When A MAN Is Not Financially Stable Do THESE 5 Things
When A MAN Is Not Financially Stable Do THESE 5 Things… Whether you’re dating or in a relationship, it’s crucial to know what not to do and what to do when a man is not financially stable. It's essential to understand that when a man is not financially stable, it can impact various aspects of his life, including his mental well-being and overall happiness. Take heed of these dating tips, and watch the entire video to learn what to do when he’s not financially stable.
When a man is not financially stable, it will increase stress as he may constantly worry about meeting basic needs like housing, food, and healthcare. But, even when a man is not financially stable, his love, like a stubborn weed, can push through the cracks, seeking the sun. I want you to understand men better to know that when a man is not financially stable, the warmth of his embrace can turn icy.
Dating a man that's not financially stable will hinder his social mobility, making it challenging for him to explore new experiences. When you date a broke guy, everyday decisions will be more difficult, and sometimes even basic necessities can become elusive. If you embrace this relationship advice for women, you will know what to do when a man is not financially stable.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful and that you can enjoy dating and have a fulfilling, healthy relationship.
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Hunty! You better preach! I cannot date potential, I need to see work & his own vision!! Staying single until a king is crowned!❤️❤️❤️
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Now this is the video I’ve been looking for! Me and this guy have been going steady/developing a relationship from a friendship for the past year. He is now experiencing some financial hardships (the past few months). He has become distant, our communication/routine has changed drastically; He’s def made it clear that he doesn’t want me to over stretch myself in anyway. He is also a Godly man, so he is fasting and trying to gain clarity from God, but I feel so triggered rn b/c it wasn’t made CLEAR that he wanted to step away from us, so I just decided to remove myself. I hope he knows I didn’t want to.
Dear sister, maybe he is stressed out and depressed… That’s why the communication has dropped off. May I encourage you to let him know you are there to be a listening ear. Your last sentence concerned me…. He may get the wrong idea why you removed yourself.. speak to him from your heart…
🙏 I hope you reach the point of truly doing what is best.
If you are stressed out and depressed. You have my attention. Do you need a listening ear? I’m here for you.
Talk to that man and be open and honest. Be sure to do it from a healthy place. Sadly, when men fully define themselves by their job and/or have no safety net, this kind of stuff happens. I personally went through this a long time ago and could have managed it better.
Don’t walk away with any regrets. You can do that by being in a healthy place internally. When coming from that place, you’re in a better place for dialogue.
It sounds like he is going through a lot, but consider this a blessing. It’s an opportunity to see if he is capable of dialogue which is very much needed for a long-term relationship. If you taking the lead with being vulnerable, healthily and he also opens up, then great! If not, you may have dodged a bullet.
Don’t assume. Seize the opportunity to start the clarity conversation. Best wishes sis!
Awww this is my situation too except we have a child but didn’t get to know each other thurlly & take the next stage in a commitment. He told for me to not worry about him he’s alive and building on himself. We r far apart atm but soon to be closer. I feel left out in the cold and here and there text him but he’s not saying anything. Am I doing anything wrong?
I dealt with 5 years of this. Gambled the first 3 and offered no financial support.. NONE. He recently left because I “didn’t respect him”.
It is not sustainable. You will eventually lose respect and behave totally out of character only to be blamed at the end.
It definitely isn’t an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
You kind of are to blame because that’s how you met him and it was okay then. So why not now?
@Inijj5162 U r so right! I dealt with a similar type of person. Like Stephan said, being so independent b4 him, I unconsciously did everything and footed the majority of the bills, for it to come crashing down over finances and me feeling resentful towards him. I never disrespected him or called him out of his name…yet he blames me for the breakup and his life having a negative financial snowball effect after us. Smh
@@QueenMFowlerknow what you mean, they love to blame for their short comings.
He didn’t respect you OR HIMSELF! RIDICULOUS! Proud of you for getting the trash out of your house!
“providing is not just financial” yes!! Totally agree!!
You’re absolutely right!
Okay, he don’t have a job but he goes grocery shopping etc .I still worry about how we will afford basic necessities. Don’t even have a car and still ain’t married 4 kids and 11 years later.
@@MariaDelCarmennn You don’t know because you’ve enabled this 5th child (your baby daddy) to live off you for 11 years. Grocery shipping? Groceries can be delivered these days… he’s doing the bare minimum WITH YOUR MONEY!
Idk how you’re gonna get out that either aside from putting him on child support or something. Good luck indeed!
A lot of them perpetrate to have dreams and goals when you first meet them and down the road you discover that they were just future faking.
Sounds like a narcissist
Yes
Exactly
Leave it’s that simple, my ex said he needed to get himself together and he loves me to much to have me wait on him ,he didn’t want me around while he was getting himself together. It was hard but I respect him for seeing my value . That was 4 months ago, I keep myself busy and to tell the truth I’m enjoying being single 😊 relationships is hard work!!!!
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I admire how you don’t mind keeping it real and being blunt. You mentioned some men are lazy. Thank you for not making excuses for men. They need to be called out. I appreciate your messages are delivered to educate men and women.
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Men gets called out more times than not
You are so correct Stephan. A brother told me just recently, “A woman should only be mothering their own child”. It made so much sense. My marriage failed because he just became complacent, i got exhausted providing for all of us for 11 yrs. Ladies, always look for a man’s character. Look for a king, and not a prince.
You are so right! My ex kept switching jobs all the time and didn’t have a financial plan for the future.
@@vaclinciapounds8859 Godbless you sister. When God blessed me with my present fiance, that’s when i realized more everything that i had put on that table from my past relationship. My fiance right now is the total opposite, allowed me to regain myself from that past trauma. And now i trully feel loved and taken cared of. There are still good men out there. God will also bless you with one. Pls dont give up hope.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
Oh wow 11 years? I ran out of my ex after 3 years😢
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He is absolutely right!!! We are not bad people for not wanting to go through that.
Absolutely!
This is so accurate. Sometimes guys are nice too and they will just play along like they want to go with the flow but they secretly don’t and they secretly let her carry the brunt by just doing the bare minimum and playing like they have the same vision when they really don’t care at all but they also don’t want to see that woman with another man and they are too insecure to stay alone 😊
Relationships require more than just being faithful and being a nice person.
Most definitely!
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Exactly
This is the video I needed. My son has been living at home and not applying himself, won’t keep a job. This applies to them as well. Mothered take note. It time for my son to get it together. This is/was a wake up call!
I’m happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
I just told a whole group of women the same about their kids last night!
Ooh no. Even if he has ADHD, he needs to get his affairs together & get going.
Yes. A man must come with their own plan first. If this does not happen, you will be carrying the man, vision ,house car , kids, and bills, which will then lead to bitterness and resentment
I am in this exact situation, have been helping and helping and now I’m burnt out and exhausted
Exactly
You’re absolutely right!
Yes and ladies don’t let these men hold you back from enjoying life because they can’t afford to enjoy it with you. If they love you enough they will level up to meet you and your needs. Don’t stoop!
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My dad just told me that !
@@MeetStephanSpeaks not a problem! You helped me in my healing/transformation process a lot! Thank you for everything you do!
@@elonajones13 listen to daddy!
Yes!
It’s too draining ! And at my age I just don’t have the patience. I can’t babysit like that and I gotta be truthful .
I feel you, it definitely isn’t an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏🏼
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Send him a short 3-word message like “I dont know what to expect at this moment.”
It sounds very honest, but it’s open-minded. The shorter the better.
Then he is supposed to say something… there are many options for answers.
If his behavior is avoidant or too casual, you may say I have too much work this week, it will make him think of much proper or accurate answer or be honest.
You will know whether he is just flirting because it’s Holidays time or whether he is able to think seriously.
That you are not someone who buys a cheap product randomly bought in some street, for 1000 dollars. 🙂
Maybe say I have to visit my siblings and their kids, or prepare some gifts something very joyful. etc. He will realize that you are very much family-oriented and that he probably should be family oriented if he wants to be with you seriously, because family is happiness.
Teach yourself this mindset: wishing him happiness no matter what but not taking all his words to seriously unless he means sit seriously and wants to build a honest with you, not just have casual forgettable conversations, then he may eventually find himself in sweet spot as well. 🙂 because our brain is too addicted to emotions without us realizing it.
If a man does not have a plan, he is not mature enough to be in a relationship. It is different if they run into financial difficulty along the way… because things change. The test then for both people is how to adapt. This calls for some level of maturity 🤔
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
I’m single by choice because I don’t settle anymore and I put God first in everything I do now and I know my worth.
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It’s like dealing with a emotional broken man that is no financially stable