When A Man Is TRULY SERIOUS About You, He’ll Ask THESE 4 Questions!

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• Love is without question i believe it should be given at it's best without condition. I Don't feel it's my position nor place to say what one should or shouldnt do. i would Never wish to insult the intelligence of My man in such a way . If I don't complment you simply its your decision to make . i don't worry about such things . for that is outside of My control for i to determine for someone else. However I know This if you' happen to be Loved by Me it isn't fickle . Or sometime ish you are More than Lucky you are indeed Blessed . Of This I am sure only why ?Because that is how I am . An how I choose to carry myself .

• This video popped up right on time for me. I’m an independent single mom who’s been feeling overwhelmed lately. I’m not sure if I even want to date but in my heart I do pray God sends me the right companion willing to offer help. I don’t even mean financially but I genuinely would love a companion and someone willing to help me in my day to day. ❤

  • Yeah me too! 🥰❤️

  • Your companion is on the way. It'll happen when you aren't thinking about it.

• My ex asked me about what I wanted in a relationship & if I wanted kids & how many BUT I had to prompt him to recognize that he wasn’t asking much about me in terms of my dreams, goals, aspirations particularly regarding my career/business. He began to once I raised the concern, but what he never did was ask me if I needed help even if it was an obvious need that he could fill that would not require any financial investment - just his time. For me this was a huge red flag. We dated for 6mos.

• *When a man is truly serious about you, he seeks to understand you on a deeper level through these four questions.*

  • Yes!!!

• 5:55 yes, being honest and forthcoming will bring out the true intentions of others. At least you can say you gave it a 100% effort and the ball is in their court if they choose to pursue you, play you or back off. I think it’s easier to accept whatever outcome when you know you were 100.

• Key insights:

  💭 The difference between a man who is serious about you and a man who is wasting your time is that a serious man will ask you deep questions about your goals, dreams, and aspirations, showing genuine interest in getting to know you on a deeper level.
  💑 When a man asks what you are looking for in a relationship, it demonstrates his seriousness and desire to gain clarity on the situation.
  💡 Asking the question "What are you looking for in a relationship?" shows genuine interest in understanding the other person's desires, needs, and standards.
  💑 When a man is truly serious about you, he will make an effort to understand and meet your needs, as long as they are reasonable and within his capabilities.
  🤔 When a man asks about the number of kids you want, it indicates that he is evaluating you as a potential partner on a deeper level, showing a high likelihood of seriousness in the relationship.
  🤝 This question demonstrates a man's desire to take the burden off your back and provide the support you need, emphasizing his commitment to being there for you.
  💕 Providing and doing things for you is a way for a serious and caring man to express his love.
  💞 When someone truly cares about you, they want to provide value and support without expecting anything in return.

  • ❤

• Ladies, if a man doesn’t have goals or aspirations for his life, run. Not only does he need to have them, but he needs to take action to have them accomplished.

  The last man I dated was puzzled when I asked him if he had ever heard of a five year plan. He hadn’t, and he had zero interest in learning about what they were.

  The relationship ended for other reasons, but the next man I date needs to have goals and structures in place to help him reach his goals.

  I have no interest in any man who has no clear picture of what his life will look like.

• It is so sad that a relationship is a job. I am completely done with trying to make one work. The energy is not worth it!

  • Same here

• 1. What are your goals, dreams or aspirations?
  2. What are you looking for in a relationship?
  3. Do you want kids and how many?
  4. Do you need help with anything?

  • @@lean-angelygazzingan5893yep… there’s no guarantee

  • It's funny how I'm the one who asked the first question several times because all I wanted was to know him more 😂😂

  • Thank you 🎉

  • ​@@lean-angelygazzingan5893Playas know HOW to play the game 🙂🙂

  • he ask this but still ghosted me

• I've loved my wife more than anything and it's as though she has been hurt by other people that have been in her life so much that she pushes her hurtful baggage on me.I love her so I try to look over it and work through it as best I can.I don't ever want to feel as though I've given up on her or our children knowing no one will love and care for them like me.

  • Pls seek therapy for both of you. You need to book an appointment so she can address her trauma. She might be displaying things that she doesn’t even realize are trauma responses anyway. If you loved her and have kids with her, I’m sure she loved you at some point or still loves you. Pls don’t give up💙