When A MAN Is Not Financially Stable Do THESE 5 Things

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• It's like dealing with a emotional broken man that is no financially stable

• I'm single by choice because I don't settle anymore and I put God first in everything I do now and I know my worth.

  • Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

• If a man does not have a plan, he is not mature enough to be in a relationship. It is different if they run into financial difficulty along the way... because things change. The test then for both people is how to adapt. This calls for some level of maturity 🤔

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  • Send him a short 3-word message like "I dont know what to expect at this moment."
    It sounds very honest, but it's open-minded. The shorter the better.
    Then he is supposed to say something... there are many options for answers.
    If his behavior is avoidant or too casual, you may say I have too much work this week, it will make him think of much proper or accurate answer or be honest.
    You will know whether he is just flirting because it's Holidays time or whether he is able to think seriously.
    That you are not someone who buys a cheap product randomly bought in some street, for 1000 dollars. :)
    Maybe say I have to visit my siblings and their kids, or prepare some gifts something very joyful. etc. He will realize that you are very much family-oriented and that he probably should be family oriented if he wants to be with you seriously, because family is happiness.
    Teach yourself this mindset: wishing him happiness no matter what but not taking all his words to seriously unless he means sit seriously and wants to build a honest with you, not just have casual forgettable conversations, then he may eventually find himself in sweet spot as well. :) because our brain is too addicted to emotions without us realizing it.

  • HALO 😇

• It’s too draining ! And at my age I just don’t have the patience. I can’t babysit like that and I gotta be truthful .

  • I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏🏼

• Yes and ladies don’t let these men hold you back from enjoying life because they can’t afford to enjoy it with you. If they love you enough they will level up to meet you and your needs. Don’t stoop!

  • Yes!

  • @@elonajones13 listen to daddy!

  • @@MeetStephanSpeaks not a problem! You helped me in my healing/transformation process a lot! Thank you for everything you do!

  • My dad just told me that !

  • Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate hearing from you

• Yes. A man must come with their own plan first. If this does not happen, you will be carrying the man, vision ,house car , kids, and bills, which will then lead to bitterness and resentment

  • You're absolutely right!

  • Exactly

  • I am in this exact situation, have been helping and helping and now I’m burnt out and exhausted

• This is the video I needed. My son has been living at home and not applying himself, won’t keep a job. This applies to them as well. Mothered take note. It time for my son to get it together. This is/was a wake up call!

  • Ooh no. Even if he has ADHD, he needs to get his affairs together & get going.

  • I just told a whole group of women the same about their kids last night!

  • I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

• Relationships require more than just being faithful and being a nice person.

  • Exactly

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  • Most definitely!

• This is so accurate. Sometimes guys are nice too and they will just play along like they want to go with the flow but they secretly don't and they secretly let her carry the brunt by just doing the bare minimum and playing like they have the same vision when they really don't care at all but they also don't want to see that woman with another man and they are too insecure to stay alone 😊