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Why Holding Back Makes You Invisible

If you keep holding back, people won’t even know you’re an option. 👀

I get it — right now you’re holding back and playing it safe out of respect. You don’t want to make them feel awkward.

You think you’re playing it safe — being respectful, not rushing in — but from their point of view, they assume you’re friendly, not interested.

The cost of holding back?
⚡ No feedback. No spark. No progress.
You can’t improve what you never start.

Getting visible doesn’t mean being pushy — it means showing intent.
Say hello. Be clear that you like them. Be okay getting a real response.

It also means showing someone that people like you exist.
It’s time to represent the considerate, socially intelligent, and attractive person that you are.