Why GROWING To Love A Man Doesn’t WORK
Why GROWING To Love A Man Doesn't WORK… Growing to love a man doesn't work because authentic love should emerge naturally, not as a result of effort or conscious decision-making. I want you to understand why growing to love a man doesn't work so you can acknowledge that forcing feelings may often lead to dissatisfaction. Take heed to this dating advice and watch the whole video to understand why growing to love a man doesn't work.
When you grow to love a man, it will often result in a facade of affection rather than a genuine emotional connection because true love can't be manufactured through effort. I want you to learn why growing to love a man doesn't work and recognize that genuine love cannot be coerced or manufactured. Embrace this dating advice video to understand why growing to love a man doesn't work.
When you grow to love a man, you discover depths within yourself you never knew existed, but can you grow to love a man? Authentic love arises from compatibility and shared values rather than growing to love a man. This dating advice video will help you understand how to love a man and why growing to love a man doesn't work.
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I haven’t watched the entire YouTube, and I agree 100%. I did that for 5 years without marriage… lots of other disfunction on my part… he was a good looking man, lots of checks in the all the right boxes… but it’s just a terrible idea…major issues…✨💕✨🕊️✨💕✨
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Bless up brother!
Ya unless I’m super old but when we are young we want attraction
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It definitely won’t work for me if I’m not physically attracted to him. I need that desire to be stimulated EVERY time I look at him.
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Same. I’m not settling in any area.
I agree physically less attractive is definitely harder to work with. I should be excited about the man I’m with.
This seems to be on the other side of the spectrum of “if you get butterflies, he’s not the one.” There has to be balance in the triad of love connection, i.e. intimacy, passion, and commitment. Hoping to grow more into one aspect as the dominant basis of the relationship is not going to work. It feels so difficult to strike the golden balance in all three in this dating landscape, so sometimes people settle.
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Wasting each other’s time is the worst thing you could do, especially if your trying to grow to love your partner.. nothing has go wrong for you to just want to end things with him unexpectedly especially when you knew how you felt for him already in the beginning (potential regrets). Things could get better or worse over time. I agree with you on this Steph-fine😁. It won’t work.
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6:08 attractive attraction fuels action
Absolutely!
From his very first word straight to the last
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I totally agree with you, Stephan! My 18-year marriage ended in a divorce.
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There was literally a Reddit thread of a man finding out his wife never loving him or having any desire for him.
The level of gaslighting and delusion being disclosed in the thread was infuriating
It definitely isn’t an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
I agree with you, Stephan.
I don’t believe another person’s potential is within my control. I feel that my partner should have his own dreams and goals. I do not believe a person can change another person. Great topic! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and wisdom. ❤
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every single thing you said is 100% true. Wish I would have known myself and him sooner.
I’m sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
So true! People are settling!!!
It definitely isn’t an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
I haven’t even watched the whole thing but I agree with the title. I dated someone who isn’t what I typically go for, but he had other great qualities that I felt were what I am looking for. However, I noticed very quickly I was NOT attracted to him and against family opinions, I cut it off because I didn’t think it’d be fair to him or me in the long run.
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Thank you for that last point! I knew I made the right decision by breaking up with a man, but I was feeling scared that I’m being too picky and sillily chasing a love feeling. But it truly would have been me tolerating him. I Am getting older, but I’d rather be old and single than old and tolerating my partner. Phew! I’m gonna be older anyway, so I might as well be happy.
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Woooweee, just left 18yrs of this, been divorced for 4 yrs now, due to infidelity on his end, everything you said I went through from beginning to finish of my marriage… recently I have someone from my past who wants to get back with me, but however we don’t share the same love for God, the guy is one foot out and one foot in, he’s a great person, just not the one for me… this video serves as second confirmation from God as an answer to my question like an hour ago before seeing this video, I don’t want to fall into the “Potential” thing anymore, I want a Godly marriage, because I know this time it’s God putting it together and not me, it will remain until we both pass away from this life time, because that’s what I want the second and Last time around, and I will pay more attention to all the red flags and promptings that God puts in place to know if it’s God’s person for me or not, it’s rough out in these courting streets, but I know God got me… Thank you for your obedience MOG. God Bless!
Btw: I miss back in the day love, Period!!… not this new stuff.
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“Back in the day,” people didn’t necessarily love their spouse, nor did they expect to
@@Heyu7her3 hey sis, I appreciate the feedback, but however, that wasn’t the case for some couples, that statement may apply to some couples and people, but not all, but I feel where you coming from. God Bless🙏🏾❤️
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I’m an 80’s baby, so back in the day would be like the 90’s for me… when it was my time for love around then in middle school and high school.
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You spoke truth… no desire, no attraction, no respect. No intimacy.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
I, 100% agree with you on this one! “Growing to love someone”….is a very BAD idea. Either love is there or it isn’t. Also, attraction whether it’s physical or personality-wise has to be present. I prefer both! NO exceptions! I LOVE affection! Hugs, kisses, cuddling, hand-holding, etc TOO much to sacrifice that.
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I know many cultures believe in “growing into love” because relationships are looked at as a “business.” To me, nothing beats having an honest spiritual love that should come first so that it can last 4ever. Great video‼️🔥🔥🔥
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