What Men Want But Don’t Ask For | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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• This is all good advice. But I just got out of a relationship that these did not work on him. These do not work on a man that is a broken man. It's very draining and it comes to a point where enough is enough to keep doing these things for a man who cant unbreak himself .

  • Same here.

  • Agree

  • Some men aren't whole and don't try to grow and learn.

  • I'm tired of dealing with a broken man who blames everyone else and won't heal him self 😊

  • This is precisely why you don't deal with broken men IN THE FIRST PLACE. 👍

• I'm sure U deserved the compliments, Mat. I've given many unconditional positive feedback & validation with men & I might as well have been talking to the wall! 🤷

  • Same with the bedroom!!! Punished so don’t get the orgasm! Ugh

  • You obviuosly expected something. So you lie.

• In my opinion everything is mutual in a relationship, its never one sided. If it is one sided than that's not enough ! One of you will get hurt and wast too much energy.

• Im tired of dealing with a broken man who blames everyone else and won't heal him self

  • Something I learned (maybe even from Mat!) ... "We attract who we are being". Said another way "Like attracts like". This is good news, because we can always choose to change who WE are being (so empowering)! 😊

  • All this advice is not applicable when you are dealing with an abuser or narcissist. Forget your ex and think of doing these things for a good man.

  • @@mhal2that concept hasn’t worked for me, I never seem to attract the kind of person I am being…

  • @@jkd9573 I believe it's more than a concept (have you heard of the law of attraction?). Interesting stuff!

• Shout out to your wife for that- 'Ultimate Praise Phrase' 👏🏼 ✨️ I love this. You do a great job at being my man (all the things that I need and want from my man, you do it and do it well) I know this will work on my guy. This is such a great, informative video. Thanks Mat.

• What is it that Women deeply want? It's so simple! Just that their man finds them *more beautiful* and better than other women. That's it. There's nothing evil in this. Giving her one flower does it!!

  • 😂 they wonder off eventually like a wild buck! Not all but many after they get us!

  • Nope. I want to feel loved: appreciated, cherished, valued, not ignored, special, priceless. Feeling all of those things will make me feel beautiful.

• I can understand anger and feel understanding and empathy about it. And it still exhausts me and I get emotionally dysregulated. So for me when there’s a lot of anger I just can’t be around it - just can’t do it. You mentioned safety - excess anger is the definition of unsafe! Blessings to all 💚

  • Agreed!!!

• Matt thank you so much for helping make my relationship better by watching your videos and applying your advice keep making videos please.

• Excellent video. Makes total sense.

• Love these tips Mat! Many of these tips are. ones that we are practicing together! Practice, Practice, Practice with respect...feels so good! :)