When A MAN Has Erectile Dysfunction Do THESE 5 Things

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• Yep. Been there. Dated that. And asked him to talk to a doctor. He was 28 and refused. Said I shouldn't care about being sexually satisfied enough that that would be a problem.

  • 🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

  • Omg too young to have ED. I’m dating men in my age range (late 30s - early 40s) and I’ve seen this.

  • What is the problem when a man has ED?

  • He may have watched daily porn.

  • @@Nokia1975__I was 18 and he was 23, and Erectile dysfunction was a problem

• Thank you for this video 🙏 We've had that and I have high sex drive 🙈 We don't see each other often (that's another story), but last time he took viagra for me and it was amazing for both of us. He's only 42, but has had a hard and stressful life and is also a workaholic . I didn't take it personally, but I never thought it may be because of an emotional reason, so thank you also for this perspective.

  • ❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate hearing from you 🙏

• Yes. That was me!
  There was no intimacy at all.
  I didn't end it because of that but he was mean and narcissistic and I had to choose ME.

• Yep. But WE have sought medical help & he receives constant support from me/his woman. WE WILL be just fine. 🙏❤️🙏There's so much more to life than sexual fulfillment.

• When it happens during a lifetime of a marriage union, you just still stay, love unconditionally, and seek professional help. It is what it is. Nothing personal! Just like us women go through the change. Men, cannot take it personally. Men, have to understand that patience is a virtue, period. Real love and deeper feelings and loyalty will tell your marriage foundation. I love being married to my husband because we have built our soon-to-be six years of holy matrimony upon facts, realistic expectations, and unconditional love. That is deeper than sex. We have a strong intimacy whether physical sex happens or not. Great discussion King Stephen!! Love ya 🤣🤗♥️♥️

• I wish people would laugh about it more, maybe laughing can help some people open up and talk about it. It’s not a “bad” thing, it’s the cycle of life.

  • Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

• I tried w/ him. At 55, & dating, my sex drive is high. We talked about his ED. We tried pills from the health food store. I suggested a doctor. I even wanted to make an appointment for him. He confessed that he has diabetes, and there may be a relation & he doesn't want to be on medication. I can't argue with another's health. Needless to say, we are no longer together.

  • 🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

• If a man loves and cares about you- he’ll want to do whatever it takes to fix it. Mine does…

  • The problem is that some women will go elsewhere to get it

  • Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • Not really. I loved and cared a lot about this man I was dating. I did everything I could, but he didn't want to get help. I offer to go with him to the doctor. He would lie to me that he made an appointment than when I asked how did it go. He made excuses that he couldn't go because something came up. This happened several times. I stayed with him for over 6 years, but I hated him lying to me about getting help. I was willing, but unfortunately, he wasn't.

  • Thanks for your good job.

  • @tmo4052  Women who value their man and their relationship will hang in there as long as the man is actively trying to get help. But if he's in denial and dragging his feet, yes, going elsewhere for sexual gratification progressively becomes an option.

• I dated a guy with this issue recently. He was 52 and 30 pounds over weight. I asked him to get serious about losing weight (I'm already a health nut), he refused and said that I should love him the way he was. I broke up with him. no regrets.

  • A question if you’re a health not why you were speaking to a man who was 30 lb overweight if he’s 52 why at 52 is he suddenly going to want to change the habits that he’s had for 52 years
    I’m at the age you are why are you meeting and entertaining men that you know do you not meet your current lifestyle it’s weird

  • This sounds a bit cold the way you wrote out the interaction

  • @@Khadiyah01 Because he was a kind man. Very smart. Fun to be around. Mature and ready and willing to commit, loyal. But he wasn’t interested in eating a healthy diet with me and working out regularly. Sad really, I just wanted him to be healthy, to not have a stroke or heart attack. And yes, to be able to maintain an erection.

  • ​@@brooklynjade But why get with him in the first place if you knew a more physically fit guy was what you wanted? You wasted that man's time

  • That’s tough, I guess it would be different if he had a health issue he couldn’t control. However being overweight (something you can control), I don’t know. My question is, was he already like that when you met him? If so, yes you’re wrong for telling him to lose weight.

• 🤔...If my future husband have this problem...I will not allow him not being able to rise to the occassion to come between our connection. 🤣

  • Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️