can’t help a dead fish woman if your a dead beat man.
preach!
Lmao! So true
A lot of women are timid about making sounds in bed. He’s offering those women reassurance that it’s not only ok to make sounds if they’re enjoying themselves, but encouraged.
I can relate to this for sure. It hurts my heart to know that somone else felt this way. Honestly I was hoping that I was alone. Bc this dead fish definitely felt dead at that time. Or at least wanted to be.
Pretty clear then take responsibility and leave the man. You are allowing him to take advantage of you!
Reading the comments was better than watching the video!!!
EMAIL Me yeah
Totally!
So true
I agree.. great video but am learning more from these fab remarks😁
EMAIL Me hahaha
Foreplay starts outside the bedroom for me. You can’t expect to not show me love and then think my body would react positively to you. That’s why I don’t do one night stands. I’m an emotional lover.
Me too. I can’t do one night stands either. I told my partner that I can only sleep with him after 6 months of dating because a emotional bond is important for me but secretly it’s also for me to assess whether he is worth me giving it up to.
Same here, just the words one night stand kill my vibe… eek lol
thanks for this comment, so true. most guys fail at this.
Same Here
True
One fun fact guys never understand by themselves: if you ARE GOOD and know how to please the woman, SHE WILL WANT YOU MORE. So look back on yourself before complaining about the frequency. Ouch!
also, if it’s good, she won’t be a “dead fish”. Only if she is not feeling anything (good) and the experience is boring at best.
Thank you
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so true. Can’t get enough of your love baby. That’s how I feel. But some men take it different they feel that we just can’t get satisfy because we want more lol. They can be so full of it.
Yep.
I wish men would realize as much as they want our reaction and words…WE DO TOO stop being quiet!!! Get loud with us!!! Show us your emotions..you don’t want a dead fish, well neither do we!!!
Women moan because are a “feelings” based creature. When we feel something good then we show it by moaning or saying so. A form of communication is why we moan. Just like men like that vocalization; we as women like to know that we are doing it right too. We love knowing that we are satisfying you as well and when you are vocal that helps us to know also.
lol
+Jill Hix lol if they don’t want a dead fish then don’t be a dead fish…lol
Vickie Earls yesss…omg…like Show me your enjoying yourself ….need to be able to read u..other wize how will i know if i need to kick it up a Notch or Not?
Yes, but they don’t and expect us to read his mind..but expect us to communicate to him too…we need that vocal confirmation too. Watch it cuz if you do moan and communicate…Ohhh boy…it’s on….create a way to tell us that you fucking love what we do…it goes both ways…
I clicked on this video but didnt hear a word this guy said. I’m so busy reading the comments and they are good
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wanda j same here
Hahahahhaha same here
Mee too
True lol
I am recently divorced and have met a new lover who knows how to please a woman. My husband too used to complain about lack of frequency. For me it was about his lack of skill that made me NOT want to have more sex. Always easy to blame the woman but you guys need to look at yourself as well. Thirty years of marriage and I didn’t know there really was a G spot until I met someone else.
Linda M. Robertson same with me . I met someone new that knows how to please me. Now my sex drive is high again
Yea but thirty years, you could of done something lol and now it gets better with a new guy, it sounds like your part of the problem, don’t leave that out
Linda M. Robertson …i had only ever been w my ex…after him new boyfriend made me realize how bad he was in bed not to mention how fast!!…lol…and i now understand why after a while i stopped wanting to be w him…like i never knew a guy could finish more than once and keep going without stopping….wow..i didn’t know what i was missing not to mention hes so much more attentive.!!!this was after over 13 years being together…and i did let him know what i liked and all he just waant good at it. …also the biggest killer was how fast everything went!!he wanted me on microwave time all the time…lol
Queen Shawna Thanks darling for sharing that. Men have been blaming us for decades. We are either sluts or frigid. They never consider that they might be the problem. I wonder how many watching this video thinking the don’t get enough have ever found their woman’s G spot. It’s worth figuring it all, right sister?
Bad Boys Hub no ..u cant teach ppl to intimately do it for u..u sound dumb
He turns me on from the morning:
1. The first thing he does is kiss me and say : I love you
2. He asks how I slept
3. He helps at home non stop
4. He will wipe my spillages and help clean up MY mess
5. He will go first (before me) to check and cuddle the kids
6. He will comfort them and be there for them
7. He will kiss my hand and thank me for the lovely meal(s)
8. He will buy what I ask him too
9. He will let me have a shower before him
10. He will want me to sit with him on the sofa so he can stroke me without any distractions.
11. He cuddles and kisses me almost constantly and as much as I want or like
12. By the end of the day he has made me so excited and the “foreplay” going on the whole day with him showing love and respect to my soul makes me so ready to come within minutes. I want to give my self to please him too as he has been pleasing me the whole day.
That’s what we want.
Nelly Fluck omg, this is one of the most amazing comment I’ve read <3
Nelly Fluck THANK YOU!!!
Nelly Fluck 9 nice read
Absolute truth. My man knows this💕
Some of us call that love bombing. There’s some videos on it.
Emoting during sex is important for both people during sex. I am shocked how many men are completely silent during sex, it’s always a let down.
Mines a facial expression guy…not vocal. Some just are. I’m not highly vocal…I say I’m guttural. Alot of groaning, grunting…LOL. My man is expressive but in a non-vocal way. If you saw his face when he’s getting it…it’s adorable & hilarious. He blushes, & his eyes almost roll back. LOL
Shyla Hutchins
Shyla Hutchins that’s awesome, honestly any feedback is good feedback (talking, moaning, facial expressions, etc.) 😊
haha…he’s good at the facial expression; does this Stevie Wonder kind of head roll thing during oral. First time I encountered the ‘response’ I nearly laughed. I had to resist the impulse…needed to come up for ‘air’, had a giggle then & he’s just so bloomin adorable. He’s right in ecstasy. LOL!
I completely agree!! So crazy though bcz my husband’s name is Kelly Jones 🙈😭😭😭🤣
the feeling of safety, feeling a special connection, to not feel like I am a piece of meat or that he is being too hard almost trying to dig for gold and the open communication of what we like and what we want from each other.
You got it, honey. He is a lucky guy.
sagrammyfour thank you. whomever I date yew.. but they never appreciate it. their loss…
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